It always happens with a girl!

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It always happen with a girl.In spite of sacrificing her everything a girl always has to listen that she is no one. She has no rights over her family, over the house. They always treat like a outsider. Today it happens again with another girl. We all know what Indira did for her family. She sacrificed her whole life so that this family could survive. She could easily have a better life if she wanted. But she didn't. She ignored her all happiness because of this family. But this family never valued her. They always treated her very badly as if she was a machine and she didn't have any feelings. Till now it was in limit. But today they crossed their all limits. How could a mother treat her own daughter like this in spite of knowing that her daughter sacrificed her life because of this family. I knew that Indira's mother was a dumb woman who didn't have any self respect or anything except her husband who already abandoned her for another woman. But how could she tell her daughter that she was no one and she didn't belong here. Actually it was not all her fault. She was treated like this for all her life and she was treating her daughter the same. This always happen in our society. A girl has no value though she does everything for her family.So today when Kutumb was telling Indira those words it was not unexpected. Actually it was quite normal. But I think it's high time to get to know what a girl means for a family. I appreciate that Indira left the house and I would prefer if she would not come back to this house. This family should know that what Indira did for them.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree Ridz ... I dnt under why all that happen only with girls. Todys epi ws very disappoing for me, specially the way Indiras mother treated her. It ws nt unexpected from her, but is she that much dumb that she cnt see Indiras sacrifise or her hardwork? The proveb ws right, ghar ki murlgi daal barabar (I think, I wrote this proveb right, either SORRY)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Specially in India girls r treated like garbage. They r treated like stranger inspited of sacrificing a lot. And indira's mom was giving her bhashan 4 whom? Her pati parmeshvar and sautan.?
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beautifully said, I totally agree with you, she shouldn't come back.
that way the family could see her value
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Posted: 14 years ago
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its the circle of society. once you get trapped in the circle theres no way out unless you break free.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Want indira to stay away from her house for sometime n c how the family does without her n not return back.it was very bad on part of her mom to say those things,always knew she didnt hav any selfrespect but today she has crossed all those limits
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: -ASTHA-

Specially in India girls r treated like garbage. They r treated like stranger inspited of sacrificing a lot. And indira's mom was giving her bhashan 4 whom? Her pati parmeshvar and sautan.?


for ur kind information, not all girls in india are treated badly, Indian girls are more educated,successful in their professional career comparioson to any other country,certain part of society in India has got this problem n that what HD is trying to show .

BTW indian origin girls who live abroad are also facing many problems like forced marriage, honour killing , drugs n drink, domestic violance etc etc n does not even open their mouth , still Indian original family who live in abroad go to India to find the sex of the child, if it is girl they abort it, do not judge by looking at the cover ...

You will find social problems everywhere either in India or Abroad ,

HD is an eye opener for the girls who do everything for thier family but do not get anything back from them.

Character Kutum who is indiras mother can be found anywhere in India or abroad, this is reality n we need to accept it.Mothers who always suppport husband or son chahe woh kitna bhee galat ho , she said things in frustration and to hide his mistake by letting her husband inthe house

BTW Ridi, it happens to girls because girls are tolerant, caring, loving, selfles and harworking when it comes to family wahi per husbands/sons are selfish n less bothered ..We should be proud to be a girl n facemany problems but do not stop caring for their family

Coming back to Indira, she took responsibiltiy of the house without expecting anythign from them but today it affected her more when her mother said " mat bhoolo yeh mera ghar hai" , she was doing everything for them by thinking " yeh mera ghar hai".. Yes Indira should leave her house n start thinking about herself n let her family lead their life by themselves.. but will it happen?
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Originally posted by: Its-My-Life


for ur kind information, not all girls in india are treated badly, Indian girls are more educated,successful in their professional career comparioson to any other country,certain part of society in India has got this problem n that what HD is trying to show .

BTW indian origin girls who live abroad are also facing many problems like forced marriage, honour killing , drugs n drink, domestic violance etc etc n does not even open their mouth , still Indian original family who live in abroad go to India to find the sex of the child, if it is girl they abort it, do not judge by looking at the cover ...

You will find social problems everywhere either in India or Abroad ,

HD is an eye opener for the girls who do everything for thier family but do not get anything back from them.

Character Kutum who is indiras mother can be found anywhere in India or abroad, this is reality n we need to accept it.Mothers who always suppport husband or son chahe woh kitna bhee galat ho , she said things in frustration and to hide his mistake by letting her husband inthe house

BTW Ridi, it happens to girls because girls are tolerant, caring, loving, selfles and harworking when it comes to family wahi per husbands/sons are selfish n less bothered ..We should be proud to be a girl n facemany problems but do not stop caring for their family

Coming back to Indira, she took responsibiltiy of the house without expecting anythign from them but today it affected her more when her mother said " mat bhoolo yeh mera ghar hai" , she was doing everything for them by thinking " yeh mera ghar hai".. Yes Indira should leave her house n start thinking about herself n let her family lead their life by themselves.. but will it happen?



ya u r right it's not only India's problem. U can find such family anywhere in the world. Girls take responsibilities without any expectation its right. But doesn't mean that the family member always treat her badly. If they can't give her anything at least they try to treat her good. now come to your question that will Indira start thinking about herself and let her family lead their by themselves? If I were Indira I would do this. But as Indira is not me and she is much more selfless than me so I don't know what will she do. But I don't want her to come back. She also is a human and she has a life too. Sometimes being selfish is not bad.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: -roshnee-

its the circle of society. once you get trapped in the circle theres no way out unless you break free.



I think it's high time to break the circles and live the life.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: SujaLuvsMayur

I agree Ridz ... I dnt under why all that happen only with girls. Todys epi ws very disappoing for me, specially the way Indiras mother treated her. It ws nt unexpected from her, but is she that much dumb that she cnt see Indiras sacrifise or her hardwork? The proveb ws right, ghar ki murlgi daal barabar (I think, I wrote this proveb right, either SORRY)



Don't be surprised...there are so many mothers who can't see their daughter's sacrifice. It doesn't mean that they r dumb. It happens because they don't know how to value that sacrifice as they were treated the same. and about the proverb I think it's right though I don't know Hindi proverb so well.

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