sulochana is the biggest shameless woman !!!!!!

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: AmarMoti
When it comes to Varsha i don't blame Sulo. If Varsha had a motherly bone in her body or any self respect she would not have done what she did and assault her mother in law, she would also assault her own mother. Satish needs to get her mental help.

You can't blame her for the house she asked many times for Arcu and Manav to leave it there are the one's who promised it to her.

Just my thought 😉

But she was maha upset when they lost the auction, yes? Which means she did want them to buy it. If she really didn't want the house its not hard for her to convince Archana to let it go, she's always going around giving her kasam to all anyway.

In the latest episode she claims she came back because of Archana, when she was living at that old age home, Archana forced her many times, but did she listen? No. She gave into Manav. Bringing me to another point, Manav is also shown to be obsessed with his MIL or everyone in Archana's family really. Why does he have to run to them all the time - its a good thing that he wants to help but spending unreasonable amounts of money just cos your wife is a sentimental fool is ridiculous. The whole house issue was stupid - Archana was being dumb by bringing her emotions/sentiments in between everytime someone mentioned the house! Why can't she learn to move on!? Same thing with the house they're all living in now - she didn't even grow up in it yet she's so sentimental about it?!!? 😕

And for your first point, Sulo isn't to blame but she's not really being a good mother by neglecting everything Varsha has done or is doing. She is her mother, she should've had given her a tight slap and set her straight - and probably given one to Archana too while she was at it.

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

cool down..it's only a show. Seriously..

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

Sulochana does not care about Archana, she cares about how she can manipulate her. Archana is just a puppet in her hands and obeys her every command. Sulochana knows she can't do this with Varsha or Vaishali who would've clearly put her to place but with Archana, its easy to cry those crocodile tears and melt her heart. If she ever cared about Archana she would've never asked her to keep it a secret where she was staying and if she cared, she wouldn't have kept her daughter in the dark about what Savita was doing to Sachin. Sulochana only looks out for herself, she's no better than Savita

Edited by bollywoodcrazed - 14 years ago

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

Sulochana does not care about Archana, she cares about how she can manipulate her. Archana is just a puppet in her hands and obeys her every command. Sulochana knows she can't do this with Varsha or Vaishali who would've clearly put her to place but with Archana, its easy to cry those crocodile tears and melt her heart. If she ever cared about Archana she would've never asked her to keep it a secret where she was staying and if she cared, she wouldn't have kept her daughter in the dark about what Savita was doing to Sachin. Sulochana only looks out for herself, she's no better than Savita

I agree...By that same logic this is what I think...

Archana has learn the same from her mother...The same crocodile tears and manipulation with manav to get things done..

Like mother like daughter..

Sulo's sanskars are basically BS..

Edited by Dabulls23 - 14 years ago

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: hillydee

I must agree with your post. There must be a limit to what you put up with your children. Varsha is self-centered and borderline narcissistic. Life according to her begins with her and ends with her. Archana enabled her all the time, and she fed off of that, not that she really cared about her sister. She is closer to Vaishali cause she agrees with her on most things. Once you don't agree with her, you are against her. Poor Satish does not even look like he is getting some you know what😆 What sort of marriage is that?

Sulochana must give her tough love. She was always a challenge to her parents, and I don't ever remember her being right in those situations. People like that cannot get their way, or their behaviour will get worse, which is what happened.

Life is naturally set up to balance us, when we try to behave out of the norm, and it does this by giving us some serious Karma. Varsha aborted her child. She had no forgivable reason, she was married with a good husband, she was not 14yrs old, and was not raped. She should have used protection if she was not ready. Then she had the audacity to be mad at the world and want to demand other people children, when she felt it was now convenient to have one. Convenience does not mean genuine want or desire. So, I believe Soluchana's behaviour is quite normal. I would not live with her either. I would not want to spend my old age with a toxic person like Varsha😆

Soluchana really did tell Manav and Archana no many times. Archana is very forceful at times, when trying to impose her goodness on others, even if they don't want it. Also, Soluchana would take their offer, over living with Pagal Hai Savita. Soluchana is human, she will feel bad about losing her house and the things that have been happening, and she is worried about where she will live. Her next stop is Dharmesh's house, I would cry all the time too, if that was my next option😭😆

sulo shudnt waste her OLD AGE on her OWN daughter whom she gave BIRTH

but satish shud waste his whole JAWAANI & whole LIFE on that wife ????

the thing is that 2day girl's parents have become very aware of their daughter's lives ... & this is 100 % right also to ensure the safety of their daughters ... if anything happens to the daughter most parents will definitely fight back ... & the laws also enable everything

but at the same time taking husbands & son in laws granted all the time ... this tendency is also increasing ... laws are on side of women ...

if anything wud had happened to varsha then sulo wud had fought na ... but what about the havoc varsha has created in sasural

sulo fully utilised the opportunity which ajit had given her ... she left no chance to destroy manav at those times ... but did she scold varsha even a single time for ruining satish's life

just bcoz in olden times bahus were exploited ... modern parents & their modern daughters have got no licence to manipulate & take advantage of son in laws

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 14 years ago

#16

Prasad Good post...While Son In Laws are exploited so are Boy's parents these days...Other extreme to the old times..

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Hillylove

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: sipokobusak
cool down..it's only a show. Seriously..

I get your point, but we are not taking it that seriously, this how we enjoy the show, we discuss passionately 😆

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Hillylove

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Posted: 14 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: prasad1991
sulo shudnt waste her OLD AGE on her OWN daughter whom she gave BIRTH

but satish shud waste his whole JAWAANI & whole LIFE on that wife ????

the thing is that 2day girl's parents have become very aware of their daughter's lives ... & this is 100 % right also to ensure the safety of their daughters ... if anything happens to the daughter most parents will definitely fight back ... & the laws also enable everything

but at the same time taking husbands & son in laws granted all the time ... this tendency is also increasing ... laws are on side of women ...

if anything wud had happened to varsha then sulo wud had fought na ... but what about the havoc varsha has created in sasural

sulo fully utilised the opportunity which ajit had given her ... she left no chance to destroy manav at those times ... but did she scold varsha even a single time for ruining satish's life

just bcoz in olden times bahus were exploited ... modern parents & their modern daughters have got no licence to manipulate & take advantage of son in laws

My approach to parenting is different, I am the type of parent, that will Never side with a any child of mine who has done wrong, especially if they are not deeply repenting for it. If, my child were to do anything like break the law in any way, I will personally drop him or her off at the nearest prison. I will not go to visit, nor bail them out Full Stop.

Secondly, I did @bold, summarise my disgust about how Satish is being treated.

My point, was not that Sulochana was perfect, I was directly answering a post, specifically with regards to her tears in the current situation, and how she dealt with the Varsha situation.

Soluchana did scold Varsha about her madness in her sasural, she has always been scolding her(before she was married), that is why she does not want to have anything to do with her now. She is fed up of her. Some people have to get tough love before they can learn.

Satish could have left Varsha a long time ago, but from the first day they met, he was sprung. I am not a 100% percent sorry for good men, who stay with women like Varsha. A lot of these men, prefer women like that, they don't even make the effort with good women. He never even like Archana who was the person he was originally supposed to marry. Archana may have her faults, but she is a lot better than Varsha and the rest of the siblings.

With regards to her tears in the current situation, is understandable. Whether your are the worse person in the world or not, the constant insults from Savita, and the fear of being homeless or having to live with your other children who are not as caring to you as one child (Archana), can make you accept a house from a Dog. Deep down she did not want Manav to buy the house, but what was her choice? Seriously what choice did she have? After Vinod and Manjusha kicking her out, you really think she want to take any more chances with the other children? Parents always know their children, that is why Sulochana prefers to live with Archana or by herself.

Yes, Sulochana used to give Manav hell, but she learned to appreciate him and respect him, what is wrong in that? Savita never changed. I am glad to see a mother-in-law change towards a son-in-law, because I can't say the same for most of the mother-in-laws towards their daughter-in-laws so far on these shows.

I love my Mother more than myself, there is no way, even if my husband have to buy the house, will I let her live on the streets. I don't care how many times, I am married, my Mother will always be important to me. Each person is only given one Mother, you can marry many times, and even find love more than once. I 100% respect Archana for acting in her Mother's best interest. Sulochana had changed towards Manav for a long time now, so nothing is wrong in him caring about her well being.

In my country, husbands even boyfriends, help their women's Mothers, that is love not exploitation. I don't believe anyone should turn their backs on their parents for fear of losing their husbands, or think that allowing their husbands to help their parents, is considered exploitation. I pray that anyone who feels this way, never need the help of their own children.

"Love is not love that alters, when it alteration finds."

Just sharing what I felt😃

Edited by hillydee - 14 years ago