The Day belonged to.....

….ASHWINI KALSEKAR!!!!

For a change Ram took a back seat… usually in his scenes invariably it is he who steals the show… This time it was Ashwini all the way👏. I am saying Ashiwini and not Jigyasa. They spoiled Jigyasa's character like never before😡. For heaven sake she is a mother… Instead of showing how shattred she was coz her daughter betrayed her trust, they show Jigyasa feeling terrible about Jai taking Bani's side. Jai was right… She cant think beyond Bani. The shot of the day was Jai & Jigyasa standing shell shocked with their mouth dropping to the ground 😆. Ekta has done a great job in casting Ram & Ashwini as sibbling... they suit their role perfectly... they look and react in a similar fashion.

Don't bang me for this, but I did feel a wee bit sad for Jigyasa😕. U know what, I want Aditya and Jigyasa to get back together and should leave the Walia Mansion with their kids. That house is now Jai Walia's house and seriously I am beginning to feel they are losing their importance in that house. I am not saying Jai-Bani have started to ignore them or take control of the house…but now it has become Mrs & Mr Jai Walia's home. They should leave now.

Yeh Jai bhi na… kamal ka banda hai! Ek pal mein hi palti mar di. As much as I adored Jai for standing up for Bani's dignity👏… I didn't like his immediate shift😕! I would have wanted him to solve it as the head of the family and there he was lost in the blame game. He was only being Bani's husband when he was required to be a brother, friend and a mamaji. I don't know if I am making any sense… but I felt he detached himself from the problem.. it was like 'I and my wife have nothing more to do with this.. it is ur family, deal it the way u want to deal it.' Is it only me or did anyone feel Jai detached himself and Bani from that matter😕. It wont be long before we hear Jai tell Bani 'U don't interfere in their matters' and I can bet everything on the fact that Bani wont listen to him!!! I am not saying Jai was being selfish. I think a lot had to do with the turn of events in such a short span of time…Jai was in a daze… he was relieved, happy, proud of Bani at the same time there was guilt tugging at his heart and their was a sister who simply lost her mind, coz she lost her pride! I do understand all of that… but still, Jai is the head of the family!!!😕

I know Ranveer didn't make any sense, he was as usual blaming Bani for everything. But I liked him for the fact he stood my his mom, the only comfort that she can be sure of. Aditya is gone a long time back, Anu and Sahil's support is nothing to talk about. Jai has made it clear he wont hear a word against Bani… atleast Ranveer stood by her. However evil Jigyasa is, she has a Regal appeal about herself… which is primarily coz she is Jai Walia's sister.. I felt sad when the same pride was bitten to dust. No one else was responsible but Jigyasa herself for that, but still…

I better stop with my Jigyasa campaign before u guys stone me😕😆. I don't hate jigyasa… atleast not as much I hate Pia and Pushkar. I can forgive Jigyasa for anything, for she is the reason Jai-Bani are Man and Wife today! I hope Jigyasa redeems herself and get back with Aditya.

Now for the best scene… Jai stopping Bani from leaving. Silence it was all the way😳. Loved the way he held Bani's hand, it wasn't a grip or force. He just held her hand firmly and took away the suitcase and told her she didn't have to go anywhere. And Bani stayed back without even a word!?!?!😕 Jai isnt all that aggressive, this girl is far too submissive!!! Who cares, as long as they are together… anyone can boss over the other😳! Jai, I so wanted u to scold Bani for not trusting u with the truth, but u were far to happy and in a hurry to burry that episode. If not anything atleast tell her 'tum zarurath se zyada achi ho' she is driving us mad with her Good, Pure & Kind Soul!!!

After having spoken almost in defense of Jigyasa today, I wont deny the fact that I am simply ecstatic that Jigyasa is out of the way… Jai-Bani's romance is going to florish like never before. But Jigyasa has left her substitute behind… Ranveer, I hope we will finally see Siddarth's talent being used. Where will Jigyasa go? No Roshini either!!! I think Ashwini is taking a break… I feel Prachi needs one desperately. The poor kid looks drained out and stressed. But i cant imagine watching the show without Jai & Bani in it!

That is it from me…

Bye Bye

Take care

Lots of Luv😃

Anu.

anu ... i kinda agree ... Jai shud have taken a stand as the head of the family... he needed to stand up for his wife... but apart from that he needed to talk to Anu.. try n work things for her...
its still his family name at stake...

but i loved his standing up for bani... poor thing has been thru enough 😳

Great analysis as usual.Havent seen the episode so cant comment on what happened, but I really do think Ashwani is a superb actress. 👏 👏 She really is great at expressing herself. 😃 Would have loved it if Ranveer left with Jigs too. 😡

Cant wait to see love bloom between Jai & Bani.
😳

Originally posted by: pooja.walia

anu ... i kinda agree ... Jai shud have taken a stand as the head of the family... he needed to stand up for his wife... but apart from that he needed to talk to Anu.. try n work things for her...
its still his family name at stake...

but i loved his standing up for bani... poor thing has been thru enough 😳

Jai standing up for Bani was the best... no doubts on that front. I wonder what makes him so protective when it comes to Bani😳

damn rigth he should have stood up; for bani... 😆

You read my mind Anu .. after reading the update, I too felt bad that Jai did not comfort Jigs. Yes, he was right in telling Jigs to stop bringing Bani into this, but he should have also figured out what needs to be done.. after all he considers himself as the head of the household. But after a few hrs of dwelling on what occured, I guess, he was relieved of his personal agony on hearing that Bani was not at fault and his guilt was so much that he did not care about anybody else. He has been keeping his feelings for Bani to himself and wanted to be by himself to get things sorted out...

I also felt that Bani should have confided in somebody... as parents, Jigs and Aditya do have a say in this and if she felt that Jigs will not understand her, she should have tried Aditya.

i think Jai did rite .. by stepping aside ...and letting Jigs and adi Handle the problem .
I think Jai did this coz .. Jigs was being Bitchy and selfish... with Bani ... when Bani was going to sacrifice her marriage ... and not only her but Jai too ..I mean jigs was so ungrateful ... at that point ( she cant even value the fact that her Bro was going to dissolve his marriage ) .. ( Jigs noticed at the party .. jai and bani getting close ).. jai must have decided .. he cant solve his sis family problems .. coz ... all she cared about was being spiteful to Bani ... and even if that meant ignoring Anu's immediate problem
Above all .. Aditya Anu's dad is around ... what more support does jigs need ..not forgetting .. her sapola ... Ranveer ..

just coz jigs stays in walia house it dosent mean Jai has to Handle her personal family problems .. aditya is around too .
Jai knows his siter inside out .. and must want to avoid unneccesary headaches .
Jai Thank God u stayed away .. !

Originally posted by: vazz

You read my mind Anu .. after reading the update, I too felt bad that Jai did not comfort Jigs. Yes, he was right in telling Jigs to stop bringing Bani into this, but he should have also figured out what needs to be done.. after all he considers himself as the head of the household. But after a few hrs of dwelling on what occured, I guess, he was relieved of his personal agony on hearing that Bani was not at fault and his guilt was so much that he did not care about anybody else. He has been keeping his feelings for Bani to himself and wanted to be by himself to get things sorted out...

I also felt that Bani should have confided in somebody... as parents, Jigs and Aditya do have a say in this and if she felt that Jigs will not understand her, she should have tried Aditya.

That is the only reason i am giving him a benefit of doubt. Else i found him pretty detached. I hope he works out something. As far as Bani goes, i dont approve of the way she handled the pregnancy issue. No point in putting ur own dignity at stake. I can understand her not being able to tell Jigyasa...but atleast Jai or Aditya. What i am worried about is that we wont be seeing Bani's sacrificing act for the last time

great analysis Anu...now i just can't wait to watch the epi!

Originally posted by: klueless

i think Jai did rite .. by stepping aside ...and letting Jigs and adi Handle the problem .
I think Jai did this coz .. Jigs was being Bitchy and selfish... with Bani ... when Bani was going to sacrifice her marriage ... and not only her but Jai too ..I mean jigs was so ungrateful ... at that point ( she cant even value the fact that her Bro was going to dissolve his marriage ) .. ( Jigs noticed at the party .. jai and bani getting close ).. jai must have decided .. he cant solve his sis family problems .. coz ... all she cared about was being spiteful to Bani ... and even if that meant ignoring Anu's immediate problem
Above all .. Aditya Anu's dad is around ... what more support does jigs need ..not forgetting .. her sapola ... Ranveer ..

just coz jigs stays in walia house it dosent mean Jai has to Handle her personal family problems .. aditya is around too .
Jai knows his siter inside out .. and must want to avoid unneccesary headaches .
Jai Thank God u stayed away .. !

That is exactly what i was trying to say.. the feeling of different families has crept into the Walia house. It was very evident today...Jai stood firmly by Bani's side(high time he did) while he let Jigyasa & Aditya handle their daughter's life. It was ONE family before and Jai was the head of the family... doesnt seem the case anymore. For them to maintain a healthy relationship... it is better the two families stay seperately... for that Jigyasa and Aditya have to reconclie... that would be next to impossible