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Posted: 14 years ago
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i dont think u can put the love into any category
everyone has different definiton of love
i just know one thing if u love someone dearly u r ready to do anything for him/her. cant hurt him/her and even if nessary u can give ur life
a person is only ready to give his life
either for their parents ( becasue you love them )
if its an armymen for his country because he loves his job his country
and a simple man for her lady love
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Baar pe armyman ka comparison jeh se. I shouldn't comment here. Archu why u pmed me to see the post. Armymen are doing their duties. They sacrifiece their lives for their country. Did Jeh sacrifiece himself to save his mother? He is doing duty by what, Kidnapping an innocent girl and blackmailing a person. Cant he do some other things to save his mother? He can call his whole clan to fight with vampires and can save deepu by fighting with them. Ok he didn't have much time. So he used that way. But when abhay handed over his mother he broke his promise and said untill and unless someone take blames of his mother he willn't leave piya. Now his mother is free. He can release his mother by arranging some proofs like abhay did. Abhay released his mother without hurting anyone. Jeh could have done this. This isn't duty, this is called selfishness where a man cant see the fault of his family even if they are wrong. Ya he love piya. But I dont know the exact definition of that love.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hi Tich... 4 me thr r no categories of Love...Thr is only 1 def of LOVE...which is Sacrifice...Becoz v sacrifice only when v love...even if it means hurting ur beloved 4 his /her betterment...n welfare...Nthng becomes more imp thn tht...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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See I m not biasing if they would have given up something for love then I would have agreed!
Abhay- Gave his life twice once to save maithali and once to save Pia
Sid- Gave his life once to save maithali
Danish- Risked his life to save Panchi from Sid
Alina -Risked her life to save abhay
What have Jeh and Neil done have they ever risked their lives to save their love??😳😳

nice points👏... i totally agree with u... jay used piya for the sake of his evil mother😡 instead of saving or comforting her😡... he knows that his mother is not innocent and piya is innocent but he puts piya's life in danger😕... according to me this is not love...
LOVE ABHIYA
❤️🤗❤️
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Tich...

Its love. But not your kind of love; eternal or soulmate related.

MY INTAKE THIS WEEK APART FROM MAIN CHARACTERS

Ok guys I just wanted to ramble something but didn't want to choose usual topics. So this is my attempt for something different.

Abhay said to Jeh once "is this what you call love?"

And jeh said don't you no need to know about my love. I felt like yes it is love but it is not your kind of love. It is not abhay of abhiya kind of love. Eternal or soulmate related. But it is love.

Love is not a marathon to judge first second or third or its not a gold to test the purity or real love or fake love. We love someone but we cant expect the others to love us in the way which we want. They would express the love in the way they want. But that doesn't mean that they don't love us.

I would like to give few examples here.

SID: (selfish love)

Abhay said that Sid never loved Maithili. Not once but many times. Well abhay darling sid always loved Maithili that's the reason he brought her from life and kept her with him for 200 years (didn't get bore of her) and wanted to make her rule the vampire world. Its all for love.

Yes, but its not your kind of love. Selfless and unconditional. But it was obsessive and more importantly selfish. Yet it was love. Even when sid was dying he took out maithili's name. Do you need any other proof?

JEH: (secondary love)

Abhay's think is not love allegation ka shikar after sid, jeh. As I said in other post but I would say here too. Jeh loved pia But his love is secondary. First being his duty. For abhay first is pia, no doubt but jeh is not abhay. Just because he abducted her for few minutes (not even hours) he doesn't love her? did he harm pia? In anyways? Did he scold her, threaten her, slap her, assault her or rape her taking advantage of the situation or to take revenge from abhay?

you can see initial jiya scenes where jeh like a mad man searched for pia when she met accident twice or when four drunkards took her. Abhay saved her but jeh's extreme worry is show it all.

As I said don't the soldiers leave their families and fight wars even though they love them? Its unfair to their wives and children. But still they choose their duty. So jeh's love for pia is secondary but it is love.

NEIL: (rude love)

Accept the fact. Neil loves panchi. And that's very much true. He was blind and thought that panchi is his girl of dreams. He met her, dated her, got cheated and got drunk and even was at verge of death. If you see initial neilchi scenes panchi didn't leave a single stone unturned to insulted him. Then he decided to teach this female Casanova a lesson. HE gave her the taste of her own medicine. HE cheated on her, was very rude to her. But then he still loves her.

He saved her during police baton charge at jungle protest. HE remembers every moment spent with her and every taste of her. HE immediately agreed when panchi said sorry. HE waited for her to realize. ISnt it enough that he loves her.

Yes neil's love is pagalpan, rude and arrogant. But it is love.

DAN: (desperate love)

Danish is a true despo. Even when sid ke saath gadbad hai he said to dobriyals he don't want panchi but he cant see her with wrong guy. That's a lie. He was always desperate for second chance. INfact he waited for a a moment when he'll get a second chance. Chahe hi panchi ki engagements 3,4,5 baar toot jaye but I want her to give me second chance. And finally he got it. And why not? Panchi is a bigger despo than him. He learned what is loyalty by serving raichands which he didn't knew once and lost everything. HE isn't as sacrificing or as unconditional as abhay. He is just desperate to go back as he is lonely. But then it is love. In all the sense it is love.

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Would like to see your views here. No unrelated discussioons please like abhiya are soulmates true love and all. DISCUSS ONLY THE POINTS MENTIONED . This is to avoid bashing.

Have a nice weekend.

Love.

Tich.


@red: First of all i would like to ask u how many kind of love r there? I mean even love has different categories? If yes than must list out all. If its not abhay kind love than its which kind of love? If Jeh is claiming that he loves piya than definitely people will compare him with abhay and if he cant love her as abhay better he must accept that he is not in love it was simply crush. No one is aking him to sacrifice his life for love as we dont want another abhay but atleast he should not kidnap her on the name of love.

@blue:
I dont have any doubt on sid's love but tell me one thing did sidharth ever told abhay that maithily is still alive and living life of vampire like them? No.. He always thought that maithily is dead and was taunting siddharth for not loving maithily because he never knew that she is still existing on this earth and now u cant blame him for something which he was not informed.
I agree sid was completely negative but one thing i like about him that he never used maithily to control abhay when he knew that if abhay can sacrifice his life for a girl who just look like maithily than he can go to any extent for maithily. Did he ever used maithily??????????????

@pink:
Here no one is interested to see second abhay and no one is expecting jeh to love like abhay. But u r talking about which duty? I dont find any duty in Jeh's action. Ok may be duty of saving his mom. every morning his mom is ready with new Psycho type plan to finish raichands and at the end of day she find herself trapped in her own plan. Does that mean Jeh should kidnap Piya everyday to save his psycho mom because its regular duty of dipanita to play mindless plan and get into trouble. So in that sense Jeh should make his hobby to kidnap piya for fulfilling his duty.
So better he must forget about love.

@grey: Let me tell u he even cant think to do such cheap thing with piya in abhay's presence. Evn he knows its not possible to touch piya untill abhay is there. And YES he tried to harm her. What he was doing on independence day? May be protecting country?

For neel: As duty comes first for khuranas than even he would like to kidnap panchhi for his mom afterall mom is duty and khuranas can do anything for duty. Evn neel can sacrifice panchhi for duty. As nothing is more important than duty.. If he really loves panchhi than better he should go against his mom.

We dont expect from Jeh to be like abhay for Piya but honestly expecting something which really makes some sense. Kidnaping on the name of duty is completely horrible act.
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