Nishi, I can see where u r coming from.
Most of the MUs that happened between Naitik and Akshara have been centered on the fact that Akshara does not give enough attention to Naitik. That's what Naitik says.
To be honest, even though most of u guys will not agree with me I don't think Akshara is not the sole person to be blamed. Being really honest, I don't see any fault on her side. Yes, she spends quite a lot of time with the others in the family, Bhaabima, cylinder, kitchen, sewing, maa, payal, maharaj ji….the list goes on… in between she gives time to Naitik as well. How can one woman, who is pregnant and has the all the sickness that comes along with it, fit everything into one day… and in between comes Shankari thai and her weird beliefs. And to add drama on what to eat and what to drink…Gosh!! How can someone bear it up?? And RJ comes with all her rules?? Seriously!!
Naitik, the best husband in my point of view, isn't wrong either! He wants to spend time with his wife. He wants to do things for the baby. He is excited, which makes me excited 😊 But Naitik needs to understand that he and Akshara does not live in a separate house. They live in a house where there are people who loves to make every little thing a world's biggest problem. He also needs to know that there are people who come to his house who want Naksh to dance according to their tune!!
This makes Naitik angry and show is anger on Akshara. Akshara at one point realized that Naitik wasn't happy when she refused to go to the movies. So asked RJ, who said NO!! This means Akshara, along with the others (which is a long list) needs to put up with Naitik's moods.
I blame the others who are surrounded. It's the circumstance that makes Akshara behave the way she does… It has always been like that. The difference between the previous ones and this one is that Gayathri is not in action for this one. I think it would've been worse if she was there. It's the beliefs that make both Naitik and Akshara act that way!!
I have a boy friend who ones in a while complain that his number comes last (just like Naitik). But I am lucky enough that he understands that I am living with my parents. He lets me spend time with my parents. Last month his parents were here in the UK, for a small holiday, and he was spending quite a lot of time with them. He was taking them around and I didn't go as I was not allowed by my parents (which is sad and another story 😭) I usually see him at least twice during the weekdays and on the weekends. I talk to him every day on the phone. But when my in-laws were here I wasn't seen him as much I saw him before and wasn't even talking to him properly. As most of the time he will be with his parents and our conversations were very short. I at times felt a bit selfish. At times I got angry with my parents for not letting me join him and his parents when they go somewhere. But, I had to make my mind, because he is spending time with his parents whom he has been missing for a long time and he doesn't get to spend time like this. I had to stop been the selfish one and had to be happy for him. I had to say to myself that he lets me be with my family so I have to let him do whatever he wants too.Now that they've gone I have my boy friend back 😆
I think it's our duty to understand each other. If we have an understanding about each other we will not allow any room for any MUs. This is a fundamental aspect for all relationships. I know it's easy to say and hard to practice, but that seems to work the most.
I think Naitik should use my boyfriend's trick… complain of something (a headache or any sort of illness) and Akshara will come running… we woman fall for those tricks… 😆😆😆
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