Sandhya, be happy and fly - Page 2

👏👏 👏 👏 well said Geetfan38. You have really spoken what was in my heart.. hopefully this is in the cv's hearts and minds as well. im sick of girls deciding to give up their lives for their husbands, esp unsupportive, cowardly and maa-ka-chamcha type husbands.
sandhya needs to get out of that damned house, that HYPOCRITICAL house, where chavi is able to study, but not sandhya, and soar. in fact, i was pretty mad at her when she stood there and took all that was coming. i was fuming, actually. how DARE bhabo say all that abt educated girls! who is she to judge?

poor sandhya: she has achieved the dream of all students (HELLO! 3RD IN RAJASTHAN?? NO JOKE MAN!!) and instead of being happy, she has to listen to that old hag's rants!

sandhya shuld get out there, become the officer she wanted to be, walk into that house years later and show that retarded old lady what she has become, a responsible police officer who is in charge of maintaining law and order in the country.
im sure people like bhabho exist, and thats why this serial is made. all i hope is, this serial will show women like bhabho the power of educated women rather than showing how easily they are suppressed by society.

I agree with every one who said Sandhya should fly with her freedom. But she doesn't b'se the show must go on! Anyone in her situation should tackle it logically and practically and seize the opportunity. She won't go not because she really loves Suraz. She won't go not because she has learnt this and that values in Bhaboo's house. Surely she has learnt to achieve her dreams from her parents and to be self dependent and do that which also is good for suraj. Even Suraj must not have liked it after knowing his wife is more educated than himself. How is he going to conduct himself in the future? Especially after all the initial attractions or whatever they are between them both are finished? This is going to nag him his whole life so would it for Sandhya. This is not a relation between equals and our society is not appreciative of a marriage between high educated wife and less educated husband. It might probably raise more serious issues like for ex: linking Sandhya to illegetimate relation. which would be more dangerous in the future.

I just wish they wouldn't show being educated in a derogitary way, they should show Sandhya's character being strong enough to walk out of the house, carry on with her education and earn her own living. I still don't get why she didn't walk out earlier. She had money, she clearly wasn't happy with her sitution, and now all of a sudden she's all emotional about leaving and begging for forgiveness! She hasn't done anything wrong, yeah okay she lied. Big deal. That wasn't anything to do with her, and was her brother's fault.And why is it such a big deal if a girl can't cook? She isn't going to die. And neither are her family members as a result of it. Her Mother-in-Law can always teach her. They act like it's a sin or something. Move with the times people!

Hi, great to see the other side of the coin, so to speak.😉

Originally posted by: klloyd

This is not a relation between equals and our society is not appreciative of a marriage between high educated wife and less educated husband. It might probably raise more serious issues like for ex: linking Sandhya to illegetimate relation. which would be more dangerous in the future.

@klloyd - You are right our society does not appreciate a marriage between a highly educated wife and less educated husband! But why should it? Why does one get married - to have a life partner - not just permission from the society to have S**. If you want a life partner you are supposed to pick someone who is your equal in status, education, philosophy etc. That is why Indian parents prefer the "arranged marriage". In fact that is why Santosh wanted an uneducated girl so she will be compatible... in that household...
I say CVs dump the bumpkin, in today's India people get divorced for much lesser reasons, I am not saying that is a good thing, but this is a case of complete incompatibility. We have enough old movie stories where the smart poor girl is traded into the family as a wife for the retarded son, in lieu for the payments owed by the girl's family. So Sandhya being an IT age Indian, must become an IPS officer, she has enough boxes of jewelry in her hands to help her get by, varne voh zaver kiss kaam aate hain? I say throw the money the stupid woman gave you in her face...

I think Suraj must learn something from his wife and go get himself an education as well. Kya uski koi ambitions nahi hain - zindagi bhar halwaii rahega kya? 20 years from now they can meet up, and show the people of Hamunath nagar what the value of education is.. In fact I say enroll all the women in the schools😉, they won't have time for stupidity and evil plans and Meena's husband can cook for everyone in the house!
YICKS! if she stays that is like telling every girl - in Rajasthan/India/WW where ever this show is watched - that you were born to cook, clean and raise children in return you will have a roof over your head! We have seen what happens when she stays in a number of old movies and as you suggested the smae stupid illegitimate relationship nonsense😡 - kuch alag se karo! If we want the young democracy to thrive and not just survive we need education to be a basic need like clean water and food in the stomach!

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

So all in all, though she wants her dream of becoming a cop coming true, not at the expense of throwing aside this relationship. For that I applaud her. Its easy breaking a relationship but its very hard to build and maintain one. At the end of the day, a career is not everything, you need other things in life - love, friendship, family and etc. Then you are a totally rounded person as well as a healthy one.

I was one heck of a romantic in my teenage years, but looks like I have turned into a feminist and for that I am proud today! This relationship is not one made in heaven, it was made by a selfish, myopic brother. She wants to save this farse of a relationship, then I hope she does not become a IPS officer, because we need people in power to have a proper logical thinking brain! Besides to become a well rounded person with love, family etc - she needs a different family, friendship she can get outside the family.. Also does it mean that any unmarried successful woman with a career is not a well rounded person, do you need an abusive MIL and co-sister to make you well rounded?
@Dreamygal301 sorry you are at the receiving end... it is a Saturday and I have a lot of time and I am passionate about women's education!

Originally posted by: geetfan38

I was one heck of a romantic in my teenage years, but looks like I have turned into a feminist and for that I am proud today! This relationship is not one made in heaven, it was made by a selfish, myopic brother. She wants to save this farse of a relationship, then I hope she does not become a IPS officer, because we need people in power to have a proper logical thinking brain! Besides to become a well rounded person with love, family etc - she needs a different family, friendship she can get outside the family.. Also does it mean that any unmarried successful woman with a career is not a well rounded person, do you need an abusive MIL and co-sister to make you well rounded?
@Dreamygal301 sorry you are at the receiving end... it is a Saturday and I have a lot of time and I am passionate about women's education!