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so honestly i don't blame shyam for this marriage it's all buaji. someone also posted the same topic like who do u hate most but mine is on buaji only. i am going to point out everyhting from the beginning.
1. buaji is the one who was planning khuhsi-shyam marriage in her head like ever since shyam moved in.
2. giving shyam soo much importance in everything which was not needed.
3. shyam intruded in her house instead of getting mad shyam fooled her in just couple of mins.( like hello use ur brains buaji he is a complete stranger)
4.She asked or forced him to stay over n when he wanted to leave she didn't let him( we all know shyam never wanted to leave n he was faking but still.)
5. making khushi n shyam come closer for no reason.khushi never liked shyam so there was not need for that.
6. never really investigated anything about shyam like hello he is staying at ur place(totally stupid)
7. forcing everyone to accept shyam-khushi's rishta.( payal,shashi n khushi's mom never agreed n they are still confused but buaji doesn't care.)
8. forcing shashi to like shyam n accept the rishta as well. if buaji didn't forced shashi to like shyam then shashi wouldn't have to investigate n be in the condition he is in today.
9. she loves to be the leader of the family when it's shashi.
10. emotionally blackmailing everyone to agree with her or do wat she wants like she did with khushi.
overall i don't like buaji at first she was annoying but now can't stand her anymore.she doesn't care about khushi or her feelings n thinks shayam is the perfect guy in the world n all. isn't marriage is suppose to be a once in a lifetime event in ur life n u stay with that person for rest of ur life but if u never even considered the person a friend most importantly u have feelings for someone else then how can u marry? buaji just blackmailed everyone around her n created drama over little things which doesn't even make nay sense nowdays. the worst part was when buaji literally told khushi that she was a burden on the family i was like wth? are u seriously crazy khushi suffered enough n buaji reminded khushi that she is not a part of the family since she was adopted( bechari khushi kitna kuch suffer karegi)this buaji is just really weird n bossy n ruining our khushi's life.
now shyam part he is equally blamed but it was buaji who started this mess like she was the one who was dreaming about khushi-shyam wedding for no reason. shyam always wanted khushi but buaji made it a lot more easier for shyam to get khushi. she was all over shyam praising him. singing his bhajans n wat not. she never really showed shyam like this is ur limit n this is my house n rules attitude instead she was telling shyam to stay back n consider the house as urs. shyam really got his wish came true in buaji since she never stopped him from getting close to khushi or showed him the door n all. she was completely opposite like if someone said something bad about shyam she will defend shyam quickly n she never defended khushi (she is khushi's bua n a complete stranger to shyam). basically if u are literally pushing someone to get married to ur beautiful niece then who will stop honestly. buaji is feeding shyam aka lion n khushi is the bakri.
my advice to buaji- leave khushi alone n let her live her life for once n as for shyam there are other million guys in the world you will find for khushi( i am just saying it in general but we all know the right guy is asr) also never get hooked to one guy only like ur babuaa.
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