oki guys...
i had made this post few months back just after the adventorous jorney of MohUr before their marriage...somehow i had found ity pretty symbolic...
somehow most events have fitted into the pattern...
the parts in blue are from my original post😊
1.mohan agreeing to drop kastur reluctantly...this can be related to him saying yes for his marriage with kastur...though he might not do it willingly...but since he has no other option...he'll say yes!
we saw this happening...he was reluctant wen he got married
2. mohan moving at his own pace...kastur trying it very hard to keep up her pace with him!...for me it was that mohan's and kastur's way of leading life is different...mohan leads a fast life...whereas kastur lags a bit behind...but she'll make sure to keep it up with him...but nads pointed out to me that maybe mohan wants to move forward in life without her...but she'll not let go of him...atleast not that easily! in taxi their different tastes abt life...mohan initially notall interested in watever kastur was talking abt...but then kastur understands wat mohan likes(rain talks) and starts talking abt that...so she's kindof moulding the way he likes it...
i don't know how many of u will agree with me...but i have seen kastur make an effort to make this relationship work...wen mohan told her that he doesn't love her...its not that she just let go of him...but she has made an effort to win a place in his heart! infact...at present too we can see that kastur has been holding onto mohan inspite of knowing that he doesn't love her...the very fact that she love him and they r man and wife...gives her the will to fight sia
3. wen it starts raining...kastur comes running with her umbrella to shelter him...he appreciates her gesture...meaning that in future atleast he'll appreciate watever kastur does for him...and him moving forward without turning back to see if she was with him...kastur again almost running to get to him...same thing as point 2...but..mohan stops once...to check if she's fine...and then moves again...well here we can safely say that though mohan is oblivious of the fact that kastur is trying hard to cope up with him...its not that he ignores her completely! he makes it a point to check periodically to see if she's fine...a caring side of him!
no doubt that mohan has appreciated everything that kastur has been doing for him...infact he respects their relationship and does not tolerate anyone messing with it...be issaroj(he has stood up for kastur a number of times) or sia(he clearly told her not to joke on a serious issue like marriage)
hehas made it a point to keep checking on kastur...and knows wat disturbs her...and things that upset her!
4. again wen mohan breaks the queue and kastur is left behind...it shows that mohan will nottake the normal way to get his job done...though kastur ill be sticking to the rules and regulations
pretty evident wen mohan suggested they make an excuse for jagrata to go to new yr party...but kastur insisted on saying the truth...and stuck to the rules!
5. wen kastur is left behind at the stop...mohan makes an extra effort to get her back...symbolising...that though he may not be that attentive to her...but if kastur is left behind somewhere in life...where she has chances of losing touch with mohan...it'll be mohan who'll take that extra step to get her back to him...so that she feels secure with him
this is the point which i wanted to discuss...why do i feel that kastur will break down emotionally...and that day is not far...sia will constantly keep winning over her...and she might end with thinking mohan is not on her side...he has a liking or has started liking sia(though this is far from truth)...we have to keep in mind...that kastur is constantly reminded by both sia and saroj that she is not fit for mohan...this will definitely have an adverse effect on her confidence that mohan belongs to her and only her...maybe we might see her going away from mohan's life(very subtly of course)...and mohan feeling her absence...thisway hewill ultimately realise that watever he feels for kastur is not just responsibilty...but love...and seeing kastur not near him...he will be making that extra effort to make her feel loved...and make her understand the importance of her being in his life😊
6. in the bus wen mohan almost gets into a brawl...it showed mohan's aggressive attitude...wheras kastur will be the one who will be able to calm him down...
we did see during the new year party how kastur was able to calm him down
7. mohan's protectiveness towards kastur in the bus...clearly shows that he might not show or express it to her...but he is caring and protective towards her...and wen the time comes...he won't refrain from showing it...kastur going ahead in the crowd to get the ticket and then uncomfy in the crowd( kind of getting in trouble)...and mohan not saying anything to her...but his looks showing displeasure says it all
again...the new year event... he might tell her that he doesn't love her...but he has always been there for him wen she has needed him...and has always stood up for him...plus him saying that she is my wife...is a kind of open declaration😊
8. mohan inching closer towards kastur...kastur getting the wrong signal...has to the fact that mohan might come close to her under certain circumstances...and kastur will definitely be mistaking it as his love for her(atleast intially)
the date fiasco...kastur did get the wrong signals😆😆😆
9. the diverse views...kastur believes in god...mohan has a reason for not believing in things that easily!...him saving er from those drunk people...is another side of his protectivesness...though he expresses is in his own different way!
umm...they r like fire and ice...but wen they meet...they do sizzle ur screens😉😆
10.in the restaurant...he gives kastur the liberty to order for him...which means that he knows where kastur has certain right on him...and he'll not cheat her of enjoying those rights...him appreciating kastur's hand made food clearly indicates he'll be very public abt his opinion of her...atleast her good point...plus him not letting her go and get the water...means that knowingly he will never tolerate her landing in trouble...
we have seen mohan very clear on his views abt marriage...he know she is his wife...and he never deprives her of her rights as a wife(plzz do not bring ding dong issue here...coz maybe for mohan its love that is more important than just having a physical relationship without any feelings😊)...he has been public abt his likes for kastur...and...he tries to maintain a balance between saroj and kastur...so that she doesn't get into too much trouble...😊
i know u guys think i have gone mad today🤣but u can put the blame for this fiasco on sia🤣
Edited by -vandy- - 13 years ago