Jeet should stop forcing his parenting on pinky

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Luv4games

@Luv4games

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

I get that jeet wants to be friends with his kids and let them make all their decisions but dont force that view on pinky...if she wants to be strict let her be...she is also their mother...she has a right to parent them and make decisions for them...if pinky does not like raashi going to party then let her think that way...dont give your lecture of trust...honestly that will apply to raavi or somebody who is a little older...you cannot let your 8 grade daughter go to a farm house party with people she doesnt know based on trust...rasshi is a kid she doesnt have that capability to say no to stuff...just look at ginny how can sweety trust her and let her go to party when she only wants to go there because her friends are going...what if her friends ask her to drink or make out with a boy or something...she will do that too to fit in with them because she is too young to know what is right or wrong..jeet trusts raashi fine...maybe he forgot how much raashi lies to get her way and get out of trouble...but does he also trust the people around her...does he trust sameera too and every other kid there...what if some guy forces himself on raashi or ginny..what if somebody puts something in their drink...what if a kid get killed...all these things can happen...especially since sameera has already planned to do something bad to them...this is one thing where i totally support sweety ji...i wish pinky had put her foot down and not given raashi permission to go...

by no means am i saying it is wrong to trust your kids but at a certain age...at that young age kids can get easily influenced or somebody else can harm them...you cant let your kid go somewhere alone at night because you trust them and know they wont go anywhere bad but what if somebody else kidnaps them...

also jeet needs to stop being mad at everyone else because he screwed up himself he should be happy pinky is so supportive coz many other wives would be mad that he put their future in jeopardy based on an impulse decision.

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Binge

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Posted: 13 years ago

Jeet seemed to be in a very bad mood yesterday. 😆 Wont blame him, he's already in a soup with no job and great responsibilities plus he sees that he's the hot discussion on the phone. I have observed... he's the one who would remove all his frustration on wife and elders and not the kids. :P But loved Pinky's dialogues to him..Muje toh jhooth bolne ki aadat hai na.. 👏

I don't think that Sweety doesn't trust her kids, she is well-aware of what her kids might go through when left loose.. instead of telling it on the face to her friends, I think she should have spoken about it with Ginny first.. that farmhouse parties may have drinks, maybe boys and activities that are not meant for kids. When Sweety refused directly, Ginny became even more desperate to taste the forbidden fruit(in this case, attend the party)

Jeet thinks that when he trusts his kids, they would think twice before doing something that would put their parents to shame which is right, but they should be told as well, of where to draw the line.

The best thing is both Ginny and Raashi are innocent from heart and have no such inclinations.. so I am waiting to see of what they do when faced by such circumstances.

Rocky, the less said the better! 😳 😳

Jeet and Sweety are two characters that I guess all can relate to.. both are at the extreme but behave how usually we react in normal life situations. 😊

Edited by Binge - 13 years ago

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chocobear

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Posted: 13 years ago

Jeet was in a horrible mood yesterday and that permission to Raashi for farmhouse all night party was more out of anger towards SweetyG. And yes I too feel he should stop forcing Pinky to be friends with the kids, to trust them and all. I mean trust them definitely but don't trust the people around them. You can always trust your kids but how can u trust strangers and a girl(sameera) whom you have never met? Jeet's reason was illogical and his giving permission to Raashi more out of anger towards SweetyG. And Pinky too just listens to everything that Jeet says. It's like she has no say in any matter. She will have to do whatever Jeet says. Pinky too should be clear n tell Jeet that we don't have the same approach towards parenting and that is fine. Let me be a bit strict with the kids. I think Pinky too is at fault for not making it clear and supporting her kids as well as her husband in whatever they do. She never tries to correct them. she should have corrected Jeet for leaving his job on impulse. But no all she does is cry and tells her husband to leave that job. Come on!

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Luv4games

@Luv4games

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

i agree with you guys..of course sweety trust her kids and loves them to death and would do anythign for their own benefit...it is funny when i was younger and my parents refused to let me go places saying we dont trust people around you but of course we trust u...i never got the meaning of it and thought they were just making excuses but now i understand exactly what they meant...both raashi and ginny are innocent but at the same time want to fit it with their group..and they are not at that age to think to know what is right or wrong...jeet think if he trusts his kids then they will be good but it is the opposite..his kids think that they have no boundaries...another thing i didnt like was how jeet in front of raashi told pinky that he doesnt agree with her...kids dont need to see all that...how is raashi going to be scared of pinky when she knows she can get her way with dad...i am curious as to where jeet draws the line between being a friend and parent...also i get that he is angry ..but why is he sitting at home...shoudlnt he be looking for another job...

P.S. i like all parents but lucky ji is my fav..he is soo funny...love how his gives up when sweety ji starts lolll

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chocobear

@chocobear

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Posted: 13 years ago

Luv4games

yeah i also love luckyji's character. He just zips his mouth once sweetyG starts and this is what i love about him. 😆 He is just an audience when SweetyG starts. And yes SweetyG too trusts Ginny but she doesn't trusts the people around her.

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known as KAI, name is Jasmine

@Kai.

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Posted: 13 years ago

Jeet is a sensible parent when comparing to pinky in the earlier episodes but i guess he is really stressed out and is having ego issues with Sweety. If Raashi hadn't mentioned Sweety not giving permission i doubt if Jeet would have said in instance!! He wants to prove that he is a better parent then Sweety!!

Pinky is too mild, she should have stood her ground when she wasn't very happy abt the 'farmhouse' pary!! Secondly, Sameera is a new girl she is not even a friend of ginny / raashi letting her out that too to a far away place is just not safe!!

Rocky - when will this boy realize that lying to parents will only lead to TROUBLE!!!

I just wished Sweety made her concern more clear to both kids as to why she is not letting her on the farm house party. ...let's see how the story unfolds!😉

I would like share my experience, i was in 10th grade ours was not co education boys separate campus girls separate. On Valentine's day, Divya (my classmate) decided to have a party at an indian restaurant but for the entire class (all girls). She said only our class in invited no parents, siblings , cousins or friends allowed!! Divya's cousin Sandiya (she is known for her extra curricular activities) would also be attending. Both these girls did have boy friends from our school itself. She said we will celebrate valentine's day as friendship day!! 🤔

So, everyone got permission from her parents...i wasn't interested! I knew dad's wouldn't allow. My close friends were insisting that i ask dad if not they themselves will convince him! I said NO blankly (somehow i didn't like the idea of Divya along with sandiya organizing the party) Turns out i was the wiser one!😳

First day of school after weekend the whole class was mad at Divya - why??? Boys turned up in the restaurant and both the cousins were busy with their boy friends!! 😳 The parents who turned up early to pick her children were shocked!! They had a tough time explaining the situation Sandiya / Divya's parents are kool with whtever their girls do but the rest of class got earful from their parents without it even being their fault!

If i had gone then i wud be screwed for life! Dad wud surely give a long lecture on how we are different from such 'modern' girls and this incident would be brought up every time dad & i have an issue!😔 phhhewww!!

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@-Nightingale-

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Posted: 13 years ago

nice topic...

i agree..Jeet has brought up his ego between...Sweety is a set loose she just speaks without thinking much ...never intends to hurt anyone..but Jeet OMG he was mad..

I totally disagree with his thought of giving freedom n trusting...what trusting..if something happens...what he will say I trusted my kids...will it get back to the loss..

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Puja Nanda

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Posted: 13 years ago

right. i am totally on board with trusting one's kids but you can't trust the whole world. also can't ignore the tender age of these kids.

this blind trust needs to happen may be when the child has demonstarted mature actions and definately not a school going kid.

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Autumnn

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Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

Parents should never show they are on different wavelength to children. They can discussed difference of opinion later but never in front of the children. Pinky is submissive and thinks whatever Jeet says is correct. She should start discussing her views with him.

SweetG gives her opinions in a jiffy on whatever the issues crop up and she thinks if she says yes or no then it has to be followed cos she is the parent. She never tries to listen to her children feelings.

Parents should respect their Children opinions as well. Even if a parent wants to say no, give reasons to your child, why you are saying no. Dont just order them that just cos we are telling you no so no. Give justifiable reasons for the no and children even though disappointed will understand.

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Luv4games

@Luv4games

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: Kai.

i doubt ginny would understand after sweety tells her the reasons...i am not blaming her...i remember when my parents used to tell me that we dont trust people around you, or something bad could happen or you are young, at the time i didnt understand...i would just think they are giving excuses...but as we get older we can remember those reasons and realize that wait a minute they were so right...it all made sense...so even if sweety tells her everything she will still want to go and blame her mom for overacting...which is totally fine..ginny is too young to understand everything but i do think at least sweety will have soemthing to back her up...and in the meantime rocky is a little older so he could understand why mom is saying no and not take ginny secretly

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