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Please friends... read this and analyze for yourself if what we are doing is right?
There has been a constant of negativity in the forum since Arnav's being ASR with Khushi. He was always this harsh, brash, arrogant, agonizing guy who we all would hate yet LOVE even more... Thats what Arnav is to us.
Arnav's personality is not of one fold like Khushi who is the same outside and inside. Arnav's personality is a compilation of different shades. He could be a passionate lover who could make your inner romantic go...'Awww' at the sight of him, and at the same time a terrorizing, tantalizing individual with the capacity to make your teeth chatter while he lashes at Khushi in an unforgiving style.
Arnav is a character who has depth, and this depth is wayyy beyond our understanding. The guy has been through HELL in his life. He witnessed the infamous death of his mother who some reckon to be a 'Suicide'... Imagine seeing your mother dying in front of you and not being able to help her or do something about it and seeing your entire world wither 😔.
Who knows, maybe Anjali did not always suffer from this Polio/ slight diability that she has. Maybe this inflicted on her as a result of something too and Arnav being a millionaire can't even cure his sister. Imagine the impact of all that guilt weighing on his caring and sensitive soul 😭. Imagine if your family member has such hate inside their hearts for your family and this was there true colors, won't you be affected the same way as Arnav was?
And we have no clue about Arnav's father except that he died the same day as his mother cause the sharaddh of both his parents is celebrated together. Imagine the wreckage of your entire family on ONE single day and you are left with nothing but empty hands.
Then your uncle who cared for you, and loved you when your parents were alive and had a hand in raising you... throws you out of your house without a second thought and turns his back on you 😡. Imagine the gravity and severity of these situations and how they could affect a person's mentality and life... CAN YOU BLAME ARNAV THE WAY HE IS AFTER ALL THIS?
And now years after all those incidents, he started feeling again for a girl he always saved, but pretended not to care for. Now he shocked😲 when he finds out that she's engaged to someone else too and is leaving him forever..... In these circumstances would you expect him to turn into Devdaas who just drinks and cries for his Paro 😭? or a lover who takes charge upon himself and wants to go to every extreme to make his beloved realize whats truly in her heart ❤️?
I never picturize Arnav as the sugary, flowery type who will go down on his knees to woo a girl and if Khushi really loves Arnav.. then she'll love this torturing side of Arnav too... cause you love a person as a whole and accept the bad that comes with the good. The ball's in Khushi's court now and if she really loves Arnav then she will not only choose his good, caring side due to which he helped her ailing father, but will accept his hateful, ruthless and arrogant side too.
So guys please understand the WHOLE package that is Arnav not just his one side and judge him by that. Arnav has never hidden his mean side from Khushi yet she still fell in love with him... so guys please understand Arnav's character and the meaning of True Love ❤️ before directing all your anger and hatred towards Arnav and subjecting his already tormented soul to more pain!!.......
Don't forget that the path of love is not a bunch of roses but is a thorny road with scattered petals that the travellers still choose to go on!!
There has been a constant of negativity in the forum since Arnav's being ASR with Khushi. He was always this harsh, brash, arrogant, agonizing guy who we all would hate yet LOVE even more... Thats what Arnav is to us.
Arnav's personality is not of one fold like Khushi who is the same outside and inside. Arnav's personality is a compilation of different shades. He could be a passionate lover who could make your inner romantic go...'Awww' at the sight of him, and at the same time a terrorizing, tantalizing individual with the capacity to make your teeth chatter while he lashes at Khushi in an unforgiving style.
Arnav is a character who has depth, and this depth is wayyy beyond our understanding. The guy has been through HELL in his life. He witnessed the infamous death of his mother who some reckon to be a 'Suicide'... Imagine seeing your mother dying in front of you and not being able to help her or do something about it and seeing your entire world wither 😔.
Who knows, maybe Anjali did not always suffer from this Polio/ slight diability that she has. Maybe this inflicted on her as a result of something too and Arnav being a millionaire can't even cure his sister. Imagine the impact of all that guilt weighing on his caring and sensitive soul 😭. Imagine if your family member has such hate inside their hearts for your family and this was there true colors, won't you be affected the same way as Arnav was?
And we have no clue about Arnav's father except that he died the same day as his mother cause the sharaddh of both his parents is celebrated together. Imagine the wreckage of your entire family on ONE single day and you are left with nothing but empty hands.
Then your uncle who cared for you, and loved you when your parents were alive and had a hand in raising you... throws you out of your house without a second thought and turns his back on you 😡. Imagine the gravity and severity of these situations and how they could affect a person's mentality and life... CAN YOU BLAME ARNAV THE WAY HE IS AFTER ALL THIS?
And now years after all those incidents, he started feeling again for a girl he always saved, but pretended not to care for. Now he shocked😲 when he finds out that she's engaged to someone else too and is leaving him forever..... In these circumstances would you expect him to turn into Devdaas who just drinks and cries for his Paro 😭? or a lover who takes charge upon himself and wants to go to every extreme to make his beloved realize whats truly in her heart ❤️?
I never picturize Arnav as the sugary, flowery type who will go down on his knees to woo a girl and if Khushi really loves Arnav.. then she'll love this torturing side of Arnav too... cause you love a person as a whole and accept the bad that comes with the good. The ball's in Khushi's court now and if she really loves Arnav then she will not only choose his good, caring side due to which he helped her ailing father, but will accept his hateful, ruthless and arrogant side too.
So guys please understand the WHOLE package that is Arnav not just his one side and judge him by that. Arnav has never hidden his mean side from Khushi yet she still fell in love with him... so guys please understand Arnav's character and the meaning of True Love ❤️ before directing all your anger and hatred towards Arnav and subjecting his already tormented soul to more pain!!.......
Don't forget that the path of love is not a bunch of roses but is a thorny road with scattered petals that the travellers still choose to go on!!
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