Dear Mother's 'out of sight, out of mind' theory?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Dear Meeta Ma,

As I was watching yesterday's mother/daughter conversation - I was remembering is it going to be "out of sight, out of mind" , or "distance makes a heart more fonder" ???😕😕😕
Navya's determination and thoughts about Anant was very clearly addressed by the request and short conversation she did with Meeta - "Can I request you for one thing before going? Can I meet Anant and tell him of my travel, because I DONT WANT TO SEE HIM HURT."
Dear Meeta - please wake up. Navya is a part of you, and is raised by you. As a mother you should know her best- Navya is a honest, responsible, matured and dependable girl, and a person of integrity. Yes, she is very innocent too, but she can sense what is right/wrong - becasue that is what her 'parvaresh' has taught her. Navya adores and loves her family and is very special to every member of her family.
Now Navya is in love with someone (Meeta should have trust on Navya's taste and understand Navya's qualities), and she will exercise the similar above qualities for which she is so special to Meeta - it is not in Navya's style to deceive someone, and neither she is feekle minded (where today she will love someone, and with a span of 6 weeks she will forget him, and love some one else).
In one of my former topic, I had mentioned "Extremism leads to disappointments". So dear mother, think hard... and think again... and try to understand your daughter as a mother, as a best friend, and put your self in her shoes. You need to be progressive minded, and need to emphathise and work on the best solution. You can run but not hide...
"distance makes a heart more fonder" - dont force Navya to react to your extremism, to which you may regret for the rest of your life. We all HOPE for the best. I applaud Navya for her patience, and for showing full respect to her mother, although inside she is broken to pieces.👏

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Agree with your words.
* Meeta maa should be proud of her daughter for the love and respect she is showering on the mother inspite of all the emotional athyachaar she is showering on her daughter.
* Meeta maa should realise that her daughter has grown up and is capable to make own decisions.
* She should think from the daughter's point of view.
* She should prove that she is really her daughter's friend and give the daughter a chance to open her heart.
* She should realise that the love is something that cant be wiped out easily in 6 weeks time.
The 6 week separation wont change Navya or Anant. The real changes will happen in Meeta maa when she realise her mistake.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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ya i agree with you all
First meeta ma want to give her one chance to explain her love with Anant
Meeta want to understand her daughter,she is telling she is no friends and navya is her friend,then she want to understand navya's feelings
Navya is a matured girl ,she knows what is right and wrong,even now also she is obeying her mother's order and not talking to Anant,not calling him,then also meeta is not understanding her love.
meeta is telling to navya to forget Anant in this kanpur trip,But she never thinks that their love is going to be more stronger in the kanpur trip
i defintely tell when they return from kanpur they will be together and meeta also accept Anant
I hope some twist will defintely come in Kanpur and change the meeta ma mind
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Agree wid u all

meeta needs to understand dat navya is not now 6-7 year old girl who demands for some toy ,if she able 2 divert her mind wid something else navya forgets about toy ...
She is grownup and she is in love dat never decrease /vanished off wid in 6 weeks distance rather dan it increase and their understanding in numbers of time...wid d distance...

Hope after kanpur trip meeta understands dat navya in love not infected by sum virus...accept our sweet anya


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