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Posted: 13 years ago
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Radhika dont let the last oath you gave ADD's on his death bed make you do anything drastic and spoil your marriage I know Kanha will help you not to do anything wrong but dont do what you did on the Gauri puja day put the teeka on Barka's head from your teeka. Think how in the twisted way ADD accepted you at the end made you a scapegoat by putting a major responsibility on your shoulders but did not give blessing to both of you or your marriage recognized your weakness that is Dev and his growth in society family and ignored his favorite pota Dev.He knew even on his death bed neither Dev or Barka will give in.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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The promise was for her to help dev to become a good RP...and for that she must keep in mind that she has other vows to keep like the 14 vows they took...she must meditate again at mansa's words that they were ment to be by god and she is whorty of him other wise why would kanha have tied them together... Being a good rjp is opposite what dadaji was...and dev has already the qualites and radhika needs to get back to her old self to realise that she doesnt need to do nothing than support dev cause he already a great man...she needs to regain confidence,that strong belief that what they have is rite and nobody kn breake...stay away from bh's help,dont listen to bb's venom and ignore padma's insecurity...she kn do her bahu duty but concentrate on dev first,that's what radh should do...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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CBG..RP knew that Radhika is a perfect match for Dev...but still the fear of society and his image as RP forced him to give the decision against their marriage...if he was not a RP..I am sure he wudhve supported them...
Maybe he was forced to change hi hearing their wedding done on Radhashtami day..and seeing his defeat gave him a shock and attack...that is the reason he dint blessed Radhika or the time was not left to raise his hand and bless her...Yes he was sure Dev and Barkha will not listen to him and thats the reason he wanted to talk with Radhika alone...indirectly he has given the message and i am sure Radhika will follow his order..so she will convince Dev to allow Barkha to sit for moonh dikhaayi...I am sure Kanhaa will appear soon to make her understand about the Dharma..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: set_raj

CBG..RP knew that Radhika is a perfect match for Dev...but still the fear of society and his image as RP forced him to give the decision against their marriage...if he was not a RP..I am sure he wudhve supported them...

Maybe he was forced to change hi hearing their wedding done on Radhashtami day..and seeing his defeat gave him a shock and attack...that is the reason he dint blessed Radhika or the time was not left to raise his hand and bless her...Yes he was sure Dev and Barkha will not listen to him and thats the reason he wanted to talk with Radhika alone...indirectly he has given the message and i am sure Radhika will follow his order..so she will convince Dev to allow Barkha to sit for moonh dikhaayi...I am sure Kanhaa will appear soon to make her understand about the Dharma..


RBG yes agree but somehow I feel Radhika will always think about the late RP and take somehow take unpleasant decisions as she was hesitating before giving the promise and Rp wants family name not to be spoilt and Dev to be a very good RP now that this death ceremony has to be conducted will there be mukhdikayi I think there is no meaning for that ceremony now and afterwards it will have no meaning. Lets see what the CVs show us
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Myra.nelly

The promise was for her to help dev to become a good RP...and for that she must keep in mind that she has other vows to keep like the 14 vows they took...she must meditate again at mansa's words that they were ment to be by god and she is whorty of him other wise why would kanha have tied them together... Being a good rjp is opposite what dadaji was...and dev has already the qualites and radhika needs to get back to her old self to realise that she doesnt need to do nothing than support dev cause he already a great man...she needs to regain confidence,that strong belief that what they have is rite and nobody kn breake...stay away from bh's help,dont listen to bb's venom and ignore padma's insecurity...she kn do her bahu duty but concentrate on dev first,that's what radh should do...


Myra liked your thoughts and very positive so lets see what happens somehow for me yesterday it looked like out of the firepan into the fire situation for Radhika. AS now they have taken 14 vows I know no one can negate Radev marriage as it happened at an auspicious time and days.And how the family prestige is maintained a bit tricky issue which Radhika has promised ADD and Dev being a good RP I have no doubts but what Radhika has to do to safegaurd(Rajpurohiti ki Garima) all that and the decisions she will have to take for it is my concern and will see what the CVs show us
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: chalhov


RBG yes agree but somehow I feel Radhika will always think about the late RP and take somehow take unpleasant decisions as she was hesitating before giving the promise and Rp wants family name not to be spoilt and Dev to be a very good RP now that this death ceremony has to be conducted will there be mukhdikayi I think there is no meaning for that ceremony now and afterwards it will have no meaning. Lets see what the CVs show us

I agree she will surely take unpleasant decisions..first of all if CVs will show moonh dikhaayi it means they lack knowledge and they are not aware of customs and traditions of Hinduism...if a death occurs in the family thn they dont do or perform any auspicious ceremonies at home for first 15 days..and moon dikhaayi should not be done at this time...I am sure they will show and Radhika will announce her first unpleasant decision...She is always for others but never take in confidence her husband be it in cb1 ot 2..all the Dharmas are prior to her thn Patni Dharma...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yes RBG these CVs😆 what they show all along she wanted to be a patni and for that she did lots of things not done like coming as Rohans wife etc and now because of BH messing up she has become a twice wedded Patni one marriage she believes another Dev believes so all other Dharams are important for her except pati dharma is it???????? but whatever she does is all what she believes is for Dev his benefit and his growth and she does not want him to face any problem because of her or the circumstances in which the marriage was conducted.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i believe the only way Dev will be a good RP is if she be at his side & support him in whatever he does
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Chalhov,
Good advice to Radhika.
Dadaji did extract a promise from Radhika but the interpretation is left to her. She may take irrational decisions but she will come around in time.
Good that Dev was not around so he is not bound by any promise. He can still follow the path of dharm which he thinks is right. they do have huge hurdles now, but am sure they will stick together against all odds.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shobhy

i believe the only way Dev will be a good RP is if she be at his side & support him in whatever he does



Exactly Shobhy Dev will be good RP if he has Radhika by his side.
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