Mutual consent vs. adultery as grounds for divorce

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I did some reading on the internet, and this is not a post based on any knowledge of law (disclaimer 😆😆)
We have been wondering what triggered of gauri to think of adultery as grounds for divorce vs. mutual consent.
Within Indian divorce law for Hindu marriages -- mutual consent can be obtained with no hassle -- but the couple have to wait one year. The couple have to cite irreconcilable differences and that they are polar opposites or something in terms of personality/temperament etc.
The court however is under obligation to save the marriage -- and the judge has to ask them to stay together for a period of six months under one roof -- cohabit together. The couple cannot refuse and have to make a good faith effort. If after the six months, the couple still want a divorce, the court will say okay, no need to live together, but will tell them to stay apart for another six months and see if they change their mind.
At the end of the second six month period, if couple still say we dont want to live together, then the divorce is finalized -- but alimony etc. will be worked out, and groom is supposed to provide alimony for wife and return stridhan.
I dont think gauri is ready for Jagat to live with anandi for six months 😆😆😆😆. Too goddamn insecure she is.
So, she has adopted adultery as grounds.
In adultery - the divorce is immediate (no one year waiting period required). On the spot, in court, the judge can grant it.
However, gauri's brain has gone to pasture. ghaas charne gayi hai. The sleazy lawyer made it seem very easy "hum anandi ko legal notice bhejenge adultery ke grounds pey, bas fir koi problem nahin hai, turanth divorce mil jaayega"
But to use this, in court, the aggrieved spouse filing for divorce (in this case jagya) will have to show several proofs:
1. photos of the couple meeting several times in an illicit manner (which means that the couple will have to be shown wearing different clothes each time, to show that these are different times.) These can be shot by a private investigator/detective. But there has to be documentation of several meetings with times and places of adulterous behaviour.
2. phone bills that show calls going repeatedly from anandi to boyfriend.
3. sms's from anandi and boyfriend which are romantic in nature.
4. witnesses who can testify to the adultery.
How will gauri, jagat and lawyer manage all these proofs? At best they can organize one fake meeting for anandi to meet some boy and take one photograph. They can lure anandi to a place by false pretense, and then the boy may suddenly throw himself on anandi, and they can click a photo at that moment. The court will not admit a one time thing like this - because it is circumstantial evidence. It needs proof of SUSTAINED meetings over a period of time.
But to show repeated photos of this nature, to document several instances, like this will be difficult. Because even if anandi comes once under false pretenses to meet a boy, she will never come back again.
How will they show phone bills? How will they show sms's?
So, ultimately, the lawyer does not have any long term game plan. He just looking for a short term consulting fees for sending the legal notice to anandi based on adultery.
He will not be able to defend them in court thereafter. 😉. He will take court fees from gauri and jagat, but will not be able to win, and will go in knowing that he will not be able to win, just to make money for going through the process.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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😉she must planning to take photoshop lessons to create fake pics of imaginary meetings 😆...
does anandi ever SMS😕,even her bills would only have jagya calls...🤔

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Posted: 13 years ago
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yaa... they are probably so desperate that they will say that "anandi is married to jagya, but she is making calls to paraya mard Dr. Jagat -- see the adultery" 😆😆😆😆
I think they just thought it was easy - send a legal notice to anandi accusing her of adultery, and the judge will believe the two city educated doctors over the gawar anpadh anandi, and grant the divorce.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tinoo

yaa... they are probably so desperate that they will say that "anandi is married to jagya, but she is making calls to paraya mard Dr. Jagat -- see the adultery" 😆

I think they just thought it was easy - send a legal notice to anandi accusing her of adultery, and the judge will believe the two city educated doctors over the gawar anpadh anandi, and grant the divorce.

would be easier to prove jagya as cheater😉 get pics of him runing after anandi's jeep,secret meet in cow shed,money transfer--but its anandi she has to malign ,so that's uphill impossible task...
i think its gauri who wants that legal tag more,jagya is quite comfortable being the illegal pathi ,afterall all fingers are usually raised at the women..🤔...but i feel she is very scared of anandi,her past with jagya and jagya supporting anandi makes her more and more insecure,so she is stooping this low.🤔..somewhere she just doesnt trust jagya enough and considering how fickle he is she is trying to get law on her side by hook or crook ...but such horrible means😡
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Posted: 13 years ago
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pjyo - Jagat never has any understanding of legality or illegality.
Even in the dhamakedar scene where Bapusa revealed the illegality of their marriage (the famous -- tumhara ek doosre ka saath mein bitaya hua waqt bheekh main diya hai dialogue) -- gauri had tears streaming down her face -- and the shock was visible. 😲
Jagya on the other hand was just like "really? thanks for the info. okay. see you. bye"
😆😆😆
He is indeed quite comfortable with the illegal pathi tag. Had no reaction.
Gauri I think needs to realize that the trust comes first, and the legal certificate is just a formality.
It cannot substitute for the trust.
Knowing jagya, even if he legalizes his marriage to gauri ... gauri has no guarantee that two years down the line, he will meet someone else and have an adulterous affair with that person.
But the reason she wants legal wife tag is that if Jagat leaves her, she will prosecute him and she will have legal rights to do so. (This is what the patient who slit her wrists told her -- I wanted to prosecute the man but I didnt have any legal rights - we were just in a live in relationship).
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Gauri wants to get Jagat's "legal wife" tag, only because of the property of Singh family. if she lives with Jagat as a live-in partner, she can't claim her right on the property. Gauri is nothing but a selfish, jealous and greedy woman.
anyways, if Jagat goes to Court to apply for divorce, divorce turanth mile na mile, he will be turanth sent to jail ( which I really want), because he is already married to another woman without getting legal divorce from his first wife. as a law-student, I have some idea on this matter. the spouse has to prove the charge of adultery first. then after all legal proceedings completed, he or she can remarry, not before that. if he do this, the other spouse can bring charge of adultery against him.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yes courts ask them to stay together bt it is an option nt a compultion n in this it wud anandi s choice as wats she wants as j is criminal in eyes of law.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yeah tinoo , Jagya only understands what HE wants and he always finds crooked ways to get that...Gauri is his latest object of affection , when he was pursuing her his manipulative mind was working at double speed,but now he has her - so why bother about the legalities ...gauri would be the one called names ,no one will call him 'kept man'...Society's rules are unfairly tilted in favor of the man...🤔
gauri wanting legal tag is understandable even though her means are totally despicable ...True, trusting jagat will be next to impossible for her even if they get legal ,the whole baggage of jetser memories will keep replaying in her mind every time jagat remembers anandi...and that's happening quite a lot these days ...😉she may soon start checking his phone to keep tabs...lots "tumne kyun anandi se baath ki"😵 if she finds his calls records😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Arrey!!! what are you guys talking baout there iws no term called illegal pati...Jagya is legal pati of Anandi...
Its Gauri who will have the illegal tag...so she should buck and do something fast rather than making this lame excuses and wasting her leave!!!
and see the famous mr. Jagat's explanation...why should they see the raltionship from any one else's POv...hmmm great if you do not worry about anybody then why worry about sudying...just call youself doctor or whatever you wnat...tum hamare padhai ko doonsron se najariyae se kyun dekh rahe ho mere nazar mein mein doctor hoon thats it!!!!!!

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