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Wafah

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Posted: 19 years ago

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What is your overall assessment of Jai Walia's character? Please remember that you have to answer keeping in mind only Jai as a person and not his relations or his past.
I think Jai overall is a person who values honor, & loyalty, and in his heart a good person but a person who due to his experiences is life and business has become hard and doesn't trust easily.

Bani tells Jai that he has always found both good and bad in her and hence she can never decipher what his behaviour toward her will be; Is Bani indicating that they can never have a normal relationship because Jai has till date always been unstable in his attitude towards Bani whereas she has always been consistent?
When I saw yesterdays episode that's what crossed my mind first that Jai was being nice to Bani but then as soon as she would do something wrong he's yell at her again. What I was hoping and am still hoping is that the final end results of this event is that Jai will finally learn to see Bani and trust her despite the evil presence of Jigyasa and Ranvir. Bani in a way feels that Jai never really understood her despite all she has done and tried to do for him and his family.

A hypothetical question; Do you think that Bani can ever feel completely secure in the marriage with Jai considering his blow hot - blow cold attitude towards Bani? Alternatively, do you feel that Jai is capable of giving Bani a secure and happy marriage that she desires or will he always be unpredictable?
I think that once Jai truly understands Bani and accepts her in his life for who she is, then he can give her the stability and support she desires, which I'm hoping this incident as it plays out will help him to see. I think that once this pregnancy gig gets cleared up for the first time Bani and Jai can actually start a good relationship and not a volatile relationship, but first I think that both have to be honest with each other which neither Bani nor Jai is doing right now. So far they might have liking for each other and have begun to develop feelings but there is no trust, which is important in the foundation of any relationship.

Please describe to the best of your ability, what do you find more in Jai....the essential goodness & warmth of his heart or the hatred and malevolence that takes him over completely at times?
I find that he has goodness and warmth in his heart, because he really is caring although he hesitates in showing. I also think that his anger and malevolence is more indicative of his hurt and he uses it to cover up his hurt pride and jealousy.

What do you make of Jai's overall reaction to Bani's pregnancy? Hurt, dejection, jealousy, hatred, anger or indifference?
I don't think Jai knew at first how to react, it began with a sort of desperate hope that the report was somewhat false, then confusion since Bani it goes against Bani's character then came the hurt and slight jealousy, which I think brought out the anger and hatred.

Please analyze the whole situation from Bani's point of view and share with us, what is your take on Jai's reaction to Bani and the way he acted with her today, threatening physical subjugation on Bani to revenge his humilation?
I think Bani is terrified of Jai to some extent, she respects him but it is mixed with a constant fear at Jai anger that tends to be unstable in concern to her. I don't think Jai will actually do something but in threatening her he is probably testing her in some way because deep (maybe deep deep deep down) he's still fighting the fact that Bani cheated on him.

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Piscean

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Posted: 19 years ago

#12

MT I've always loved your updates and all your musings and this time I thought I'd indulge it as well! It's my very first so hope it's worth your time!

1) What is your overall assessment of Jai Walia's character? Please remember that you have to answer keeping in mind only Jai as a person and not his relations or his past.

Personally I think Jai Walia's character is an extremely complex one (then again which human isn't!). He has always been a spoiled brat (to put it straight) but one who values relationships and virtuosity. He doesn't seem like a person who would hurt anyone purposefully but also isn't one to forgive and forget easily. He's a perfect medium between the good and evil in people which is what makes him all the more interesting and to an extent easy to relate to.

2) Bani tells Jai that he has always found both good and bad in her and hence she can never decipher what his behaviour toward her will be; Is Bani indicating that they can never have a normal relationship because Jai has till date always been unstable in his attitude towards Bani whereas she has always been consistent?

I must first confess that I haven't watched the episode so I find her statement quite out of place in their conversation. But if I were to analyse it anyways I don't think that that's what Bani is indicating. I agree that she has been fairly consistent with her attitude towards Jai (which is one of respect turning into love now) and that Jai is quite inconsistent in comparison. However, Bani is unaware of Jai's true feelings for her which if not love definitely includes respect and compassion. He has been harsh with her on occassions but I think it was his insecurity that made him that way more than anything. Now that he's more tolerant he feels less compelled to hurt Bani in the process (which of course has changed again thanks to Kekta!) but since Bani is talking about her previous experiences with Jai I still don't understand how that's an excuse for Bani to keep such a secret from him (whether she may/may not be pregnant). I guess it might be hard for Bani to accept that Jai truly sympathised with her prior to this incident however she did notice a change in him and it would be presumptuous of Bani to assume that they would not have a tolerant (if not steady) relationship. At least that's my opinion.

A hypothetical question; Do you think that Bani can ever feel completely secure in the marriage with Jai considering his blow hot - blow cold attitude towards Bani? Alternatively, do you feel that Jai is capable of giving Bani a secure and happy marriage that she desires or will he always be unpredictable?

I guess I answered the first part within my answer to the previous question but I think that if Bani herself is aware of Jai's change in attitude towards her for the past few days (which has been consistent) then she shouldn't really doubt that they would have a tolerant relationship. A secure marriage would be something that they would both have to work towards together but comfort leve would be something that they would've had had it not been for this news. Jai is perfectly capable of giving Bani a secure and happy marriage provided he chooses to! I think from his character that he feels the need to be sure that he will get as much as he puts in into the marriage (being business-minded 😊). From the previous episodes it looked like he was getting comfortable with Bani and eventually that could've lead to a path towards a happy marriage. I feel as long as Jai doesn't feel betrayed he would definitely be able to provide Bani the security that she wants.

Please describe to the best of your ability, what do you find more in Jai....the essential goodness & warmth of his heart or the hatred and malevolence that takes him over completely at times?

I guess to that I have to say that he's a perfect balance of the 2. I don't think I see more of either in him. At least from what has been shown to us he seems naturally warm and good-hearted but like you said hatred takes over him when he feels betrayed. I guess such is human nature and that's what makes Jai's character so real. But if I was put on a gunpoint I'd have to say that I find more of the goodness and warmth in him....or maybe that's what I choose to look at 😉

What do you make of Jai's overall reaction to Bani's pregnancy? Hurt, dejection, jealousy, hatred, anger or indifference?

I think he is hurt more than anything else. He is definitely not indifferent coz the news has certainly had some effect on him (which might be a good thing for all the Jai-Bani fans out there) and he's not jealous or dejected as much as he is hurt at finding out that she really is pregnant (at least according to Bani herself). Hate and anger I suppose are the after effects of the pain that has been inflicted on him by Bani since he started to grow fond of her and hadn't expected to be betrayed by her. So to sum it up I think he's hurt by the news.

Please analyze the whole situation from Bani's point of view and share with us, what is your take on Jai's reaction to Bani and the way he acted with her today, threatening physical subjugation on Bani to revenge his humilation?

Bani is definitely unsure of Jai's reaction to the news and her respect and love for him makes her fear his stance on the pregnancy issue. Jai's opinion matters to her and his reaction to Bani definitely must hurt her while making her guilty of hurting Jai at the very same time. I think Jai's reaction is justified to the extent that he's acting on his anger and pain upon hearing about Bani's pregnancy although he could've reacted differently but I suppose that is expected of a guy who's not used to being the victim! However in his defense I think Jai is too righteous to act on his threat. His definitely has to be an empty threat to inflict fear in Bani and nothing more considering that a day or 2 ago he was in support of her!

We really appreciate you taking the time out to formulate questions so we can think and articulate our thoughts and for taking the time out to read all the responses as well MT! Great post! 👏

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mistletoe

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Posted: 19 years ago

#13

What is your overall assessment of Jai Walia's character? Please remember that you have to answer keeping in mind only Jai as a person and not his relations or his past.

As I mentioned in my write-up, Jai is a person who reacts to situations and not to people...he is extremely fallible yet a very endearing person, someone who has good and bad in him in equal measures, someone who is as easy to decipher yet surprisingly unpredictable. Someone who can give calm and stability to others yet be scaringly volatile at times.....Jai is definitely a very engimatic and complex person at the same time being very simple and child-like.

Bani tells Jai that he has always found both good and bad in her and hence she can never decipher what his behaviour toward her will be; Is Bani indicating that they can never have a normal relationship because Jai has till date always been unstable in his attitude towards Bani whereas she has always been consistent?

Yes, Jai has always been inconsistent in his attitude towards Bani and she has always been stable! Despite the fact that both of them had to undergo almost equal amount of pain, humiliation and isolation, Bani took life in a more positive way and never targetted Jai for any of her miseries, whereas Jai cornered Bani and made her pay for all that happened to him! They can have a normal relationship, but it will still have strong undercurrents of tension, simply because Jai is too volatile and reactive as a person, while Bani is extremely passive and subdued...that way they do fill th void in one another's life...but the relationship they share will always be more beneficial to Jai than to Bani.

A hypothetical question; Do you think that Bani can ever feel completely secure in the marriage with Jai considering his blow hot - blow cold attitude towards Bani? Alternatively, do you feel that Jai is capable of giving Bani a secure and happy marriage that she desires or will he always be unpredictable?

Unless and until Jai relies on his individual judgement and stops reacting to individual situations, I think Bani is in for a lifetime of insecurity with him! He will surely give her all the love and protection in the World, but she will never be sure of when the wind will change the direction of the sail...

Please describe to the best of your ability, what do you find more in Jai....the essential goodness & warmth of his heart or the hatred and malevolence that takes him over completely at times?

Jai is essentially a very good human being but overall his behaviour towards Bani has been almost inhuman! But Bani still chooses to see the good in him, as opposed to Jai, who sees good and evil both in Bani all the time and hence keeps reacting to her all the time!

What do you make of Jai's overall reaction to Bani's pregnancy? Hurt, dejection, jealousy, hatred, anger or indifference?

I personally thought that Jai was mad with jealousy and anger more than anything else...the thought that someone else had a right over Bani simply made him go ballistic...if he had been simply heart-broken and hurt, his reaction to Bani would have been different, but he behaved in an obessessive manner and actually brought up the issue of his "rights" over Bani as her husband indicating that he had stayed away from Bani till now because of his decency but now that she has overstepped her boundaries, he also has not qualms in doing anything he wants to.

Please analyze the whole situation from Bani's point of view and share with us, what is your take on Jai's reaction to Bani and the way he acted with her today, threatening physical subjugation on Bani to revenge his humilation?

Everyone argues that Jai only gives empty threats and has done nothing till date, I don't think so! He has not done what he had announced he would do, but at the same time, he has not even let Pia, Pushkar and Bani go their own way....and he has tormented Bani the most amongst the trio, I think the only person whom he left in peace is Pia and partly Pushkar, but then again, he did get him thrown out of his job! Jai might not have done anything rash to Bani till now but he has broken her in spirit and has emotionally battered her, knowingly or unknowingly....I don't think Jai is the kinds who would use Physical subjugation as a means to get even with Bani.....hopefully not! 😕

Thanks a lot for all those who answered, awaiting more replies!

Cheers,

MT

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Swathi

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Posted: 19 years ago

#14

Oh MT I was just wondering abt your questions when I happened to find your post..so here are my views...

What is your overall assessment of Jai Walia's character? Please remember that you have to answer keeping in mind only Jai as a person and not his relations or his past.
Well I guess I have always maintained that though Jai Walia is a successfull business tycoon his personal life is a complete mess. Somehow nothing seems to work for him. Having a family is somewhat natural to most of the people but when it comes to Jai Walia it just seems to elude him. As a person I would term Jai as ruthless businessman. he gets whatever he wants when it comes to his business. But he needs help when it comes to his personal life. He is extreme in whatever he does. When he is good he really goes out of the way to help and similarly when he has to be ruthless he once again goes out of the way. He is highly unpredictable and a moody person.

Bani tells Jai that he has always found both good and bad in her and hence she can never decipher what his behaviour toward her will be; Is Bani indicating that they can never have a normal relationship because Jai has till date always been unstable in his attitude towards Bani whereas she has always been consistent?
Well opposites attract. Jai has gone through a couple of situations which makes him wary of trusting people. On the contrary Bani is still young and she has most of the time led a sheltered life in Mt Abu away from the city. So trusting people comes naturally to her. Though Jai wants to trust Bani but when she herself says that she is pregnant he is completely heart broken and hence has gone back to his old vindictive ways. Yes what Bani was indicating to Jai is that he is unstable and gives importance to the situations and the reactions rather than the person (basically the reasons) who is going through the situation.

A hypothetical question; Do you think that Bani can ever feel completely secure in the marriage with Jai considering his blow hot - blow cold attitude towards Bani?
Alternatively, do you feel that Jai is capable of giving Bani a secure and happy marriage that she desires or will he always be unpredictable?
Whether Bani feels secure or not that completely depends on Jai. He needs to mend his ways and give that kind of comfort level to Bani. I think Bani is a person who does not demand anything major. Any man can consider himself lucky if he happens to get a wife like Bani. and Yes I feel that Jai is capable of giving Bani a secure and happy marriage that she desires. Though he might be unpredictable but the basic requirement of a marriage trust and love would be present so Bani and Jai would be able to face all the odds tegether. In fact I think that this whole pregnancy fiasco will cement the trust between Bani and Jai and after this Jai will begin to trust Bani completely with everything. Basically this episode will make Jai understand Bani's actions in future. But as compared between Jai and Bani I feel that Jai is luckier to get Bani as a wife rather than vice versa.

Please describe to the best of your ability, what do you find more in Jai....the essential goodness & warmth of his heart or the hatred and malevolence that takes him over completely at times?
As of now I think Jai's hatred and malevolence seems to be the uppermost. He is very quick to get angry and I for one would not categorize him as a sane person at least when it comes to personal relationships. Jai seems to be a impulsive person someone who decides on face value and hence jumps to quick conclusions. Once again that may be coz of his previous experiences. In fact sometimes I think Aditya is more mature than Jai as he also had his own share of problems (divorce with jigs and some dumb children) but he is able to analyze a situation in a better way.

What do you make of Jai's overall reaction to Bani's pregnancy? Hurt, dejection, jealousy, hatred, anger or indifference?
My initial thought was that Jai felt all of the above adjectives listed. But after seeing yesterday's episode I feel that he just cannot digest the fact that someone else had some kind of a right over Bani. All this while Jai was very restrained and has never used any physical force against Bani. Though he did raise his hand against Bani a couple of times but never actually slapped her. He is the one who actually believes in emotionally blackmailing a person or just by taking away all the person's prized possessions. Maybe Jai felt a bit possessive abt Bani as well. But to give Jai the benefit of doubt throughtout his marriage Jai has never been unfaithful and I guess he also kind of expected the same from Bani and his initial hurt and dejection appeared as anger and then gave way to jealousy.

Please analyze the whole situation from Bani's point of view and share with us, what is your take on Jai's reaction to Bani and the way he acted with her today, threatening physical subjugation on Bani to revenge his humilation?
I think by now Bani understands Jai completely in a way that he is way too unpredictable and sarcastic. and that is the reason she made a statement as he has always found both good and bad in her. I find that something is worrying Bani a lot. She is not a person who cries at the drop of a hat. When she was thrown out of the house or when their Mt Abu house was demolished she faced the situation quite calmly. Also the marriage of Pia was done in a very intelligent manner. But as I said earlier something is really bothering her and hence she is not coming with the truth. I noticed one more thing. The very next day she prepares lunch for Jai and gives it to him (its another story that cuddles refused). So if she was really at fault I don't think that she could have been so normal. Bani is a traditional girl and preganacy out of wedlock would be scandalous for her. Coming back to Jai what else can we expect from him. He pretty well reacted the same way as he did in the earlier situation (money) and Bani would also have expected some kind of a similiar reaction. But this time there was a high undercurrent of emotions in Jai's side. I guess digressed a lot today. In one line if I was in Bani's place I think that I would have expected this kind of a quick reaction from Jai. When it comes to physical subjucation I think that was a bit of a surprise. AS I said earlier this time Jai looked more emotional to me than the earlier time and of course he was at his sarcastic best.

Some more views from my side...
I wonder why Jai is so open about his feelings with Bani alone. With rest of them he maintains his self control even though he is angry. But somehow with Bani I feel that whether he is feeling lost/angry/good/bad he is very open with her. When he is angry he blasts her. Somehow I feel that Jai is exercising his right over her. At the same time he keeps on repeating that he wants to divorce her as if he is trying to convince himself. What say ?

btw I think I think that I got carried away and typed a lot of things. Thanks for your patience ppl in case you are still reading my post.

Swathi

Edited by swathi - 19 years ago

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Priya

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Posted: 19 years ago

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Originally posted by: mistletoe

My very first attempt at answering your questions Mistletoe! 😊Here goes:

So here are my questions for you;

What is your overall assessment of Jai Walia's character? Please remember that you have to answer keeping in mind only Jai as a person and not his relations or his past.

I think that Jai Walia is at heart a very insecure person, and easily manipulated, As much as he tries to portray an air of power and superiority, he is very vulnerable and a softie on the inside! As much as he has a soft sensitive side, he can also be an ogre, with a most vengeful and hateful streak. I thought originally that Bani would be the perfect partner for him, her calm, restraint and resilent nature compared to his hot-headed, egocentric one.

Bani tells Jai that he has always found both good and bad in her and hence she can never decipher what his behaviour toward her will be; Is Bani indicating that they can never have a normal relationship because Jai has till date always been unstable in his attitude towards Bani whereas she has always been consistent?

That comment is so true. I was even thinking about this - that Jai's reactions are based on Bani's actions and not on her personality! Knowing the kind of person she is, and she's been consistent at least in that, Jai should be more trusting of her. I suppose its a matter of once bitten twice shy for him, but I think you can guage a person's personality after spending 3 months living with them. Jai is like a yo-yo when it comes to Bani, I feel really sorry for her. I also don't blame Bani for not confiding in Jai, for fear of his reaction. Bani has honoured her marriage vows, and treated Jai with nothing but respect and dignity. The same unfortunately cannot be said for him.

A hypothetical question; Do you think that Bani can ever feel completely secure in the marriage with Jai considering his blow hot - blow cold attitude towards Bani? Alternatively, do you feel that Jai is capable of giving Bani a secure and happy marriage that she desires or will he always be unpredictable?

I think the Pia fiasco burnt Jai badly, and he is still carrying those wounds. As much as he may try he will never truly understand and appreciate Bani for the true gem she is. I also noticed that even when he makes a mistake and misjudges Bani, he never apologises afterwards! At the moment, he truly takes Bani for granted and as she carries out her wifely duties impeccably, Jai treats her like a human being when the fancy takes him. With a mix of his insecurity and whatever bad blood he had with her dad, Jai will never be able to truly put the past behind him, and give Bani the happiness she deserves.

Please describe to the best of your ability, what do you find more in Jai....the essential goodness & warmth of his heart or the hatred and malevolence that takes him over completely at times?

I think the hatred and malevolence stands out for me. At the centre of Jai's hatred has been Pia's rejection of him, and even though he knew this was wrong, he vented his anger on poor Bani. At times I think he is so heartless, that whatever good he does is negated by the bad. I definitely think we've seen more hatred towards Bani than love, and that really stands out for me.

What do you make of Jai's overall reaction to Bani's pregnancy? Hurt, dejection, jealousy, hatred, anger or indifference?

Personally I think its a male ego issue, that even though he treated her like dirt,and constantly reminds her their marriage is a sham, he expected her to honour her vows. Lets not forget that Jai might have spent the night with Roshni (when she had his chain). So its anger that Bani would have the sheer audacity to go and have some-one else's child, when she's lawfully wed to him.

Please analyze the whole situation from Bani's point of view and share with us, what is your take on Jai's reaction to Bani and the way he acted with her today, threatening physical subjugation on Bani to revenge his humilation?

If I were Bani, I would be extremely fed-up of covering for Anu by now. Duty is one thing, being maligned at every opportunity for something you didn't do is another! Again, I think its a male ego thing with Jai, that his so-called wife could sleep with someone else while being married to him. I think Jai is just bluffing, trying to scare her, perhaps trying to boost his own fragile male ego. If I were Bani I would be terrified (she is a bit of a weakling) and take Jai at his word. I still think that Bani will remain to suffer and keep the secret, to her own detriment 😡. If I were Bani I would hurriedly pack my bags and leave! 😆

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Sangita

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Posted: 19 years ago

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What is your overall assessment of Jai Walia's character? Please remember that you have to answer keeping in mind only Jai as a person and not his relations or his past.

One thing that rushes to my mind immediately is that he's a very passionate type of person. He loves passionately, he hates passionately. Passion is the key word for him. Also he is arrogant to some extent and cannot bear to see someone getting the better of him, even if its Bani.
He is also very mobile like water; fiery like mercury and shimmery like quicksilver. To catch his attention is a very big thing in itself, but to be the centre of his attention, either for positive or negative reasons, is bound to be scary because of the all-pervasiveness of his character and feelings. God, Bani must be still having those tremors even now!

Bani tells Jai that he has always found both good and bad in her and hence she can never decipher what his behaviour toward her will be; Is Bani indicating that they can never have a normal relationship because Jai has till date always been unstable in his attitude towards Bani whereas she has always been consistent?

The scales are tilted on Bani's side this time. From her point of view, she is witnessing the different ranges of emotions of Jai Walia and its very difficult fro her to understand the real Jai, until and unless he gives her some real good chance of doing so.
Even when Jai picks up the colour for her sari, Bani muses about what's wrong with mr. Walia and why's he behaving in this fashion? She did not turn all softy under any romantic pretensions. She was also confused as hell when he asked her for a dance.
Jai needs to understand that Bani's a human being too and she can harbour feelings for anybody else also. After all, as he had already pointed out, their marriage was an unplanned one and none of them were a party to it.

A hypothetical question; Do you think that Bani can ever feel completely secure in the marriage with Jai considering his blow hot - blow cold attitude towards Bani? Alternatively, do you feel that Jai is capable of giving Bani a secure and happy marriage that she desires or will he always be unpredictable?

This will entirely depend when Jai starts understanding Bani fully as a separate individual and not a pawn to take out his hatred for others as well. He has to let Bani see the other side of him too so that she recognises this intense side of his nature. The clear onus is on Jai and only then will Bani be able to maintain a secure relationship with him. As we are all guessing, Bani is already in love with him to some extent but she feels that Jai's positive overtures are due to the fact that she will be staying at her place for a few more days. She has to come in terms with Jai's intense mental framework and use her consistency as a balm on his wounds. (It seems difficult though)
If these two can sort out these problems, I am sure they will be the happiest couple on earth.

Please describe to the best of your ability, what do you find more in Jai....the essential goodness & warmth of his heart or the hatred and malevolence that takes him over completely at times?

It's a 50 – 50 situation. The quicksilver component of his character makes him go all see-saw whenever he faces an emotional crisis. And this time he's more or less uncontrollable. Maybe he still hasn't realized that he has started loving Bani a lot and to get these news abt her, was like driving the last nail into the coffin.
But even after all this, he should remember that Bani is a mature person and that she has every right to take her own decisions, as he keeps on harping that there's no place for her in his life. Then why shouldn't the opposite be true?

What do you make of Jai's overall reaction to Bani's pregnancy? Hurt, dejection, jealousy, hatred, anger or indifference?

I guessed that he would be hurt to a great extent but what he did in the last episode, i.e. threatening Bani physically, takes the cake. He was being so evil. But, I was proud of my honeybun, even when she was shivering, she held her ground. She now knows that she cannot back away from this. And definitely she didn't see all this coming.
Yes, Jai is jealous to some extent. Its as if how could Bani do this to me ? Of course, he's dejected – maybe he was trying to find a way out of this divorce stuff.
He is anything but indifferent. At this moment, I would love getting inside Jai Walia's head and read his thoughts, but I assume that's gonna be pretty scary, at this moment.

Please analyze the whole situation from Bani's point of view and share with us, what is your take on Jai's reaction to Bani and the way he acted with her today, threatening physical subjugation on Bani to revenge his humilation?

As before, Jai should learn to draw the line if we are to believe him that he's not at all interested in Bani and her welfare and etc.
True, he has been hurt, but he should realize that its difficult being everybody's world. I agree Bani should have confided in him. But, the idea of physically subjugating Bani to avenge humiliation is not so done. I really hope he doesn't resolve to all this stupidity.

MT, ur questions are great. In fact, I wait for your analyses and questions to see me through. Kudos 👏

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kiah71

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Posted: 19 years ago

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hi mt, back with the ans.

What is your overall assessment of Jai Walia's character? Please remember that you have to answer keeping in mind only Jai as a person and not his relations or his past.

ans. Jai walia is a very straight forward person with heart of gold, who never like to lie or break trust of anybody and like to love others and let others love him. 😛 he is just like coconut. hard from outside and very soft from inside.

Bani tells Jai that he has always found both good and bad in her and hence she can never decipher what his behaviour toward her will be; Is Bani indicating that they can never have a normal relationship because Jai has till date always been unstable in his attitude towards Bani whereas she has always been consistent?

ans. no. they can have a normal relationship just like any other husband and wife. from whatever situation jai went through till date made him a person with insecure in his relationship with bani. his relation with her start from good mentor to her, then hatred husband and then convert this relation into love for bani. this ups and down change jai a lot. earlier he was very secure in his relation but after pia's incident everything has been change. pia was away but bani was with him and too as his wife. so situation forced jai to behave with bani accordingly. this confuse bani a lot. she is unable to judge jai's behaviour.

A hypothetical question; Do you think that Bani can ever feel completely secure in the marriage with Jai considering his blow hot - blow cold attitude towards Bani? Alternatively, do you feel that Jai is capable of giving Bani a secure and happy marriage that she desires or will he always be unpredictable?

ans. oh yes. this is a temprory faze of their insecure relationship. see jai is very unfortunate in term of his coming out of the painful situation. he always has a very little time or say no time. bad thing happend to him one by one without giving him time to come out from it which made jai a totally different person. totally opposit from original jai. so some times he is very gentle and the very next moment he become harsh. that is the main reason for bani's insecure future. but once this faze is over, bani will be the happiest woman with a jem of husband like jai.

Please describe to the best of your ability, what do you find more in Jai....the essential goodness & warmth of his heart or the hatred and malevolence that takes him over completely at times?

ans. i find in jai the essential goodness and warmth of his heart more than hatred feeling. basically he is a man with heart fill with love and happiness for other. pia changed everything. made him totally different person. i notice after pia's incident though he showed his hatred feeling more to bani but from inside still he has a feeling for his near ones. if he was full with hatred feelings, he could have destroy pia, pushkar and bani too. but he never did it.this shows the goodness of his heart. he wants to love his near one's but betray feeling stop his so far. when he hurt the most or hatred feeling goes over his good heart, he behave as a totally diff.jai.

What do you make of Jai's overall reaction to Bani's pregnancy? Hurt, dejection, jealousy, hatred, anger or indifference?

ans. hurt the most. he felt cheated with the hearing of the news of bani's pregnancy. bani didn't trust him, this fact hurt jai from deep of his heart. he always trust bani. looking to their relationship, he easily blame bani without asking her the truth of the report. but no, he trust bani. thats why he didn't believe what report said or what jig said. he wanted to hear it from the mouth of bani. when bani herself confirmed the report, it shattered jai from his root. his trust shattered, his heart shattered.

Please analyze the whole situation from Bani's point of view and share with us, what is your take on Jai's reaction to Bani and the way he acted with her today, threatening physical subjugation on Bani to revenge his humilation?

ans. she was scared the way jai threaten her. she couldn't understood what to do. after hearing jai'r threaten and being a mature girl, it is the top most priority of her to tell the truth to jai. family pride and saving family member is one thing and save own's marraige is different thing. you can't say that as bani think that she is in walia house till masi is there, it is better to save anu and let jai, her own husband suffer alongwith her. from going through so much humiliation and that too when people raise their fingers on her character, it is not advisable to hide the truth anymore. bani will become a great woman but at what cost? has she ever think about it. why she can't think abt her and jai's happiness first. i notice that she always put her marital relationship suffer becoz she wants to solve the problems of other. by which she and jai suffer from immense pain.

hope u like the ans.

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