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I'm back with another random post. Had no plan to make this...but the epi today has made me blabber again. Needless to say, today Badi Beeji was the STAR! Absolutely LOVED the woman and the entire Badi-Beeji Manvi scenes. We all were speculating that either Beeji, or Virat will bring Manvi to the wedding. Some of us were thinking that Jeevika will take a stand...and Viren will also take her side and Beeji will have to call Manvi (well, this still is a possibilty as per me...esp, after the precap). I'm sure that Viren will join Jeevika and won't go ahead with the wedding rituals, till Manvi comes there. And mayb...we get a Viren-Swamini scene again...just like we had one for the necklace issue. Sorry for going off topic...bad habit of predicting, so got into explaining that 😳😆
Coming back to the point...
The sangeet ceremony saw an unpleasant end...Manvi's attempt to cheer everyone and make the evening a fun filled and happy one, backfired. Unintentionally, she did something, which she didn't realize could have such repercussions. I'm not going in the details of what Manvi did was right or wrong...coz we have different view points on it...and i don't wanna start an argument here. Also, that's something of the past now...so, no point in dwelling on it now.
The reason i'm mentioning this is...this mistake from the girl changed the entire scenario of the wedding...not just for herself...but for everyone involved in the wedding, esp. each member of her own family.
Swamini asked Beeji to keep Manvi away from the wedding...and Beeji had no other option, but to adhere to this...after all, it was what one of the most important person's in Jeevika's in-laws wanted. So, if i may put it like this...Swamini, without being harsh, without being impoilte...conveyed her DECISION to Beeji, to keep Manvi away from her sister's wedding.
Manvi had made a huge blunder and there was no way Beeji could justify it and defend the young girl. So, she broke the news to Mannu, with a heavy heart...that she cannot attend her sister's wedding. Beeji's DECISION was clear...Manvi had to stay away from the wedding; if she wants to see Jeevika happy...if she doesn't want any further hitch in the wedding...and if she wants all the remaining functions to go on smoothly. An extremely harsh punishment for Manvi...the worst she could ever get...but if her staying away could bring happiness for Jeevika...if it ensures that everything would go smoothly...and if it means no problems in any of the functions...then heck, she'd not attend the wedding at any cost. This was Manvi's DECISION! She can bear this pain herself...but cannot even imagine being the reason for her sister's heart break, whom she knows loves Viren dearly, and has started dreaming of a blissful life with him. Her own pain, her grief, her loneliness is nothing as compared to her sister's happiness...a sister who means the world to her!
So, the chain of decisions keeps on getting longer n longer...and all these are related to one person's happiness..and that is, Jeevika! But do they even realize what implications will these decisions have on her??
Swamini...ok, i won't say much about her...coz she is not directly linked to Jeevika yet. Yes, she wants her happiness...but the reason she doesn't want Manvi to attend the wedding is...she doesn't want a repeat of what all happened on the sangeet ceremony. She is concerned not just for Viren, Jeevika...but also cannot see anyone passing comments on her family...and also on Jeevika's family. Also...as per her...its good for Jeevika, if Manvi stays away from the wedding...coz this would mean no blunders from her...and no tears and worry for Jeevika that come with Manvi's such immature acts. Swamini is very clear in her mind...like she said today..."shadows are not permanent...they disappear as the sun sets..." but she didn't realize that these shadows, which disappear as darkness grows...reappear with the next dawn. Also, Manvi is not Jeevika's shadow...she is a part of her existence...a part without which she cannot live! So, not a very good decision by Swamini to keep Manvi out of the wedding picture.
Coming to Beeji...for the first time, i found her a bit unreasonable today. Does she really think that... she can cover up for Manvi's absence...that Madan, Pinky, Dabbu will not look for her...that Jeevika's in-laws will not ask about her...and that Viren will not notice her not being there?? Most important of all...doesn't she know that Jeevika will not go ahead for ANY of the rituals without her sister being on her side?? Beeji has stopped Manvi from coming to the wedding for Jeevika's sake na...does she really think that if Manvi is not there...Jeevika will not notice it, will not try to find her, will not go crazy thinking about her...and will happily get married?? Wrong decision, Beeji...you clearly faltered here.
Manvi...yes, she was forced to stay away...but somewhere, she herself surrendered...coz she doesn't want ANYTHING to go wrong in her sister's wedding. She can't even let her own self come b/w her sister's happiness...and hence, for the first time, probably...she gave up...and decided to adhere to what Beeji said. Didn't she also realize what it would be for Jeevika, not to have sister with her on the most special day of her life?? She really thinks that Jeevika will not care for Mannu...and will go ahead and perform all the rituals?? Jeevika...would just forget her sister now...coz she's getting married...and her life's gonna change...and thus, it won't matter to her if Manvi is not there?? Again...totally miscalculated move by Manvi...she didn't go to attend the wedding so that nothing goes wrong...but this is the biggest wrong itself...and Jeevika's lines in the precap are a proof of that!
Coming to Jeevika...the most special day of her life...she's getting married to her dream man...everything looks beautiful...there is love, care, fear, apprehensions...and with all these emotions, she is looking forward to this new phase of her life. But without her knowledge...the decisions that have been taken for HER sake...for the sake of HER happiness...when she will get to know of them...all these emotions would come crushing down...and sadly, no one realized about this. To cater to these...she will take a DECISION herself...and that is...if her sister is not there...how can she possible get married?? Right or wrong...its another aspect...but the fact remains...whatever was being done for her happiness...ended up in giving her nothing else but tears...of pain, sorrow, grief.
Amidst all these decisions...only one person knows what actually has to be done. The sensible and the wise DECISION comes from Badi Beeji! Hats off to you. In all these acts of staying away, covering up, hiding pain, crying n wat not...her one line summed it all..."for one daughter's happiness, i can't buy tears for the other daughter"...the fact remains...if there is happiness, it is mutually for both...and if there are tears...then one possibly can't cry alone. So...for Jeevika's happiness on her wedding day, Manvi HAS to be there...and for Manvi to be happy, she HAS to participate in every part of her sister's wedding and make it a memorable one for her.
On a side note...one decision that i loved today was made by Dr. Mannan...of NOT attending the wedding. 😆 Like Jeevika, I was also relieved to know that he's not coming 😆
Dunno what I've written...im sure this is utter non-sense...but still sharing it wid u all. Comments and chappals (which i am expecting for this post) are more than welcome! 😳
P.S.: Sorry for any typos in the post guys...i'm sure there would be lots of them...IF kept on playing a spoilsport and I had to write the entire thing thrice ...And since its very late...haven't proof read. 😳
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I guess, there is some sort of a confusion here. It seems i haven't been able to explain the Swamini bit properly...so, i'll just clarify what i wrote;
I haven't said anywhere in my post that whatver Swamini, Beeji, Manvi, Jeevika did, are dre doing n will do is right ot wrong. I have just mentioned abt the "decisions" they took in the circumstances that eveloved during the sangeet ceremony.
Personally, i have defended each three of them at different levels. I can totally understand Swamini's reaction after Sangeet...Beeji's telling Manvi not to attend the wedding...Manvi's resolve to stay away...and now, Jeevika's stand to have Manvi wid her. So, no where i have said that any of them was wrong or right...it is about the decisions.
Its just like, sometimes, we makes decisions which we think are best for a member of our family, or our loved one's...but what we don't realize is...our decision might leave them with even more worry. In the same context, when i said, Swamini asking Beeji to keep Manvi away from the Vadera family and/or functions...wat i meant was...the same decision might complicate things for her family, Viren, Jeevika and Jeevika's family. I didn't bash the character...neither said that this is what she, or beeji, Manvi, Jeevika should have done...I was talking in the context of "decisions" only in my post!
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