Originally posted by: madhaviben
I saw everyone's view on this shiv tempel but i have one problem because here in US they dont have spacial tempal for all the god we have one mandir is Hindu Tempal and when you enter all god is there and in our tempal i saw so many prgnant woman comes all cast and over indian and they pray all the god and after while they come with the baby also . and they even pray the lord Hanumanji were in india they says ladies dont do this and that. and i think if this is correct than preg woman cant visit our tempal while shivji is there? and i always think why any god will harm you?there is such thing call luck and if we start blaming god for everything then i dont know what can i think of . i nevey think even ones that god didnt give me the sukh of being called ma but i think that it wasnt in my destini and god cant change it . and still now i pray and tell the god how lucky i am to have what i have. and there is diffrence between SHARDHA AND UNDHSHADHA. i remember so many people told me to do so many puja and eat diffrent kind of fruit and i will be preg in one week😆. and so many times i said i know its not going to work . i do belive in miracal but not by any puja done by pandit. he will do the puja and i will get the reward it never work . you have to work to get reword. sorry if i was not correct its just my point of view and if so i am sorry.
yaha ki baath muth karo baba. humhari manmaani chalthi hai yaha...🤣 At least you probably have m-i-l w/you. Me, a free bird😉😆 Kaunsa rule nahi thoda, yeh pucho...🤣
Like you said yeh sab kismat ki baath hai. You cannot change what destiny has in store for you. Puja karne se it only gives you hope, aagey badne ke liye. It does not necessarily fulfill your wishes. That is how I look at it.