haha..dat is the difference sweety...for bedi's sweety is their own and not hetal..so that is the difference..now you have to think by making characters reverse..sweety in hetal's place and hetal in sweety's place..there is ur answer..tats wat i said she shldnt wait for 9 mths,she shld tel no asap.but wat i dnt get frm bedi fly,dey all r mature ennugh,hav seen life mre den hetal,dey all knw its a big sacrifice,jst to mke deir daughter smile dey r tkng off hetal happiness,nobdy even try to say once no to karan.and as hetal is concern she doesnt even knw wat pregnancy means,my sist jst deleivered a baby,so i knw wat she went tru,d 9 mths hav been gud,she used to get so excitd wen he used to kick in his tummy,and d mst terible ting was her labor pains,she dnt want to plan mre kids nw for atleast 10 years, at present she luvs her kid mre den jiju,hnestly so do all mthers,cause its a part of her.hetal at present is okay wid it cause nobody is shwng d other side,all r jst praising her and even her hbby isnt supportng her,sweet can adopt an orphan,it wil b gud for every1