Ram is indifferent and Priya is lonely

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kavmuks

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Posted: 13 years ago

After Yesterday's episode I felt sad for Priya. She has become very lonely after her marriage. Before marriage the entire family used to depend on her .. Decisions were made with her and household routine were inclusive.

Look at her now .. she can't pour her heart to anyone .. not to her family .. not anyone from Ram's family .. not to Ram also.

Priya used to enjoy doing things for others .. cooking, helping .. here she does one thing and Ram raises this wall. I can imagine how hurt a person can be when the way Ram told her to keep away from her concerns. In real life such situation lead to lot of other unwanted things ... It is good that Priya is working.. can't imagine what else a women in her situation will do.

Ram - He loves family to the core but is still lonely at heart. He was raised as a provider ... he has never experienced the satisfaction of sharing his sadness . feelings .. Though he has stopped shouting and Yelling at Priya .. but his cold behaviour is equally hurting. I wonder Ram is mentally / psychologically blind of things around him.. he can't see love of family (Priya's dad's home), he can't see Priya's concern and a blessing, he can't see evil and selfish motives of 3 idiots ...it seems whatever he felt in Australia has just evaporated ..or he is just to scared of Priya silent impact on him which can make him give away his so called SECRET.

Shares your views friends ...

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neha445

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Posted: 13 years ago

i so agree ram has buit a ice wall around him his cold and indifffrent stature is understandable but irritatin as well to priya and us as well what has happened to the gud feel and awsome laughter i used to love replaced by it is just a bleak phase😭 ekta plz bring the charm of one of my favs shows bfore i go mad.

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LalitaLahiri

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Posted: 13 years ago

Very well written and exactly summarizes what is going on in Ram's mind.

I think we all keep on criticizing Ram's actions..but your one line "Ram was raised as a provider" is the key term ; which explains Ram's psychology exactly.

Your views on Priya are also correct.

Which is why I think a solution would be for Priya to approach Ram on basis of the friendship ring .. and coax Ram is getting back to their Australian closeness...and also promise that as a friend, she would never ask Ram about anything which disturbed him. Maybe that would calm Ram...

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chak

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Posted: 13 years ago

Yes u r absolutely right Kavmuks but v r angry on Ram v exactly do not know what went wrong with Ram either with Ape r Krishnaji only those moments will make us realises that who is wrong there r chances that it was a story made by Niharika and mamu towards KriApe Ram was the scapegoat ...anyways for all this confusion v hav 2 wait and watch the asliyat of ApeKri i feel if u hav any other opinion u can share it ...😭

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Shridevi Gaddam

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Posted: 13 years ago

neha and kavmuks, agree with you.

personally I am wondering how the Priya character is able to take Ram's iciness. I was questioning Ram, does he know what marriage means and before that does he know what is friendship ?

and before he signed up for "the so called compromised marriage" with Priya, did he not know what compromise means ? this marriage is totally skewed. Ram is not acting like a compromised husband a bit. It is Priya who is having to compromise with everything, his rudeness, intolerance, irate behaviour and high-mindedness.

Yesterday, if Priya did take care of him, what's wrong with that? Before a wife, she is also a woman. A woman's natural tendency is to nurture and this guy wants that to take away that birth right. What did he think, he married a statue, stone...actually I am unable to fathom what he thought when he said yes to marriage...that phere ho jayenge ...and then both will bid each other tata bye bye, you stay in your place and I will stay at mine. If the guy had the sense to think about convention, then at aleast for pretensions, why he is not keeping his manners.

Seems the story writers ran out of steam and instead of developing a blossoming love story, they want to keep this clueless behaviour going on so that there is no need to write any romantic script and the actors need not play it...seems so convenient for them. But hello you forgot the viewers here to whom you sold the story that its going to be wonderful falling in love between two hard-boiled personalities who missed their prime time...

yahan to aisa kuch dikhta hi nahi!!