One Min... I think u all got me wrong. Let me clarify...
I am not against Jai standing up for Bani's dignity...why would i be? I least expected Jai to support Jigyasa, def not at the cost of Bani.
I am not getting into the right or wrong of what Jai did. My reason to make this point, was coz i felt strange when i saw Jai detaching himself from the problem... simply coz Jai is not like that. He wont turn his back on the crisis which hits his family, esp when he is the head of the family. He is immensely protective about his family and the honour of their surname and Anu is Anu Walia afterall. Yes, Jai did stop Jigyasa when she slapped Anu and tried sorting it out, but when Jigyasa attacked Bani all over again, Jai lost it then and there and got about doing just what he had stopped Jigyasa from doing... Blaming the situation on someboday. He blamed Jigyasa and Aditya for the upbrininging they have given their daughter and blamed them coz they neglected their kids in their fight. Jai might have made a concious decision or would have been in a daze coz of the way in which the situation turned over its head.Jai might have had his reasons to... and i wont question that.
All that i wanted to know from u all was, if Jai indeed was detached as i felt he was, or was it just my random imagination. Going through whatever u all have to say, one thing is clear... i wasnt haulicinating, Jai indeed was detached and stayed out of it.
May be it is too early for us to conclude Jai was detached... may be when he has the time to think over it, he will come up with a solution.
Luv
Anu.
Edited by anushka_5 - 19 years ago