Is Bhairon really being fair to Anandi

Recently there has been a lot if discussion about Anandi sending money to Jagya and basically enabling his Ayaashi.

I've been thinking about Bhairon's role in this. We all have admired how consistent Bhairon has been in his stance against GAGA and how he has not deviated from support of Anandi. But I have a few issues with this. On the surface it seems all fair and above reproach but is Bhairon really taking a balanced approach???

My first issue with thus is:

Do you think he is taking his support of Anandi too far??? Shouldn't he be more firm with her and not give in to her arguments all in the name of 'support'. Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind. Wearing kid gloves in his treatment of Anandi is doing her more harm than good. Ostrich mentality won't make the problem go away. He should counter argue with Anandi that he and every individual in the haveli is solely responsible for their relationship with Jagya. She is not the caretaker of their relationship with Jagya and therefore she should not interfere if they choose to cut him off financially.

My second issue is:

Do you think he is NOT taking his estrangement with Jagya far enough??? What I mean to say is that he copped out and is allowing Anandi to facilitate financial support of GAGA. He is absolving himself from taking responsibility of it but at the same time is fully aware that his son is not destitute. Is he really, sincerely, as an upright man against his son or is the father subconsciously at peace that the son is not living in the streets?

In order for Bhairon to prove true repentance for initiating and conducting JAAN bal vivah, he has to take a more clearer stand on his own and not with Anandi's aid or in her shadow. He has to own it!!!

Do you guys agree????

Absolutely Parri that's what I have been saying. When people said that Anandi is the one who is responsible for jagya to roam free around , and financing him. I said, its not Anandi. Its bhairav and his family.

It was also mentioned how Anandi is NOT a victim because she had the power to send him to jail and now she is not doing. I said Anandi had been conditioned for years to think well about her husband no matter WHAT he did.


So today, we see Jagya is getting the money from Bhairav indirectly, encouraged by Dadisa ... did they really cut ties with jagya? No rather they used Anandi in directly, her goodness her character and her conditioning would never make her NOT give the money to jagya.

So again indirectly All is well.

bhairav should have taken a stand like you said in punishing Jagya. but he never did take a stand. He did not take a stand when Anandi said she will not study and today he is not taking a stand.

Agree with Parri and Suchi... I was very pissed off when Bhairon said that he will give money to anandi and she can give to anyone...He knew well that Anandi is going to give money to Jagya...he could have been firm and said," no Anandi what ever u say I am not going to give him any financial support directly or indirectly..I am in a way responsible for this situation and i am ready to face the consequences..The family name is already in shambles due to what jagya has done, and his filing a case on us will not damage it any further. I love dear, but don't come to me and ask any support for him...agar is bare mein tum phir se baat karogi to mera mara muh dekogi" end of convo..

Jagat would be running to and fro in Mumbai for money and all true love in hawa...

Suchi I wish Anandi did send jagya to jail but just becoz she did not do it i don't think she is no more a victim.Inspite of punishing Jagya or not she is the victim in the whole trauma...

jo bhi vaat aur punishment lagii hai naa jagya kii thats due to bhairon
varna koi uskaa kuch nahin karta,
he never wanted to give the money to jagya, he only discosed the illegal status of gaga marriage
bhairon is being fair to anandi now, he is giving her full freedom
when teacher jii was pushing anandi to file a case , he encouraged her then too
he is too tied by anandi kasams, what she wants he is giving it to her
so i dont get it why he is being unfair

Yes! You bring up a good point Suchi. Bhairon or even DS are not doodh peetha bache that they dont know how to read people. Like Jagya, They know exactly what buttons to push with Anandi to achieve their needs.

It's a shame because Anandi's niceness or nobility of character is now proving to be her weakness. Be it long term (marriage) or short term (education).

But this weakness does prove one more thing. That she is aam insaan and not as Mahaan as she is portrayed.

nno vasu I know you think Anandi as a victim , it was something I read earlier and was discussing so I mentioned that

@Anmol,

Please tell me what punishment has been given to Jagya, coz i neither see him behind bars nor financially cut-off, and in complete mockery of medicine profession he is reinstated.

If u mean not able to attend festivals or not living in haveli i so disagree, its a blessing for him, coz thats what he carved not to live with his parents, settle in modern mumbai and frankly not living in that haveli is a free gift whose importance he has abused royally.
@Parri , totally agree, Bhairon lacks vision, he might have good intensions but he can never see them to the end, he promised anandi education and career so many tyms yet he has not got her admitted in any institution.., the biggest punishment would have beed no money to jagya, let an educated guy struggle to feed himself...i can understand for him legal matter could have been hard,but it should have done by anandi's parents.

i said whatever punishment that has been meted to jagya , it has been due to bhairon only
he told him go to hell we dont need u , isloation from family memebers , that is a punishment for jagya acc 2 me
he is the only one who has troubled jagya
he broke jagya confidence , when he revealed his illegal marriage status, he treats jagya like dirt
he cut off his finances but had to start it cos of anandi request
he was ready to put them behind bars but anandi stopped him
he has confessed to sumitra he wants to give extreme punishment to jagya but is tied down due to anandi

Originally posted by: Suchi-NivReniac

nno vasu I know you think Anandi as a victim , it was something I read earlier and was discussing so I mentioned that

suchi i can't see the slime ball happy...i seriously wish something happens...And did u see today's precap...G asking J weteher u still respect J...J all goody goody saying yes...I am sure CVs will redeem J and make G the jealous, selfish girl😡

@Anmol,

exactly our point , Bhairon says he is tied by Anandi, i dont see how and why, his son is a qualified MBBS doc, he has education i dont see y he should be given any money , Bhairon should make anandi see this point. He has been tied all his lyf Dadisa, tradtions , he unlike Jagat has a bone of humanity , he just lacks the spine to do it.

Yes he has bad mouth and humilated Jagat, but how has it affected J, he is not bothered, lse he would not constantly blame his family for anandi's conditions and justify his actions. Jagat has been humiliated by anandi's parents 2 , phooli 2 , how is that ny different unlike these peps Bhairon has the power to really punish Jagat cut him off financially.