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Suhana's Corner: Happiness tinged with a little sadness Tweet

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Hi everyone, I was shocked to learn that Bade Papa was living at our home in Delhi. I don't understand how could everyone take him back?

And how could Badi Ma accept him after suffering for years because of him? This situation is unfathomable. Meanwhile, this week I had to deal with a happy news and a tough situation too.

Our neighbours Sneha and Atul had to face a tough situation while getting admission for their kids in a school. Though educated, they can't talk in English which they feel is their handicap and as they wanted their kids to study in an English medium school, they had to give an interview- in English. Though Ishaan and I helped them practice English, Sneha was nervous and asked me to accompany her for the interview. When I saw that Sneha was struggling through the interview not because she didn't know the answer, but because the interviewer insisted she respond in English, I got angry.

I lectured the interviewer who gave English so much importance. Interview is meant to gauge the intelligence of parents, so why can't it be done in Hindi which she is comfortable in. Thankfully, they understood my point and obliged. Sure English is important but it isn't the be all and end all. Fortunately, the kids got admission.

I came home to some good news as the family informed us that Panna di is pregnant. I called her and was delighted to exchange information but I was taken aback when she told me that Bade Papa is living in our house now. I was shocked and wondered why no one told me about all this. I called Badi Ma immediately and demanded answers. I told her I was coming to Delhi, but she pacified me and said she didn't want to disturb us as we were so far away.

I tried my best to remind her about her suffering, her tears and her sacrifices over the years due to his absence. I kept thinking of all the moments Badi Ma and I shared when she spoke about her life and her pain and I simply cannot understand why he has returned after all these years.

I don't think a husband who leaves his wife deserves to simply waltz back into her life as he pleases. It's simply not fair and women should not put up with it at all.

What do you think Badi Maa should do? Do write to me at suhana@starplus.in. You can also join me on Facebook or follow me on Twitter. Don't forget to catch Sasural Genda Phool every Mon-Fri at 7:30 PM.

STARPlus.in news | Tuesday, December 06, 2011

Thanks enjoyed reading
Also thought I'd mention that sneha and atul are not sushaam neighbours but atul is ishaan's cousin
Please do correct me I might be wrong

thanks for sharing 😊😃

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Suhana's Corner: Happiness tinged with a little sadness Tweet

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Hi everyone, I was shocked to learn that Bade Papa was living at our home in Delhi. I don't understand how could everyone take him back?

And how could Badi Ma accept him after suffering for years because of him? This situation is unfathomable. Meanwhile, this week I had to deal with a happy news and a tough situation too.

Our neighbours Sneha and Atul had to face a tough situation while getting admission for their kids in a school. Though educated, they can't talk in English which they feel is their handicap and as they wanted their kids to study in an English medium school, they had to give an interview- in English. Though Ishaan and I helped them practice English, Sneha was nervous and asked me to accompany her for the interview. When I saw that Sneha was struggling through the interview not because she didn't know the answer, but because the interviewer insisted she respond in English, I got angry.

I lectured the interviewer who gave English so much importance. Interview is meant to gauge the intelligence of parents, so why can't it be done in Hindi which she is comfortable in. Thankfully, they understood my point and obliged. Sure English is important but it isn't the be all and end all. Fortunately, the kids got admission.

I came home to some good news as the family informed us that Panna di is pregnant. I called her and was delighted to exchange information but I was taken aback when she told me that Bade Papa is living in our house now. I was shocked and wondered why no one told me about all this. I called Badi Ma immediately and demanded answers. I told her I was coming to Delhi, but she pacified me and said she didn't want to disturb us as we were so far away.

I tried my best to remind her about her suffering, her tears and her sacrifices over the years due to his absence. I kept thinking of all the moments Badi Ma and I shared when she spoke about her life and her pain and I simply cannot understand why he has returned after all these years.

I don't think a husband who leaves his wife deserves to simply waltz back into her life as he pleases. It's simply not fair and women should not put up with it at all.

What do you think Badi Maa should do? Do write to me at suhana@starplus.in. You can also join me on Facebook or follow me on Twitter. Don't forget to catch Sasural Genda Phool every Mon-Fri at 7:30 PM.

STARPlus.in news | Tuesday, December 06, 2011

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BM should atleast say that excuse me dont make me an excuse for your stay if she has no feelings for him which BP keeps doing every episode shailu shailu shailu making her an excuse for his stay and which the whole family is now making an excuse for if she doesnt want him she should say atleast that Mr. EK plz keep me out of this and the whole family would know her side thats all required she doesnt have to do anything because she is right as actually this house is of BP not BM so only BP's family has the right to throw him out or keep him in but she has to say something like that atleast so they know what she feels instead she is the one after todays epi who is thinking what everyone else wants like will i be responsible from taking a pita away from my kids which her personality is not and will i take away a brother or son and the family is going nuts that its BM that probably wants to have him back so BM atleast should stand up and say plz Mr. EK keep me out of this dont make me an excuse for your stay, Yeah but if she really has some feelings for him like the family is saying than ouch myself