How can priya say?

How can priya say and believe that uttara "behegayi thi"? I mean she is a woman of moral and respect how can she be okay and forgive uttara so easily. So why cant she give the same reason to ssp that night when he tried to force himself on her maybe he wasnt in his senses either but we know that is bull and he was in his full senses. Just like Uttara was in her full senses when she decided to go on a dinner date with her Jiju after knowing what it could lead to. Then she wore the sari he chose for her again knowing what it could lead to. Didnt she ask why there was a bed in the middle of the dining room. So how could priya forgive her just by saying that she got carried away and put all the blame on ssp. And for all the people who are saying that uttara shouldnt be blamed because priya and devyani didnt tell her the truth of ssp. So do u guys want uttara not to sleep with ssp because it is wrong and immoral because he is her sisters husband or because she found out that he is a bad guy. I am so disappointed in priya's character.

I agree with you.

All the blame should not be put SSP, Uttara is to blame as well.

SSP is her sisters husband, it should not matter if he is good or bad, nor should it matter whether he is happy with his wife or not, that's their business, so she should let them sort it out.

She shouldn't go on a 'date' with him.
As for it being a spur of the moment thing, that's not true. She was fully aware of what was happening and she did nothing to stop it, in fact she encouraged it.

A bad man will always be bad, but it is up to the good woman not to fall to his standards, but in this case Uttara has proven she is just as bad as SSP, if not worse.

Originally posted by: shazna123

I agree with you.

All the blame should not be put SSP, Uttara is to blame as well.

SSP is her sisters husband, it should not matter if he is good or bad, nor should it matter whether he is happy with his wife or not, that's their business, so she should let them sort it out.

She shouldn't go on a 'date' with him.
As for it being a spur of the moment thing, that's not true. She was fully aware of what was happening and she did nothing to stop it, in fact she encouraged it.

A bad man will always be bad, but it is up to the good woman not to fall to his standards, but in this case Uttara has proven she is just as bad as SSP, if not worse.

I totally agree with you. Thats why I dont understand when people argue that uttaran didnt know ssp's real colors like who cares about that. And they had kissed, hugged before and talked romantically so it wasnt in the moment kinda thing. I liked when ssp told priya to tell devyani that whatever happened was with the consent of her sister.

Although i agree with the comments above i do still think Uttara is not as much to blame as SSP - she has been manipulated by this guy ... thats how most affairs start .. the guy building a relationship & manipulating the girl ..saying that his wife does not understand him blah blah blah. I think Uttara really beleives he can do no wrong as he has helped her & supported her alot where in her eyes her sis hasnt & therefore doesnt have a gd relationship with her!

You guys are 100% right. Uttara does deserve equal blame; we know she isn't an angel, so why should she get the status of one? Why should SSP get the blame, just because he is a womanizer? SHE was in her senses. SHE knew what she was doing and what she was leading herself into. This is her fault too.

i agreee

Personally I belive Brahma is mostly to be blamed, not equally. Brahma manipulated her thinking and lured her to believe that this is okay...kiind of brainwashing. She being alone did get brainwashed and hence committing the sin. Until this point, she was less to be blamed.

Her fault began after this when she started arguing with Priya and telling Imli how to run the house. I guess that's where she became hating...

Agreed! Uttara is to be blamed...she wasnt naive...she knew where it was leading to...