Relations: Status = Forever Complicated - Page 4

very well written shilpa👏

Thanks Shilpa for an excellent analysis and very positive outlook on the relationships in Navya. You have made me look at it from a different point of view.

I actually liked yesterday episode for a couple of reasons. I liked the fact that at least Anant had the sense to shush Navya at the dinner table and then later on for the first time as far as I can remember had a healthy serious adult discussion with her on the rules at the dining table. I am wondering why she was not told earlier if not by Anant then by Nimmi at least. I also find it a bit hypocrisy that till Navya came Nimi was allowed to sit at the table. Oh well. Navya and logic do not flow most of the time or so I have seen.

Navya - Sugandha: I liked the talk between Navya and Sugandha but why could it not be with Anant too. In spite of him living with that family and their rules how come he is not aware that they cannot go for coffee with friends or no hugging in the mall etc. I understand that Navya is going to be the future in-law and should live within the realms of their principles but how does she know what they are if she is not advised about it?. I feel that having both of them there when having the talk would have been better as it would have made Anant realize that his actions can have consequences for Navya. But what I did not understand was why did Navya not explain to Sugandha about Anant's immaturity. Why is she taking on the entire blame?. Is she doing it to show Anant in a good light to his mum. l am not saying go all out and blame him for his antics but at least defend oneself when attacked.

Navya - Anant: I think Navya had no choice yesterday but to lie. What else could she do? Did she have a choice? What I do not get here is why there is a yo yo in Anant's maturity. He seems all mature and grown up when need to and at other times seems younger than a 5 year old. Why show him at extremes?

Navya - Trio: I for one can understand what Ritz when thru. I am sure she understands that Navya is living in the looney bin and cannot do things like before but still there is always that tiny sliver of hope that your friend will remain the same. Ritz's heartbreak was of changes in their friendship that is to come. Now she knows that Navya will not be her same chaddi dost anymore and that is hard to take in. I liked this aspect in the epi too.

Navya - Dinner. I am so glad that Anant had the presence of mind to shush Navya.

These days I have no fear of precap coz it is a show of tension to come but in actuality it is not much.

Sorry for the long post . Thanks for giving us an optimistic viewpoint to watch Navya again.

im sure anantik vl nt disappoint uss..

👏👏👏

Shilpaaa 🤗

@ Shilpa,

Wow what a post…. You have actually penned down all my thoughts…. What actually happens in life …. Life is not all sugar and honey but it is all about how well you manage your relationship. I totally agree about Navya lying to Anant because this will unnecessary create more misunderstandings. This actually shows Navya in better light as she understands how intricately relations are woven together.

As for Navya calling it a day… it does not serve any purpose. They are trying to portray different emotions people go through in a relationship. I infact did not find anything odd in yesterdays episode…. But I think it was quite nice and a balanced one where Navya comes to know her future Family ……

I feel now that she realizes the differences between her and anants family we wuill surely see a mature talk between her & Anant , and Her & Sugandha….

Hey Shilpa...very nice post.👏...you do have a calm mind and I see where you are coming from...but I beg to differ in certain aspects:) I haven't seen the episode and I don't know if I'll be qualified to put forth my opinions-but I am compelled to reply based on your lovely post 😳

Navya-Sugandha talk: Based solely on your explanation, am sorta differing with you here. I agree maybe Sugandha wasn't mean, was helping Navya in her transition into the family, and thinks she is more mature than her son. But my issue with this line of thought is how long/how far can mothers get away by using this excuse? When does it become thier responsibility to talk to their grown up mandhbuddi sons???These same sons like someone mentioned(Nishkala I think) go on to become husbands and fathers, who take on real world responsibilities!
So I disagree and feel that moms like Sugandha take the easy route of not dealing with their sons and instead pressurize the daughter-in laws to deal with situations at hand.

Navya-Anant relationship: I have had this question for a long time now...when do couples like A & N realize true/deep love is not sufficient to survive in real world? Please don't get me wrong,I do believe love and trust are the foremost driving factors in a successful relationship/marriage...but I also think they are not enough!
If your partner is blissfully unaware of your struggles and difficulties in your life(especially sasural)...I am afraid no matter how true and strong the love, the marriage/relationship will not survive! hence my views on N quitting! My issues with the Bajpayees is a different topic-LOL but if A continues to behave like the way he has been in the past...no amount of love is worth the torture N will endure in the future...coz no relationship should rip you off your self-esteem/confidence...even if it is in the name of love!

Sorry for my rants...but couldn't stop myself from posting, after your lovely take:)

just whn i thought thats its time navya calls its quits bcoz it wud be too difficult to adjust(so wht if anant's love is on her side...i feel that is just not enuf coz 24/7 u have to live life there)...ur post made me see things in a diff light...

To all of u lovely people who have posted their views/replies here...A big teddy hugs...U guys have remained very civilized in your replies and have generated some very healthy points of discussion...kudos to all of u.