Will akshara ever understand?????????

Why is she sending Rajeshri away and making natik feel guilty. So what if Rajeshri goes, BM is there then G3 will come back. When will she realize that she is the problem? She said it takes two to make a relationship work, well yah then why dont u invest some time in your most important relationship with your husband. The problem isnt the fact that she wants to spend time with her mom but because she lets everyone else control her marriage. And why did she say when she talks to G3 and her hubby natik has no problem. Natik has a problem there too when she spends more time with them than him. How could she forget that in every function her family is the first to be invited and when natik once came from a trip he went straight to her maayka and that he respects the whole family and always stands up for them. How could she just say that he never tries or has never done anything to get close to her family.

obviously he could never be as close as akshara is with his parents because he does not live with them. And why does she take it the wrong way if he doesn't want rajeshri to do his work. How could anyone let their mother in law bring water for them and stuff, that's just rude and the truth is you have a certain comfort level with your own mother because you have lived with her for soo long and even though MILs are like mothers they are not our real mother so there will be incidents that we will be uncomfortable.
Anyhow this post was not to defend natik, dont know how i got off topic but the main point was that Rajeshri is not the problem, akshara is. And as always she put all the blame on natik and will send her mother away then cry not eat get weak and make natik even more guilty, then natik will do things to make her happy and fight ends and then G3 comes back and the whole cycle starts again. I hope one day akshara understands that she needs to stop everyone ruling her marriage and when her mother or mother in law asks her not to go out with her hubby she could nicely tell them that it is none of their business.

its not akshara who has to understand,its naitik who needs to grow up and mature.he is gonna be a dad but acts like a troubled teenager.he is such an attention seeker and so damn irritating.so tired of hear him say" akshara apke paas mere liye waqt hi nahi hai".GROW UP NAITIK AND GO TO OFFICE, men are supposed to work not roam around the house or stick up in bedroom with a long face.!😃y does naitik need his dad or duttaji to tell him to come to office??can he just not go on his own??loverboy naitik grow up now!u r being irritating now🤢

Originally posted by: can-india

its not akshara who has to understand,its naitik who needs to grow up and mature.he is gonna be a dad but acts like a troubled teenager.he is such an attention seeker and so damn irritating.so tired of hear him say" akshara apke paas mere liye waqt hi nahi hai".GROW UP NAITIK AND GO TO OFFICE, men are supposed to work not roam around the house or stick up in bedroom with a long face.!😃y does naitik need his dad or duttaji to tell him to come to office??can he just not go on his own??loverboy naitik grow up now!u r being irritating now🤢

I am sorry but i cant agree with you. What is wrong if a husband wants to spend time with his wife? They are both young so why cant he have the desire to go and watch movies or go shopping. The time that they spend in the bedroom is not enough to make a marriage work. As the office part, i agree with you lol...i was also wondering why doesnt he go to office?

Y everybody is after Akshara, It is Niatik's Fault(((((((

Naitik may over reacted at things and act immature at times but what people are forgetting is that he is also going to be a father and he has every right to want to share the next 9 month with his wife and go through every experience with her, its not just aksharas life that will change his will too, he may want to share his feelings, happiness, fears etc with his wife who will be the only one who will understand what hes going through, personally i dont think hes being childish hes over--protective due to what happened the last time, i think he changed alot and made more effort to give akshara more of his time and attention she should return that, yes his behaviour is unacceptable at times but in this case so is aksharas, i felt myself that over the last few episodes she is putting her mum before him she should remember her husband should always come first, if he is not there to take her hand n assist her then by all means go to ur saas/mother...there is a saying "the best thing a father can do is love the mother of his children..." so true in this case. If he didnt bother at all she would hurt more...these days wont be forever for her she should enjoy it while she can.

Originally posted by: cutedoll786

Naitik may over reacted at things and act immature at times but what people are forgetting is that he is also going to be a father and he has every right to want to share the next 9 month with his wife and go through every experience with her, its not just aksharas life that will change his will too, he may want to share his feelings, happiness, fears etc with his wife who will be the only one who will understand what hes going through, personally i dont think hes being childish hes over--protective due to what happened the last time, i think he changed alot and made more effort to give akshara more of his time and attention she should return that, yes his behaviour is unacceptable at times but in this case so is aksharas, i felt myself that over the last few episodes she is putting her mum before him she should remember her husband should always come first, if he is not there to take her hand n assist her then by all means go to ur saas/mother...there is a saying "the best thing a father can do is love the mother of his children..." so true in this case. If he didnt bother at all she would hurt more...these days wont be forever for her she should enjoy it while she can.

I agree with you. I am not saying natik is an angel but this time it is not his fault. She really needs to put some effort and as i already said it is not just rakeshri( she will leave soon) but she gives everyone else more time than natik and many husbands would have left her by now.

i just want to ask that whether akshara sent rajshree for naitik happiness as she thought naitik dont like rajshree to stay in house or just to make him guilty

Sorry to differ but if you will recall when Akshara was pregnant the first time and she and Naitik stayed over at her parents house, he was sulking then too. Akshara's Dadi had to explain to him that women undergo many changes during this time and patience is required. Why can't he remember that and be patient with Akshara until her mum leaves.

Okay if he really wants to be part of the pregnancy as The prospective dad should be, why can't he take the initiative in taking care of Akshara? Instead of resorting to blaming her or her mum for less time spent with Ashara, why doesn't he take on some responsibilities like making sure she eats on time. Why get mad at RJ for sending message to come eat? He should be proactive and say 'let's go eat together' and make sure she eats. That would help RJ feel less stressed to see Naitik being proactive. If he wants to talk to her and she is busy with BM or RJ why can't he call her or tell them directly to wait because he has some work with her. Obviously she can't read his mind, his lack of communication is what causes the buildup of frustration and then explodes at the most inopportune moments. His timing is always off.