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Posted: 19 years ago
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i feel jai did the right thing by not getting into this matter, he did a great job by supporting bani HIS WIFE, bcs he had already said soooo many things to bani so this was kind of patch up, the way he stood by her like a husband makes him a good husband.

jai knows how is sister is that's why he didn't support her. and he couldn't tollerate Bani being insulted by jigyasa without reason.

When he had asked bani if she is pregnant or not,if she had told him everything at that moment he wood have supported her since then, but now i understand bani and her (lett me call it) TRICKS 😆 by doing all this she has made more place for her self in jai's heart 😳 😳

now jai will understand her much better, and he will always trust bani.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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awesome analysis.. dear...
just luved it..
well i dint think abt that part of jai.. where u said he was not being a brother, maamaji.and all.. but anyhow.. i love jai and bani.. jo bhi hoo.. i am happy they r free of ajigs.. nowwwwwwwwwLOVE IS IN THE AIR...

im excited abt tomorrow now.wwwwwwww...

luv u ,
savi
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hey Anu, say the episode. I didnot feel Jia was detached. He was the first one to tell Jigs nothing will be solved by slapping Anu, they have to find a solution for her problem.

But Jigs being Jigs had to put all the blame on Bani who saved Jigs izzat (about which Jigs keeps harping about all the time).Instead of seeing her own fault of ignoring her daughter, for the ruination of Bani.

Bani did try to talk to Jigs and warn her about her daughter coming late and all but Jigs being Jigs completely ignored her and started bashing Bani and her sisters.Instead of worrying for her daughter and being there for Anu.

Anu swearing Bani to secrecy till her boyfriends parent agreed to marriage.Anu wanted to talk to Jigs then as well but Jigs ignored her daughter again for Banis divorce news.

If you go to see, Jai was completely right for the first time and he did the correct thing by taking his wife side for the first time against Jigs. Why should Bani be blamed after saving their honour.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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One Min... I think u all got me wrong. Let me clarify...

I am not against Jai standing up for Bani's dignity...why would i be? I least expected Jai to support Jigyasa, def not at the cost of Bani.
I am not getting into the right or wrong of what Jai did. My reason to make this point, was coz i felt strange when i saw Jai detaching himself from the problem... simply coz Jai is not like that. He wont turn his back on the crisis which hits his family, esp when he is the head of the family. He is immensely protective about his family and the honour of their surname and Anu is Anu Walia afterall. Yes, Jai did stop Jigyasa when she slapped Anu and tried sorting it out, but when Jigyasa attacked Bani all over again, Jai lost it then and there and got about doing just what he had stopped Jigyasa from doing... Blaming the situation on someboday. He blamed Jigyasa and Aditya for the upbrininging they have given their daughter and blamed them coz they neglected their kids in their fight. Jai might have made a concious decision or would have been in a daze coz of the way in which the situation turned over its head.Jai might have had his reasons to... and i wont question that.

All that i wanted to know from u all was, if Jai indeed was detached as i felt he was, or was it just my random imagination. Going through whatever u all have to say, one thing is clear... i wasnt haulicinating, Jai indeed was detached and stayed out of it.

May be it is too early for us to conclude Jai was detached... may be when he has the time to think over it, he will come up with a solution.

Luv
Anu.

Edited by anushka_5 - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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great analysis Anu..enjoyed reading it..


I think Jai detached himself from the crisis after lecturing Anu about "tumse yeh umeed nahi thi" and throwing enough blame on to Jigz and Adi...

But Mr cuddles knows his priority and it was stopping Bani from leaving the house... He went where he was needed to be the most at that time...with Bani...After all she took the brunt of the crisis.... He needed to start damage control and the way he held Bani's hand was enought to stop her in her tracks...Aaj hath pakda, hai hai, kal kya hoga... 😳 😉

As for Ranveer, I am not sure if he can function without Jigz...after all he does is follows her orders and walks behind her...
Anu said her boyfriend's family have agreed to the wedding so that problem is kind of solved...

Edited by lighthouse - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Anu .. i understand your view ..
I agree he supported Bani . which is good its only after seeing Jigs disregard Bani's good intentions and Sacrifice ..that he has just distanced .. himself ..
I think ... both familys can stay togather .. under one roof .. and each handle their .. personal issues seperately ..
If there was Maasi satying .. Ok ..like daadi is staying then .. she can handle or advice aditya ..since she abhors Jigs .
But jai .. is himself .. More a Busness Man then .. lets say the Head of the House .
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Good Analysis Anu 😛

But I feel that Jai for the first of his life has detached himself from Jigs problems and high time he did it because he has supported jigs and her entire famiy for so long while all along Jigs was a selfish and mean sister who never wanted her brother to settle down in his life but then for revenge sake she was very one who got him married to Bani and now in jealousy keeps on complainig about his wife and even wanted him to break his relationship. 😡 While Banis who was considered an outsider made a great sacrifice of her own character for his family honour which made him realise that if Bani considers Walia family has her own and sacrifices for it then he to has her husband needs to protect Bani respect and most importantly to save his marriage and I am sure that even after Jigs leaves Jai will fufill his responsibility has the head of the family and alongwith Bani and Aditya he will make Anus marriage with her friend Rohit 😃
Edited by mayona - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hi guys,
I don't agree with u that jai has detached himself from the problem.. He was the first one to point out to Jigs that they have to concentrate on solving Anu's problem. The guy was under a lot of pressure for the past few days and suddenly everything changed. He had to deal with his own guilt plus hear Jig's poison spilling over Bani, so he lashed out! Anyways don't forget they have just shown the immediate reactions of everyone and I am sure that in the coming episodes Jai will be heavily involved in Anu's future and in solving this matter!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I agree!!! Ashwini was excellent today! She brought out her desperation and anger really well! She's an AMAZING actress!
And for the very first time I saw Ranveer with a different expression which was very well done I must say as well!
As far as Jai's support is concerned I think this episode was executed really well. What he says about Jigs and Adi is true and really even if he might be the head of the family it is their neglect that could've lead Anu through that path (and of course Anu's stupidity). I don't think Jai distanced himself from the problem coz he was upset with Anu and more so with Jigs for not having handled it better. And when he said that he's not going to take back anything that he said I agreed with him coz even at that point Jigs main issue was that Jai was siding Jigs and not her.....instead of defending the allegation of neglect that Jai placed on her Jigs was more concerned with whom Jai was supporting and so even with the given opportunity she misused it. Obviously Jai was mad at her for not explaining why she neglected Anu and instead ranting about whom he supported and hence did not involve himself anymore in the matter. And I personally don't think it's Jai's responsibility to handle the problem just coz they live under his roof.....that way he would have to be worried about every single person in that house which I would think would be quite exhausting! 😛

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