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Posted: 13 years ago
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Dev remembers Radh's words before submerging the ashes into water, But he stays tough and asks for the strength and blessings from his DDg so that he can stand strong while making the decisions. He did what he thinks is right and what his dharam said.

He did take the sankalp and was about to close the mandhir door, even after Radh said about the Mandhir and its belief... ...he opted out for the truth.
there was this sign from Kahna( the shank sound and the govinda gopala, which means good signs) So it made his sankalp more strong.

So do u think his sankalp will go in vein just like that, his decision while making the sankalp was not easy. He also had to go though tough phase while making it.
So do u think he'll just let it go and bend tomorrow in front of the society?... ... will he loose his own trust on his dharam and will he support the false?

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and also the words of Padma which he over hears, Padma was talking about Radh, he becomes emotional and wanted to say something...
even the words of Padma didnt let him waver in his decision.




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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree. As a good RP, he should do what is right by not lying under pressure or adverse circumstances. Society will respect him more for standing up to do the right thing.
Please do not start a stupid track of barkha pretending as his wife.
Radhika should learn from her mistakes. Lying once brought so many complication. If they make Barkha or Dev lie- NOT A RIGHT MASSAGE to the scoiety.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Have yet to watch todays epi..but great observation Niha..👍🏼

Dev's Sankalp will be solid if he makes Dharma his focus and not just obsessing over Radhika...Don't get me wrong, I am with you all and agree that he must not buckle under Rads and other RP wasis pressure to abandon his wife for the sake of fake societal concern...
Dharma after all is about upholding the Law, Righteousness and virtue of Duty...Marrying Barkha will be nothing but a huge lie to everyone including himself...
Rads resolve (convoluted as it may be) seems unbreakable only because she is not obsessed with Dev... Similarly Dev should make upholding his Pati Dharma and committing to not lying his supreme Dharma.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I feel bad for Dev he is being pressurized by everyone and usually when you get pressure like that you take the wrong decision.He stood strong in his beliefs but the way RAdhika was kinda blackmailing him and the way she bought all those devotees to the temple by ringing the bell .This will probably shake his beliefs and will maybe give in ...I just hope that he stays strong and figures out a way out of this . If he becomes a Rjpurohit starting from a lie he will never become a successful Rjp.
and he will feel guilty for what he has done and this will create more prob for him .Anyways wont be surprised seeing barka becoming the"rajpurohitain " .Or maybe Dev will say something that wont make either girls sit down for the pooja😆 ...But I have my fingers crossed that Dev will remain strong and wont RAdhika word affect him and instead make her understand whats the right thing to do 😊 ..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: my_view

Have yet to watch todays epi..but great observation Niha..👍🏼


Dev's Sankalp will be solid if he makes Dharma his focus and not just obsessing over Radhika...Don't get me wrong, I am with you all and agree that he must not buckle under Rads and other RP wasis pressure to abandon his wife for the sake of fake societal concern...
Dharma after all is about upholding the Law, Righteousness and virtue of Duty...Marrying Barkha will be nothing but a huge lie to everyone including himself...
Rads resolve (convoluted as it may be) seems unbreakable only because she is not obsessed with Dev... Similarly Dev should make upholding his Pati Dharma and committing to not lying his supreme Dharma.


I agree. Dev should make dharm his focus. He should make Radhika realize that whatever he is doing is not because he loves her...but mainly because as a human and now as a RP, he doesn't believe in telling a lie to the society. Radhika feels that Dev is taking such a wrong and selfish step because of her...solely because of his love for her. Yes, that ofcourse is a reason. But then to make her understand, he should throw bigger words like dharm! He should tell her that how can she fulfill her vachan to DDjee, that she would ensure to make Dev a good RP, if he commits a sin by accepting another girl when his wife is standing in front of him alive?!! By trying to protect their marriage, he is not just protecting their love...but above all the dharm as well.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Niha, I agree. I really did get confused over the Sankalp part. What did he ask God? Will the Lord hear his pleas and make this phase easier for him. I believe he has to listen to his heart at this juncture because everyone else out there is opposing his decision!

Radhika did manage to get through her point. She brought him here to show how people are relying on him, and how a entire section of society is waiting for him to undertake the RPti in his hands. In a way, emotionally weakening his resolve by using points that could make a dent in his decision (just like DDjee! No wonder Dev saw DDjee's ghost in Rads!!)

How much Dev has taken his steps back is yet to be known!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: billo77

I feel bad for Dev he is being pressurized by everyone and usually when you get pressure like that you take the wrong decision.He stood strong in his beliefs but the way RAdhika was kinda blackmailing him and the way she bought all those devotees to the temple by ringing the bell .This will probably shake his beliefs and will maybe give in ...I just hope that he stays strong and figures out a way out of this . If he becomes a Rjpurohit starting from a lie he will never become a successful Rjp.
and he will feel guilty for what he has done and this will create more prob for him .Anyways wont be surprised seeing barka becoming the"rajpurohitain " .Or maybe Dev will say something that wont make either girls sit down for the pooja😆 ...But I have my fingers crossed that Dev will remain strong and wont RAdhika word affect him and instead make her understand whats the right thing to do 😊 ..


Exactly Billo. If he decides to marry Barkha and become a RP...he can never become a successful RP ever! He would fail in his duties. So would Radhika's vachan to DDjee go null, because she promised him that she would ensure that Dev becomes a good RP! Plus Dev's conscience would never let him live happily. His guilt would keep pricking him. He did ask for mental strenght in enduring all sufferings and to not let injustice happen to anyone. If he goes by Rads' words...he would do injustice to Rads and Barkha, and himself and also to the greater society, because he would be cheating the society by lying to them.

Infact if you see, DDjee and Harinath suffered at the hands of destiny because they faltered on their RPship duty. They both lied to the society and hid a very important fact about Hari's marriage with Chaya and Dev's birth secret. DDjee even after suffering for so many years, now wanted to commit another sin by asking his much married grandson to marry again! They both got the punishment for going against dharm.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: aafan

I agree. As a good RP, he should do what is right by not lying under pressure or adverse circumstances. Society will respect him more for standing up to do the right thing.

Please do not start a stupid track of barkha pretending as his wife.
Radhika should learn from her mistakes. Lying once brought so many complication. If they make Barkha or Dev lie- NOT A RIGHT MASSAGE to the scoiety.



More than society he has to stand up within himself, if he accept Radh's condition( marrying Barkha) he'll never forgive himself for it.

@ highlighted exactly, agree with u. It would be a wrong message.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: my_view

Have yet to watch todays epi..but great observation Niha..👍🏼


Dev's Sankalp will be solid if he makes Dharma his focus and not just obsessing over Radhika...Don't get me wrong, I am with you all and agree that he must not buckle under Rads and other RP wasis pressure to abandon his wife for the sake of fake societal concern...
Dharma after all is about upholding the Law, Righteousness and virtue of Duty...Marrying Barkha will be nothing but a huge lie to everyone including himself...
Rads resolve (convoluted as it may be) seems unbreakable only because she is not obsessed with Dev... Similarly Dev should make upholding his Pati Dharma and committing to not lying his supreme Dharma.



thanks my_view.
watch the episode, it was good...and u'll have a great laugh too.(lol)

even Dev is not obsessed with Radh. If he was he would have accepted her demands till now.
but he's givng importance to the Dharam and the truth here.
and ofcource the truth is Radh is his wife, so he cant let Radh go. so he'll do everthing to not to loose her.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: billo77

I feel bad for Dev he is being pressurized by everyone and usually when you get pressure like that you take the wrong decision.He stood strong in his beliefs but the way RAdhika was kinda blackmailing him and the way she bought all those devotees to the temple by ringing the bell .This will probably shake his beliefs and will maybe give in ...I just hope that he stays strong and figures out a way out of this . If he becomes a Rjpurohit starting from a lie he will never become a successful Rjp.
and he will feel guilty for what he has done and this will create more prob for him .Anyways wont be surprised seeing barka becoming the"rajpurohitain " .Or maybe Dev will say something that wont make either girls sit down for the pooja😆 ...But I have my fingers crossed that Dev will remain strong and wont RAdhika word affect him and instead make her understand whats the right thing to do 😊 ..



i know 😆
sometime even my thought waver...What if...!!! ( i hope i am not disappointed tomorrow)
but i have a strong feeling that Dev wont go wrong, he will stand up for truth.

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