My heart went out to Jai.... - Page 2

Completely agree with you girls! Jai's anger was fully justified, even though his choice of words left much to be desired...Jai simply doesn't know what he is uttering when in anger...

But then just look at the situation the man is in...he trusted Bani so much, despite everything and then he gets to hear a news that his wife is pregnant and the child is obviously not Jai's!

More than anything, what I found unique was Jai's reaction was more out of a blind jealousy....he was really mad today....

Bani, better come out with the truth soon...even if she had to lie, she could have kept quiet and not told him that she is pregnant.

I don't think Jai has any reasons to feel guilty when the truth comes out, any man in his place would have reacted in the same manner...

But yes, the one big fallout of this fiasco will be that Jai won't be able to keeps his emotions with himself now and end up blurting to Bani that he is in love with her.....

MT

Missed your Analysis for these past few days Anu....as usual wonderful...

and Yes I agree with you all ! Yesterday was the day when Jai finally decided to let bygones be bygones and was genuinely happy and trying to make the most of whatever is available...I liked a couple of things yesterday...
One was Jai's expression when he comes to know of pregnancy and another was the way Jai comes and asks Bani politely about the veracity of whatever that he had heard and of course the scene where he bangs the book shelf.....The range of emotions was just splendid....Poor Bani the only day when Jai decides to be good she was not even able to feel happy thanks to Jigs's insult.....poor girl....

What I feel is that Jai might overhear some conversation between Anu and Bani and hence come to know of the truth....

Swathi

I agree partly, but I think everyone is being a bit hard on Bani. Bani has shown that her character is one of self-sacrifice, marrying Jai in Pia's place and subjecting herself to his rage is one example. Jai has given every indication that he intends to release her from the marriage, so why should he be upset?

Furthermore, if Jai's atrocious behaviour towards Bani can be justified (he was hurt, etc, etc) then surely Bani's sense of duty towards upholding the family honour can. Just because Jai has now decided that Bani is tolerable, and started to treat her less like a doormat, doesn't mean that she must now reciprocate! 😡

I do blame Bani for not confiding in Jai about the whole issue, but then again they don't really have the typical husband-wife relationship. Maybe no-one, including Jai, would believe Bani if she told them that Anu is pregnant!

I think that if anyone is at fault, it is Anu. I sincerely hope that she catches a wake-up and tells everyone the truth before it is too late.

Originally posted by: PriyaS

I agree partly, but I think everyone is being a bit hard on Bani. Bani has shown that her character is one of self-sacrifice, marrying Jai in Pia's place and subjecting herself to his rage is one example. Jai has given every indication that he intends to release her from the marriage, so why should he be upset?

Furthermore, if Jai's atrocious behaviour towards Bani can be justified (he was hurt, etc, etc) then surely Bani's sense of duty towards upholding the family honour can. Just because Jai has now decided that Bani is tolerable, and started to treat her less like a doormat, doesn't mean that she must now reciprocate! 😡

I do blame Bani for not confiding in Jai about the whole issue, but then again they don't really have the typical husband-wife relationship. Maybe no-one, including Jai, would believe Bani if she told them that Anu is pregnant!

I think that if anyone is at fault, it is Anu. I sincerely hope that she catches a wake-up and tells everyone the truth before it is too late.

Loved your point of view Priya...I kind of wrote on similar lines in a different post...yes, if Jai can be justified for everything that happens to him, then so can Bani....she is not answerable to Jai since they are anyway going to be seperated (as he happily keeps reminding her all the time)!

And all said and done, Bani till date has never used one wrong word or move against Jai, always kept his respect and honor first.....Jai has never even given a thought to Bani's feelings till now....

So, in a way, if Jai is justified then I guess so is Bani!

Cheers,

MT

First off all it good to hear from you again. Missed your wonderful analysis.

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Loved your point of view Priya...I kind of wrote on similar lines in a different post...yes, if Jai can be justified for everything that happens to him, then so can Bani....she is not answerable to Jai since they are anyway going to be seperated (as he happily keeps reminding her all the time)!

And all said and done, Bani till date has never used one wrong word or move against Jai, always kept his respect and honor first.....Jai has never even given a thought to Bani's feelings till now....

So, in a way, if Jai is justified then I guess so is Bani!

Cheers,

MT

I completely agree with you both. How was Bani to trust Jai suddenly when he never wants to share his problems etc with her when she wanted to share his problems, remember the episode when she sleeps on his hands!! He keeps on harping that they are just husband and wife in name only and donot have to share anything together, so how was she to trust him and share her problems with him.

Hope everything works out for the good in todays episode. Would love to see Jai & Bani becoming more close to each other as per the pandits saying.😊

Originally posted by: kubare

First off all it good to hear from you again. Missed your wonderful analysis.

I completely agree with you both. How was Bani to trust Jai suddenly when he never wants to share his problems etc with her when she wanted to share his problems, remember the episode when she sleeps on his hands!! He keeps on harping that they are just husband and wife in name only and donot have to share anything together, so how was she to trust him and share her problems with him.

Hope everything works out for the good in todays episode. Would love to see Jai & Bani becoming more close to each other as per the pandits saying.😊

Agree with all you guys. We are all seeing Jai's hurt b'cos its out there to be seen. But we are not sparing much for the girl who is taking the brunt of all this anger and hatred from everyone? Her most memorable day has been reduced to ashes probably because she is trying to fulfill her promise to someone.
Agred that probably Bani could have shared her turmoil with Jai, but is there any guarantee that the situation would have been very much different? In any case, she's treading on thin ice.
Just because Jai started giving her importance all of a sudden and acting love-crazy (OMG, i just loved those scenes), doesn't mean that she will have to throw caution to the wind at the same time.
I am really waiting for Aditya to get into the paternal mode right now as there's no one left for Bani right now to protect her honour. 😭