DABH places a lot of emphasis on education. It is important and fundamental that every one receive education at least to graduation level. However, there are millions of people who are unable to get formal education or the opportunity to get professional education. That does not mean that they are not intelligent or lack brains or even lack skills. There has been a whole generation, almost all of our grand parents who did not go to college and amongst them women who were either illiterate or semi literate. But they were not uncouth, ill mannered or uncultured. They were skilled and very cultured.We are what we are today because of their values and vision.
They were also highly successful, visionaries and created great wealth. There are many examples of men and women who never went to college or did not complete their degrees but were highly successful- Bill Gates of Microsoft being one example, Steve Jobs of Apple, Raj Kapoor did not study beyond class 7 and neither has any one from his family ever completed school. Dhirubhai Ambani of Reliance was a school drop out and a petrol station attendant. Neither is his wife. Yet all of them were articulate, soft spoken, astute, clever and wise.
An example close to Bhabho's Rajasthan is the Birla group where until the present generation, no one had any formal education. But they had a strong Hindu beliefs and did much for the promotion of education, hinduism and charity.
Therefore, much as education is fundamental, necessary and important lack of it does not make a person uncouth, stupid and aggressive.
DABH is showing correctly that Sandhya does not hold anything against Suraj because he has not been to college. She respects and accepts him for his good values and character and his love for his family. So why have they portrayed Bhabho as complete harangue?