My heart went out to Jai....

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hello Everyone!

Howz everyone doing? Till now Great I guess… now I am back to bug u all. 😆

I am too bugged with today's episode. Seriously will Bani stop this Mahatma act of hers??? What did she achieve out of this? Jai's broken heart? Jai's Heart was only bruised till now…it was broken today. She might have valid reasons to do whatever she is doing… but I simply don't find any sense. 😕

Lets see how she changing Anu's pregnancy report(assuming) to Mrs Walia pregnancy report will help the situation? If her motive was to hide the fact from the family, then she or Anu should have gone and collected the report rather than having it delivered it to the Walia house, straight into the hands of Jigyasa. How long is Bani going to cover up? if Anu isnt going to terminate the pregnancy… then it will obviously show, for God sake😕!!! And who the hell is this Family doctor who doesn't even know who is Mrs. Bani Jai Walia😡? What load of crap and illogical solution… and in the bargain, Jai is shattered😭! Bani, this the 2nd time that I am totally wild with u and I hope it is the LAST. U better not put Ur Love and Jai's trust at stake once again. 😡

My heart went out to Jai today. Jai and ONLY Jai. Jai's heart can go out for Bani, not mine. Why is Bani like this? Jai was so happy today and most of all he was trying his best to make Bani feel special and make her come out of her SADNESS. For the 1st time, Bani was the center of his attention and existence. With Roshini gone out of the picture he was so free and relaxed and HAPPY. Right from selecting Bani's sari to taking her for a dance…Jai was at his caring and charming best. Looking at Jai anyone could have said this guy is hopelessly in LOVE with his wife and what more he didn't have any apprehensions about expressing himself and this time it was not pretense. Infact everyone saw the difference in Jai today, from Bani to Sahil. Everything was going his way… even on the business front. And this day had to that fateful day his heart and most importantly his trust was shattered yet again by that one person who had grown to held his heart and trust😭. Bani, yeh kya kiya tumne???

The way the Jai gets to know of the pregnancy was very well handled👏. To begin with Jai reacted to it as an amused socialite would to a Rumour, then it turned to Confusion when Bani walked away from the party. Jai was calm and composed and in control when he questioned Bani, almost sure it was a figment of fabrication by somebody… he grew anxious when Bani remained Silent and then shattered & devastated when Bani confirmed she was pregnant. He tried his best not to show any reaction.. but it was too much for him to bear… The way he banged his hand on the shelf was worth a special mention… it was just was a prelude to the Dangerous Jai Walia Rage. Lets hear it for Ram for a superb heart wrenching performance with so much of ease & class👏.

I Know Jai used some word which I don't approve of… but then, can he be blamed? This time it wasn't any misunderstanding, no middlemen… he asked directly and Bani refused to say the truth. If she is pregnant, then someone should be the father and Jai knows well he didn't cross that line even in his drunken state… so??? anyone with a sane mind would have lost it…and Jai is the last person I will categorise under the head SANE! I surely wont hold it against him, though I would have preferred for his own dignity he should have stopped from using those words. Last time the issue was money and Jai got over it coz it meant nothing to him… but this time it was associated to Bani's character… he couldn't take it. At time it was only his trust he assumed was broken.. this time his heart also.

For heaven sake Bani don't make Jai go through this trauma for long… he wont survive it without destroying everything and most importantly you and himself. He cant take this betrayal not by You of all people.😭 Tell him the truth, he wont be as upset as he is now. If u think his or the family 'Izzat' is at stake if the truth comes out, then u are so mistaken. U are Jai's Izzat and as the Walia kandan's bahu a lot it depends on ur Izzat. In anyway u are not helping. Worse is going to be when Jai comes to know the truth. He will never forgive himself for talking about you like that. He is already carrying some guilt with regard to you, and for his harsh behaviour after marriage and now this guilt with weigh his Love & Happiness down. 😕

I seriously don't want Jai to go on a guilt Trip, insist Bani is the one who is due for some spanking. Someone better tell her paying for someone else's happiness with your own happiness is sheer STUPIDITY! For heaven's sake Bani, think of yourself, coz now ur life is intertwined with that of another person, and that person holds u with very high regard. He cant take anything reducing or demeaning his regard for you. Don't lose Jai over someone else's foolishness. Tell him, he will support you.

Jai ki bhi kya kismat hai.. .on one hand there was Pia who cant think beyond herself and Now there is Bani who cant think of herself even Last... all in all, Jai is stuck with extreme people in his life.

What do you think? Should Jai be Guilty for his anger, when he comes to know that she did for the sake of his family?

Again Bani's dad crept into picture with Jai being vicious and vindictive like never before. Jai has called him a drunkard, gambler, irresponsible.. today he said 'DOKEBAZZ' I bet it is another piece that will go to complete the jigsaw puzzle of Jai's past.

I agree with MT, Bani looks sick, she is going to collapse and the doctor is going to be called. And the doc will ask what is wrong with her, and Jai or Jigyasa will say Bani is pregnant… and the doc will check and say Bani is not Pregnant. Jai will surely hit the mental Asylum before he figures out the truth. Can someone make it simple for him? Bani or Anu? Or will Massi enter just as Bani is leaving? 😕

Ok i admit my heart went out for Bani a little bit.. poor girl was torn between her heart and her call of 'Duty'. She must have dreamt of the day Jai would treat her like the Queen on his heart and the day is here and she choice to blow it up😡😭. She still hoped against hope Jai would whack her and say she is lying. She looked so helpless... It reminded me of the song. "Hum Bewafa hargiz na te, Par hum Wafa karna sake. Humko mili uski saza, jo khada hum karna saki" 😭 She got into the mess all my herself... es ladki ka kya hoga?

On second thoughts… is Massi involved with this in any way? When the pregnancy issue came up, Massi was my 1st suspect. Somehow I felt she and Dadi are upto something to drive Roshini away from Jai's life and they did succeed.. Roshini LEFT atleast for the time being.

Chalo I will stop… I didn't realize I had written a BIG Mail… been a long time u see😕😆. Before I wind up, an applause to the director for atleast adding some romance😳 and making us smile before stepping into the unpleasant part of the story😡😭.

Bye for now.
Lots of Luv

Anu.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Anushka:

I have not yet seen this episode but read MT's update. But even then, I agree with you 100% today. I just cannot justify Bani's actions today. She had promised Maasi that Jai will have no 'takleef' from her side and also she will not let anyone else hurt him. She has broken her promise to maasi BIG TIME.

Jai today sort of made a public decleration of his love for Bani in the way only Jai Walia can and he was in a very elated mood on every front and she made him fall hard from that great height and fall flat. I know Bani is a person who keeps her word and if she has given her word she keeps it. But if I were in Bani's place today I would have broken 1000 promises for Jai.

Jai's anger is totally justified. I did not like the words he used but it was like he was pushed into a corner to say that.

I, too, feel Bani is going to collapse and may be hospitalized. The truth will come out and Jai comes to know about it only good things will follow. Maybe they will acknowledge their love for one another before the 'raaz' is thrown on everybody.

I like Bani but today I am on Jai's and Jai's side only. Sorry Bani fans.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Good analysis anu 😛

Bani has let me down today 😭 she has broken the heart of Jai and his trust in her just for sake of saving his family pride she let him demean her 😭 and for that harsh language used by Jai I blame kekta 😡 first showing Ranveer used derogatory language last episode and today Jai has used those nasty words. 🤢 I hate kekta for this for making Banis character senseless and weak 🤢 hope she shown her courageous to face the truth first in Pias case and now this pregnancy issue Bani always shown to be hiding truth & facts from Jai and getting herself into unesscessary trouble specially she knows his mentality that he gets hyper. 😕 😭 I just hope tommorrow the truth is revealed and this issue is not dragged like the raaz by kekta🤢I hope misunderstandings between Jai and Bani end and love blosoms between them 😳and also want Maasi to return back has her Munna and Bahu need her now the most😃
Edited by mayona - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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wow!!! anu tht was a good...infact great analyzation.... 👏 👏 😳 😳

n to tell u i agreed to everything....in i mean every bit of wat u have said......n mi heart is weeping for both jai n bani rote now.....jai cuz today for sure his heart broke in pieces.....he trusted bani more than ne 1....n when bani admitted to the fact tht yes she is pregnant....jai's world shattered cuz i don't think ne man wud like the fact of noeing tht their wife is pregnant w/ another man's child.....n not just tht but when jai finds out tht bani wasn't really pregnant but she did this to save his honor....he wud go nutz w/ shame n guilt.....i have to admit i feel really bad for him.......POOR JAI!!!!

n then cums bani....as always i luv this gurl...always thinking of others.....n i feel bad for her....POOR BANI....the day when jai was actually caring for her....she had to lose it all for tht dumb pregnancy issue...gosh!!!....y didn't she tell him the truth....always sacrificing her happiness her others......HOW SWEET IS SHE.......no wonder i luv her!!!..... 😳

n now bout anu....seriously.....where is she....how cud she just stay shut....i want her tell every1 the truth....she can't remain quite ne more....not after how jai n jigz reacted to bani.....CUM ON GIRL!!!....i noe u got a heart...plzzz don't reamin silent....tell every1 the truth.... 😭

POOR JAI N BANI!!!....... 😭 😭luv em too much n don't want to c them sad....just when will they cum together 😳 😳 😳 CAN"T WAIT 😉

loadzz of luv.......later!!!!
lisa 😛 😉
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Well! after reading the zillion posts that everyone has after today's episode and what happened all I can say is Ekta Kapoor has difficulties when it comes to communication.

I think in her world people never communicate and everything is based on assumptions. Here we have the entire walia family (except Aditya maybe) who believe that Bani is pregnant and hence say stuff to her... What i find surprising is that why can't ekta show that even though there are differences between Jai and Bani they atleast have the ability to communicate with each other...

It's not only in this serial but many of the other ones that she has directed where I wonder she can't show an open communication line between peopl...I understand that it's to make the show interesting but it also makes people lose interest in the show...

She could create "twists" in some other way...Just seems for this pregnancy matter it would have been easier to show that Bani opens up and tells Jai everythin... Anu "the blonde" does not seem to be the kinda person who would stand to her mother (nor does Sahil in that matter)...

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: KHJL

wow!!! anu tht was a good...infact great analyzation.... 👏 👏 😳 😳

n to tell u i agreed to everything....in i mean every bit of wat u have said......n mi heart is weeping for both jai n bani rote now.....jai cuz today for sure his heart broke in pieces.....he trusted bani more than ne 1....n when bani admitted to the fact tht yes she is pregnant....jai's world shattered cuz i don't think ne man wud like the fact of noeing tht their wife is pregnant w/ another man's child.....n not just tht but when jai finds out tht bani wasn't really pregnant but she did this to save his honor....he wud go nutz w/ shame n guilt.....i have to admit i feel really bad for him.......POOR JAI!!!!

n then cums bani....as always i luv this gurl...always thinking of others.....n i feel bad for her....POOR BANI....the day when jai was actually caring for her....she had to lose it all for tht dumb pregnancy issue...gosh!!!....y didn't she tell him the truth....always sacrificing her happiness her others......HOW SWEET IS SHE.......no wonder i luv her!!!..... 😳

n now bout anu....seriously.....where is she....how cud she just stay shut....i want her tell every1 the truth....she can't remain quite ne more....not after how jai n jigz reacted to bani.....CUM ON GIRL!!!....i noe u got a heart...plzzz don't reamin silent....tell every1 the truth.... 😭

POOR JAI N BANI!!!....... 😭 😭luv em too much n don't want to c them sad....just when will they cum together 😳 😳 😳 CAN"T WAIT 😉

loadzz of luv.......later!!!!
lisa 😛 😉

omg i totally agree hun..... i dont want all this to happen just when everything was falling in to the right space!

i hate ekta man...she always does this ererrerere

anu hunny i am soooo glad to c u back!!!! 🤗Excellent Analysis. … I have to say bani's typical sacrificing mode is really annoying… she needs to be honest to jai…or otherwise I think…. jai is right to call her all them names…coz she is being dishonest to him ..😈.lolz (omg no that's so mean actually) but…I really want her to tell jai the truth …I mean that man has been through a lot and now bani by playing…this sati savitari role is really causing problems…

bani my hunny bunny...plz...stop being typical goody goody...or else you will lose your hubby!!

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Totaly agree Anu..After reading todays update , don't feel sorry for Bani a bit..
Just when you think a serial is worth watching , they turn the heroine into someone who carries the weight of the whole world on her shoulders and does not care her own loved ones are getting hurt in the process...

I hate it when the heroines are portrayed either as a vamp or sacrificial devi and nothing else.. 😡
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I am sure Bani has here reasons for not disclosing the real individual who is pregnant .
In my previous posts .. i had written that she should Take Jai , Daadi or aditya into confidnce ,,,
Why .. is she risking Jai's Love and a chnce to make her marriage ?
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: xsimzxchickx

omg i totally agree hun..... i dont want all this to happen just when everything was falling in to the right space!

i hate ekta man...she always does this ererrerere

anu hunny i am soooo glad to c u back!!!! 🤗Excellent Analysis. … I have to say bani's typical sacrificing mode is really annoying… she needs to be honest to jai…or otherwise I think…. jai is right to call her all them names…coz she is being dishonest to him ..😈.lolz (omg no that's so mean actually) but…I really want her to tell jai the truth …I mean that man has been through a lot and now bani by playing…this sati savitari role is really causing problems…

bani my hunny bunny...plz...stop being typical goody goody...or else you will lose your hubby!!

thnxxx simz.....u r such a sweetheart🤗....n i agree w/ u.....i don't want things to go wrong when things were actually going so great........😉😳

lotz of luv dear.........🤗

n once again great analyzation anu......cheers!!!😳

later!!!.....😉

lisa😛

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Anu yaar i totally agree with you! you know the first reaction when jai was told about bani's pregnancy, he didn't even provoke infront of the reporters! He wanted to believe bani for some reason and not just pass any judgment this time, like he did last time, where as he was kicking her out of the house! But this time, he wanted to hear the truth out of bani's mouth!

The best part was when jai went to confront bani, and omg he was such a sweet heart and asked her politely, but then when bani didn't answer, his rage just grew. I'm telling you, whenver this guy trusts bani, some what, somehow, his trust always breaks due to a bigggggggg misunderstanding, but ofcourse this time bani is the one who created the misunderstanding by staying quiet.

This guy was so heart broken when he bani didn't answer anything, and wow he got some rage right there. This simply mean that he really started to trust and LOVE bani and this time his trust was broken again; but again i'm sure misunderstandings will clear out, but by that time situation might get worse.

I think today he was adorable towards bani and all flirtatious around her. Aww bani must be feeling the heat right there!! lolzz so many lubby dubby scenes today!! don't you think ekta finally got some brains and is showing us some good stuff!! haha!! jokes apart, jai was so caring toward bani.!! aww cuddles!!

Well jai heart is certainly broken, but it will soon be mended too. I bet jai will be so happy to hear what bani actually did for him, and i mean just to save his rep. she even went to an extent of hearing so many bad deragratory words!! I'm waiting to see when this pregnancy thing will come clear!!

cheers
khoo
Edited by khoo - 19 years ago

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