Can Men and Women Be Friends?

Hello,

but dear in this show they are couples nobody can deny that

Yes indu and rishi could remain as best friends😛

Originally posted by: ratiheaven33

but dear in this show they are couples nobody can deny that

my wish also same as you rinky...both Rishi and Indira can make great friends
With so many serials concentrating on the romantic side of a man woman relationship why can't Indira and Rishi be different? Its a LOT to ask from a Hindi serial but hopes should never die. I want to see atleast one serial which concentrates on the platonic side of a man woman relationship. And I think Indira and Rishi would make a perfect example of that...

Rinky,

Interesting topic.

The intricacies of an individual human soul is incomprehensible let alone all those computations when you add into the mix another heart's complexities. However your post specifically centres upon the attraction element between two souls.

In terms of lust, desire and attraction, I think most people if not all will ponder, even if just for an instant, the possibility of something more than platonic, with every acquaintance. Whether it happens upon first impressions, in the aftermath of an epiphany or even continually throughout the relationship, it is something that occurs. Whether you label it as natural, primal or something more visceral, I think its existence, even for the briefest of moments is undeniable. Most of us have had that I can't believe I am thinking about THAT person experience, which a little contemplation can vanquish into the realm of the forgotten or never to be thought of again regions of your mind.

In terms of love, more is needed, this fragile, delicate and nowadays rare emotion, is never just a natural consequence of two people meeting. Something of kindred, affinity and a little history is needed, which comes after knowing a person and sharing something of your soul too. Maybe desire was the initial phase of this journey towards love, but at some point acquaintanceship and friendship is needed.

Now to my point. Can men and women be just friends? Yes. However there is a disclaimer attached which reads that at some point they will both contemplate something more just as platonic love or friendship is a pit stop in some journeys to love.

With much love, Sabah

As per me why not but sometimes good friends make a great couple coz they understand each other and for the question how one can be confident Rishi is opposite Indira. . .the thing is that if not Rishi than someone else will be there than whats wrong in Rishi. . .and dear its an Indian daily soap so there will be surely someone and if not than this show will be a real exception

LOL I would say this is wishful thinking rinky, they are most definitely going to end up together, if we go by the pretext of indian television, the writers/cvs will be interested only in catering to the interests of the larger audience, where a tv show garners trps either by showing romance b/w the leads or through kitchen politics amidst melodrama...I hardly think this show is goin to be any different.

^^😆 Yeah, I love his retraction of his men and women can't be friends' line in that film.

Thing is there are two types of attractive, one seen with the eyes and the other seen with the heart and mind. The first is pretty much instant BUT the second requires a little intimacy, a sharing of souls. I know I have had that when did he get so good looking moment. As Harry finds out for himself. 😆