No women wud like it - Page 7

Tanvi --

let me flip the situation.

Let us assume that Jagat was unmarried (no child marriage with anandi -- and completely single).

And he and Gauri moved in with the intention that they were going to marry. Gauri was under the impression that they would, eventually, get married which is why she lived-in with him and she was in a emotional relationship too. There is no legal certificate here, just a live in relationship.

Now all of a sudden, unmarried Jagat gets a call to go to jayetsar because dadisa is ill. He goes to Jayetsar telling gauri he will come back in a few months and re-enroll in M.S. Program.

He leaves her in Kunda-tai's PG room, and pays his rent for the next few months, thereby ensuring that his spot is taken care of and that kundatai has her rent.

He then goes to Jayetsar, and under dadisa's pressure, gets married to a girl in the village because she gives him a kasam to marry. This marriage to village girl is also legalized in a court setting because nowadays, Bhairon knows the important of a legal registration and that social marriage is not enough because too many documents later on will depend on legal certificate.


Now, the Jagya and village girl marriage is legal ... and gauri is left there in mumbai waiting for jagat to come home.

Has jagat done something illegal by ditching gauri? No. because they had no legal certificate to give their relationship any validity.

But is he a criminal for atleast not telling gauri that he will have to get married to someone else under his family's pressure?

Can he just walk in to Kundatai's one fine day with the village girl and tell her "this is my new wife, you please clear out -- our relationship was not legal anyway, we were just live-in"

That would be thoroughly immoral. (in my eyes), and would still make J a criminal in my eyes, if i were in gauri's place even if Jagat and I had no legal relationship.

How would gauri have reacted to that sort of situation?

Originally posted by: payalgarg

pls dont call Anandi ex wife to legalise the status of a Jagya's keep

Tinno-if j ditched gauri she wud have slaped,shouted n wat else she wud go away frm he n his wife,or else she wud tel his sachai to his wife ,but y r asking me this?

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Felt bad for A but tel me one which wife wud be happy to hear abt ex sending secretely money n praise her for being mahan ,entire family has broken the bond with their son for U n u stil keep conections with him,if we r so bad in ur eyes then y send money,Wat r u trying to prove n A she has too habit of listening,y cant she open her mouth for herself ,there also she is trying to protect j ,in court she can open her mouth,first of al i feel A created this situation for her,she knows g wont like it then y simply fal in their jhamela,forget g no women wud it,wud she herself wud ever like it?

May be this is Anandi style of taking revange

Never expected this discussion to go on so long

Both Gauri and Anandi are doing things that no NORMAL woman will do

Gauri

no woman will forgive the boy who cheated her for 5 years so easily
no woman will marry in such a hurry before completing education when their is no threat for their future
no woman will agree so easily to live with a man after knowing that her marriage is illegal as per law
no woman will forgive her husband so easily for telling lies every time

Anandi

no woman will accept a second woman in her hubby's life
no woman will fight for her hubby's sec woman
no woman will avoid punishing a cheater hubby. he will be punished legally or atleast socially.
no woman will send money to her cheater husband to have a nice life with sec wife
no woman will want the family to accept her hubby's second wife's child.
and most important no woman will take her hubby's second wife's insult knowing that the law and society is by her side

Both anandi and gauri are ajoobas so what is there to talk abt. They are i a way examples how women should not be in this society...i consider both of them bad examples. One tramples everyone one for personal benefit. The other tramples herself for benefiting others...Such people are supposed to be ridiculed and not sympathised...It my opinion ant both G and A.

Originally posted by: vasuja

Never expected this discussion to go on so long

Both Gauri and Anandi are doing things that no NORMAL woman will do

Gauri

no woman will forgive the boy who cheated her for 5 years so easily
no woman will marry in such a hurry before completing education when their is no threat for their future
no woman will agree so easily to live with a man after knowing that her marriage is illegal as per law
no woman will forgive her husband so easily for telling lies every time

Anandi

no woman will accept a second woman in her hubby's life
no woman will fight for her hubby's sec woman
no woman will avoid punishing a cheater hubby. he will be punished legally or atleast socially.
no woman will send money to her cheater husband to have a nice life with sec wife
no woman will want the family to accept her hubby's second wife's child.
and most important no woman will take her hubby's second wife's insult knowing that the law and society is by her side

Both anandi and gauri are ajoobas so what is there to talk abt. They are i a way examples how women should not be in this society...i consider both of them bad examples. One tramples everyone one for personal benefit. The other tramples herself for benefiting others...Such people are supposed to be ridiculed and not sympathised...It my opinion ant both G and A.

though i agree wid u abt both A & G as not normal but only 2 sum extent.bcoz these type of women do exist in real life!!

Abhibi yeh discussion chal raha hai?