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Posted: 14 years ago
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@ vasuja- really well written👏

@ Tanvi

I completely understand your point.

Shyam reacted when he heard Sugna taking Pratap's name - shyam's reaction was natural because sugna had already accepted shyam as her husband and hence it was a bit insensitive on sugna's part to take pratap's name. However, it cannot be denied that Pratap was dead; shyam knew very well how Sugna loved Pratap and still he went ahead; most importantly, Shyam was lauded by Sugna's family.

Shyam was never compared to Pratap by anyone., not even by Sugna.

Gauri's insecurity is understandable - she was not accepted by anyone. And the most important part is that though Jagat claims that he doesn't love Anandi, his actions speak differently and it makes Gauri more insecure.

But our main problem is -
a) Gauri often brings Anandi in their conversation when it is not necessary.
b) Why would Gauri have so low self-esteem that she is hell bent in competing with Anandi ? When Jagat talks about Anandi, her insecurity can be understandable. but Gauri has been shown to be jealous because Anandi is loved by the family - she could not brush it aside thinking that she is not the family's choice.

If Gauri feels that she has not done any wrong in marrying Jagat, then she should have more self-confidence on herself and her decisions.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Charmingenei-did i say the case of SS was same as JG,i hv just spoken a pt dat if people bring past into present even its abt dead person how does lives get ruined n y nt in g s case,i hvnt said dat woh abla nari bechari uski shadi kardi halat ki mari did i say al dat.can we stop this blaming game .n do sensible discusion.every time we come blame n go ,wats al thing n y?or is it r u geting peace of mind for blaming her.just imagine sugna bcame pregnant b4 gauna so shud we keep blaming her,wat if bhairav kept blaming her.wat do one get by blaming .
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Posted: 14 years ago
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gauri can never be like anandi coz for being anandi gauri will have to be selfless which is verrry difficult...anandi thinks about others while gauri only thinks about herself...gauri can never take anandi's place as she would have never done so many sacrifices which anandi did as a child...

gauri is psychic...she needs psychiatrist to treat her...the most important thing is that anandi is legallly married to jagya...while gauri is not...she can never be jagya's legeal wife coz jagya will never divorce anandi as then he wont get charity from her😆😆


its better not to use the word on a public forum...but we all know what is such a woman called who lives with a married man😊...

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Doyel I thinK gauri always wanted Singh Family's aashirwad...And she thought she will get it after marriage...becoz she believed family will love the sons more than DILs...It is very natural to think so...I can undersatnd that...She wanted a loving family...she had no clue that Anandi has so much of influence that the family will throw out their own son...Ok In hurry and misjudgement she married Jagat...She will not be able to leave him immediatley becoz of the legal marriage she believed in all understood...But in the whole scenario the best thing that happened to her is her marriage turned out illegal...It was time to grab her bags and quit and once for all remove the mess in her life...But she failed to do it...

as i told earlier the life line of Gauri's relationship is that she truly believes Jagat loves him...But does ne love gauri more than himself?? I doubt.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think .. Gauri has come a long way to dump J now... it would be absolutely selfish of her if she dumps J .. I agree with charminggenie, - G should start living separately from J, give him sometime to get a proper divorce and focus only on her career and her own family - she can help J when he requires but they both should lead a life on their own till they get out of this mess.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: vasuja

Doyel I thinK gauri always wanted Singh Family's aashirwad...And she thought she will get it after marriage...becoz she believed family will love the sons more than DILs...It is very natural to think so...I can undersatnd that...She wanted a loving family...she had no clue that Anandi has so much of influence that the family will throw out their own son...Ok In hurry and misjudgement she married Jagat...She will not be able to leave him immediatley becoz of the legal marriage she believed in all understood...But in the whole scenario the best thing that happened to her is her marriage turned out illegal...It was time to grab her bags and quit and once for all remove the mess in her life...But she failed to do it...

as i told earlier the life line of Gauri's relationship is that she truly believes Jagat loves him...But does ne love gauri more than himself?? I doubt.

the last 2 lines were d best ..jagya himself doesn't know tht ne lot only respects annadi but also loves her ...he thinks of her due to an unbreakable bond
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Suchi-NivReniac

exactly. Comparing Sugna and Shyam's relationship with Jagat and Gauri's?!!!!!


1. Shyam married a widow


Gauri married a married man


2. Shyam accepted Sugna's child in other words, accepted her with her faults

Jagat rebuked Anandi for his faults.



3. Shayam lied to his parents about Sugna's pregnancy so that he can give life to a widow and her child by giving the child his name and respect for sugna in the society they live.

Jagat lied to Anandi so he can be with Gauri, so that he can flirt with her and in the end disrespect every relationship that was near and dear to him, ofcourse not mentioning the way he ill treated Anandi.


4. Sugna loved Pratap and it took her time to forget him. She when mentioned about Pratap her mother repramainded her about it. She was 16 years of age.

When Jagya and Gauri start talking about Anandi they are doctors of 23+ age. And even after that still ruining their relationship based on an 'imaginary' ex of his.



oh ofcourse pratap and sugna's relationship was KNOWN to everyone.

Gauri and Jagya, NO.

THey cheated an innocent girl of her dreams and of her life. I will NEVER forgive gauri for this. As a woman she killed another woman's every hope to live.

well what can we expect from keeps. They are moral-less in the first place so what ever. ANd J well he is not even worthy to be mentioned by name. I do not wish to waste my energy pronouncing his name any more.




you know what they say "ek aurat hi doosri aurat ka ghar barbad karti hain"... i just heard about this lady who's husband of years left her at the age of 50+ for another woman in real life. Horrible, horrible people in this world. Why would you even interact with a married man like that? Who cares what he says. He's still married to someone else. And yes, G didn't know at first. But after she found out she didn't care. Biggest mistake. There's no excuse for that decision.

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