Is falling in love -a nayi soch??

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hello guys 🤗 How are u all??hope u all r doing good..im here again with another topic & from the title i think u guys knw tht its related to the "nayi soch" from last few days watch some old hindi movies like 70's /80's and in all of them there was a love story which means the lead fall in love with each other so," falling in love" is not a nayi soch, people are falling in love from ages & no one can stop it as love jst happens..according to me the nayi soch ll b the parents accepting their children's love & understand their feelings. but i was very shock seeing yday's precap the way Navya's Papa questioned her,kiya rishta hai tumhara,kahi yeh tumhara boy friend to nehi?? it seems having a boyfriend or being someone's boyfriend is the biggest sin in the world..y they cant take it easily??atleast give the boy a chance to proof himself..i know this kind of topic hs been discussed before but still this thought was troubling me frm last night thought to ask u guys "falling in love is nayi soch" or "parents being more friendly & take the matter easily ll be the nayi soch"

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: shwetaluvsAnYa

agree wid u...completely...

thanks for commenting 😳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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true dey shd show ...parents taking d things lightly ...n giv anant n navya a chance to speak for der love ...it wil b d nayi soch ...accepting der love wid full heart 😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: harini2010

true dey shd show ...parents taking d things lightly ...n giv anant n navya a chance to speak for der love ...it wil b d nayi soch ...accepting der love wid full heart 😊

yeap totally agree with u,i knw if they ll give AnYa a chance their parents wont regret in future Smile ... Shift+R improves the quality of this image. CTRL+F5 reloads the whole page.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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thanks 😊 glad tht u agree with my opinion
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Posted: 14 years ago
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In my opinion, parents thought d word 'Boyfriend' in negative sense...
Most families those who following old traditional mind setup, thought having an affair will be a black spot in their children's Character as well as in their Family's Status (Mostly in case of Girls)...

That y, they cant digest d fact ki most of ur generation have a Boyfriend or Girlfriend,
But while seeing the concept of Nayi Soch, I have a view ki children should talk to their parents regularly whether they contain +ive or -ive info, they should share it wid their parents as they show life more than us...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Falling in love is no nayi soch. It has been on and on from ages. And denial from the families is also there.
What this nayi soch should bring forward is proper understanding between parents and their children. Nayi soch is the analysis of situations and individuals before jumping into decisions as serious as the future life of a person - be it the acceptance or rejection of the relationship. But denial of a relationship just bcoz it is love is no way 'the nayi soch'
Edited by mridula.shome - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I appreciated ur post. Nice post.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: shanukit007

In my opinion, parents thought d word 'Boyfriend' in negative sense...
Most families those who following old traditional mind setup, thought having an affair will be a black spot in their children's Character as well as in their Family's Status (Mostly in case of Girls)...

That y, they cant digest d fact ki most of ur generation have a Boyfriend or Girlfriend,
But while seeing the concept of Nayi Soch, I have a view ki children should talk to their parents regularly whether they contain +ive or -ive info, they should share it wid their parents as they show life more than us...

That's what known as generation gap. I guess through Meeta's behaviour, d cvs r making parents realise d need 2 bridge dis gap!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nams100

That's what known as generation gap. I guess through Meeta's behaviour, d cvs r making parents realise d need 2 bridge dis gap!!



Exactly, This Generation gap Sometimes create huge problems if it is not dealt with care...

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