babho afraid of losing suraj to sandhya

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I had to post after the Hitler behavior of bhabo today so I think bhabo is afraid to lose her son to sandhya since suraj is the perfect son n always listens to his mother but after the wedding sandhya is playing the imo role in suraj life which belonged to bhabo once n specially when sandhya stands up for her beliefs and doesn't follow the useless rules bhabo wants her to follow which just adds more mirchi to bhabo attitude. Wag u guys say? Since bhabo is the Hitler of the house n she losing her both fab son n daughter in law. Suraj supports sandhya instead of his mother n sandhya doesn't buy the useless things bhabo asks hee to so instead she does what she believes in. So two egos are colliding plus either bhabo wins or lose but she is def losing on both sides.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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It is normal insecure feeling of a MIL but bhabho has a bit more insecurity compared to others. She is a control freak and likes everyone hubby, son, daughter, DIL to be obedient voiceless puppets. She needs to understand first all have their own wishes and dreams. The situation is getting tougher for Sandhya to never tell Suraj (if at all she is going to tell) about her dream.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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If bhaboo was not hitler , that house would have been even worse than hell,

waise bhi , most of the mother are insecure of loosing their sons to their bahu;s some show it and some dont, but ask any mother ,she will definitely have this insecurity esp if the son is darling of hers
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Posted: 14 years ago
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It is quite natural that Bhabho is behaving like this.
The different thing about this show is that the MIL is not completely depicted as an evil person. She has a good side too.
Let's just hope that the reason Bhabho has for not allowing people to vote is good enough. Otherwise, it is quite senseless to give Sandhya such a punishment.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Agree with you Miss Colorful.
Poor woman! yesterday bhabho almost was in tears when Sandhya finished filing all the water tubs/utensils without apologizing to Bhabho. when she couldn't take that defeat, she directed it towards his son thinking son will feel offended on her behalf! but alas!!! she gets to know her son knew it that his wife went to vote after informing him. Bhabho did not get any vent for her frustration on her defeat with Sandhya. that irked her more causing her to blab all that came to her mind to her. it was quite natural for the emotional mother.
she is acting as the possessive mother. hightime she lets go of his son. because if she wanted his son to be "shravan kumar" only, then she should not have got him married. she cannot blame suraj for her mistake in foreseeing things.
in reality people tend to adjust themselves to such dynamics and keep the pain of revelation as learning. indian families teach a lot of patience, tolerance and mutual adjustment to family members. it is not felt by the new generation kids nowadays, but this is part and parcel of old indian values. unlike TV show, there are plentiful examples where mother-in-laws also adjust to new dynamics.
but this is a TV show, so don't know how they 'll use this opportunity/scenario.

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