Naitik not my ideal hubby...

Hi guys, I am a fan of yrkkh...

I am not sure I can agree with this...I think he is very much ideal husband...Its true he has issues... I think Akhara needs to understand that he is becoming a father and would want to be part of every single process of pregnancy... trust me...men go through anxiousness when their wives are pregnant... I have seen it!! Its Rajshri who is the key to this problem...she is too nosy and interfering...G3 is also same..but naitik did manage to make her understand and convince her about the doctor issue...But Akshara is in her own world when it comes to her mom... Its not realistic...in the real world...when you are pregnant you are with your husband and in laws and don't spend the first few months with your mom... Rajshri needs to realise this and tell akshara she needs to focus on being with Naitik...

i soo agree he is a sissy. nice and all but def a sissy

I know!!!! Grow up man!!!! Too childish n not ideal husband type to b stronger partner type!!!! Akhi is preggy n she needs his support with all the physical n life changes happening n this guy just keeps whinning about going out or friends n talk to me only type rules! He staying mature 2days n 3rd day back to complaining n fighting!!!! He too is going to b dad n he is feeling insecure but this is not he way to handle situation just making it worse n stressful for her too!!!!

i also agree with you. Naitik really needs to grow up. every mom wants her child to be safe when she is pregnant and akshara does spend time with naitik so what if she's spending a little time with her mom its not like her mom is going to be there with her for whole 9 months or so. a girl needs her mother as well as her husband when she is preg.i'm saying it from my experience. Naitik gets upset for no reason. i dont think its rj fault either bcuz she wants best for her child especially after the mc. plus she is doing all this bcuz akshara's saas is not there. if anything goes wrong she will be blamed. these rishtas are very delicate. if anything wrong happens while the pregnant woman is under her mom's care, her in-laws will only point fingers at the mother. so we should try to understand rj's point of view. this my only my opinion :)

I have to completely disagree with you guys. He is not being a sissy. I have been in his shoes, when my mother-in-law comes to visit us for 3-4 months. My husband is not very good at balancing me and her. And I am the one that gets ignored or left out. It can be very hurtful and frustrating.

Originally posted by: Nidsubh007

I have to completely disagree with you guys. He is not being a sissy. I have been in his shoes, when my mother-in-law comes to visit us for 3-4 months. My husband is not very good at balancing me and her. And I am the one that gets ignored or left out. It can be very hurtful and frustrating.

I completely understand where Naitik is coming from. I know Akshara is the one that is pregnant but doesn't he deserve some love and care too. She only cares about him when the mood strikes her or its some special occison. On the other hand Naitik is always thinking about her and trying to keep her happy.

He was very immature in 2009 and part of 2010, but I feel in the last 6 months he has really grown up and Akshara hasn't changed one bit. She cares about everyone else but him, because she takes him for granted.

On the money😭
He is so annoying as a husband. He has this terrible needy type of habits. too chipku and attention craving for me. my gosh ... can't possibly handle that myself.

He is ideal most of the time... and according to me.. he is not wrong this time... he is right... 😊

True actually...He is nice and loving...but he has an ego...and attention seeking...So many times earlier he has put akshara in a dock...with this complaint...