Badalti Bhavnayein.....Jai & Bani / Q & A

Episode after Episode is only proving that Bani has lost her Heart to Jai in a huge way and she is not even in denial...as in she knows very clearly that she is in love with Jai but does not want to accept those feelings! But she is one bad actress (Bani and not Prachi) because of all the people, Jai is the one who has come to guess his wife's changing affections for him first!

The best scene yesterday was the look of possessiveness and jealousy in Bani's face and then her self-questioning on the change of feelings she is having for Jai! I loved the fact that she asks for Jai's happiness from God...when someone enters your prayer's, that means True Love has finally entered your Life!

And ofcourse, Bani getting Pillow and Blanket for Jai and seeing to it that he is comfortably asleep...I had really hoped for Jai to wake up and wonder who put the Pillow & Blanket in place for him...😳

Roshni asks Jai if Bani will keep the truth to herself when she comes to know of it and won't give away Jai and Roshni to the World. Isn't this sentence suggestive of a "crime" that Jai and Roshni had committed which has a direct bearing to Bani's past? Well, I think its better that we no discuss on these lines...the mystery is just too mystifiying!

Questions for the Weekend;

What is your general take on Jai's attitude towards Roshni? He seems to be extremely rude yet caring like a true friend towards her, and yet again shows absolutely no inkling of any romantic feelings towards her, as if they were only good friends but never lovers? Can you guess the true relationship between Jai and Roshni based on Jai's behaviour towards her?

Bani ended up asking for Jai's happiness from God along with Pia and Rano? Is that indicative of a further rift from her sisters, especially Pia...because Jai and Pia will always be on parallel tracks and Bani would have to ultimately make a choice between choosing her husband's happiness or her sister's?

Jai looked guilty and helpless towards Bani as he tells Roshni that he will spend the night in her room. Is Jai's suggestive gesture towards Bani an indication of his growing responsibility as a husband who wants to assure his wife silently that there is nothing going on between me and my ex-girlfriend and don't worry, I am only meant for you?😉

Bani's growing feelings of jealousy and possessiveness towards Jai is making her slightly aggressive and bold, atleast with respect to Roshni. Do you think that Jai will notice the difference in Bani's attitude and what do you think he will feel about the same?

Guessing by the way Roshni talked about Pushkar to Bani and her subsequent look of fright, does it indicate that Roshni has a fair idea that Bani was once in love with Pushkar and if she does, do you think she will use it to poison Jai's mind against his wife?

What do you think will Bani's reaction be if and when Pushkar confronts her regarding her once upon a time feelings for him? Will Bani lie point blank to him refuting everything or will she accept and then plead to Pushkar to forget the past and never bring this up again? Do you feel that somewhere down in her Heart, Bani still holds some embers of emotions for Pushkar or are they completely awashed with Jai's love?

With Pushkar growing disillusioned with his marriage to Pia day by day, do you think that the day Pushkar comes to know that Bani had once been in love with him become the last nail on the coffin on his relationship with Pia and deluge him with regret for what he lost out? Or will Pushkar always consider Bani to be his friend and nothing more and continue loving Pia selflessly?

Do you think that Bani is too traditional and old-fashioned for her age and takes her role as Jai's wife very seriously? Do you feel that even though Jai and Bani are apart by 17 years in age, they are mentally in the same wavelength...as in Jai is very forward thinking and modern for his age and Bani is quite the orthodox girl for her age and hence they strike a perfect balance as Husband & Wife?

A long term question for your analysis; Bani has always been a girl who has had an unbeliveable capacity for forgiveness and the ability to not hold a gurdge against anyone for even a moment, whatever be the cause. My question is, whenever the truth comes out from Jai's closet, do you think that Bani will be able to forgive Jai the way she forgave Pia and Pushkar?

Happy answering over the Weekend! Going by Anu's Promo, it seems that the next week will see a lot of action as Mausi will be coming back home and Bani will probably try and poison Roshni in a fit of rage!😆 (I hope she succeeds and the blame comes on Jigyasa & Ranveer!)

Lots of Love,

MT

Wow, a lot of question sactually.

What is your general take on Jai's attitude towards Roshni? He seems to be extremely rude yet caring like a true friend towards her, and yet again shows absolutely no inkling of any romantic feelings towards her, as if they were only good friends but never lovers? Can you guess the true relationship between Jai and Roshni based on Jai's behaviour towards her?

I think Jai still thinks of Roshni as a friend but its she who is more interested in crossing the line. Its true that in the past maybe they had shared a romantic relation, but there is no saying anywhere that the past has always to be repeated in the present. In fact, people should learn from past mistakes and make their present life smooth.
I have a feeling that Jai would not have been rude to Roshni if she didn't keep on pushing and prodding him at regular intervals and being well on the verge of divulging their secret to Bani. Its clear that Jai doesn't want Bani to know anything about his past and the secret, at any cost.



Bani ended up asking for Jai's happiness from God along with Pia and Rano? Is that indicative of a further rift from her sisters, especially Pia...because Jai and Pia will always be on parallel tracks and Bani would have to ultimately make a choice between choosing her husband's happiness or her sister's?

It was such a nice gesture on Bani's part to pray to God for being able to provide happiness to her sisters and Mr. Walia. I dont think she saw it coming herself, but I am pretty sure Jai would have been very happy if he had known about her prayer and that he was in it.
The prayer scene was very indicative in the part that it implied that Bani has started taking her relation with Jai seriously, even though she's aware that there is no future in it. This feeling will go a long way in defining Bani's future actions, which may involve her estrangement from her sisters.



Bani's growing feelings of jealousy and possessiveness towards Jai is making her slightly aggressive and bold, atleast with respect to Roshni. Do you think that Jai will notice the difference in Bani's attitude and what do you think he will feel about the same?

I am sure Jai is definitely noticing Bani's aggresive reactions and feeling the basic change in her. And believe me, he's sure enjoying it. 😉

Jai looked guilty and helpless towards Bani as he tells Roshni that he will spend the night in her room. Is Jai's suggestive gesture towards Bani an indication of his growing responsibility as a husband who wants to assure his wife silently that there is nothing going on between me and my ex-girlfriend and don't worry, I am only meant for you?

You just said it. The intense look that Jai shared with Bani after his declaration that he would stay with Roshni at night, was too much. At first, I think he was trying to gauge Bani's reactions and then maybe he tried to cool things up by silently assuring her that there was nothing to woory about. Probably he realised that Bani was taking her role as his wife very seriously and expected him to do his duties as a husband. 😃
O, God what a scene.


Guessing by the way Roshni talked about Pushkar to Bani and her subsequent look of fright, does it indicate that Roshni has a fair idea that Bani was once in love with Pushkar and if she does, do you think she will use it to poison Jai's mind against his wife?

I don't think that Roshni in all probability knows about Bani's initial feelings towards Pushkar. It was more like that Jai hates Pushkar now and also Bani and her sisters, so that would make her control their lives, if they wanted to live properly without inviting Jai's anger and hatred at any cost.



What do you think will Bani's reaction be if and when Pushkar confronts her regarding her once upon a time feelings for him? Will Bani lie point blank to him refuting everything or will she accept and then plead to Pushkar to forget the past and never bring this up again? Do you feel that somewhere down in her Heart, Bani still holds some embers of emotions for Pushkar or are they completely awashed with Jai's love?

To me, feelings towards Pushkar doesn't account for much in Bani's life today. She is totally in LOVE with Jai and maybe her feelings for Pushkar were not love, but somewhere on the fringe. But, she will always want the very best for Pushkar because he is her friend and also because Pia's future is associated with that of Pushkar's. I dont think the issue of Bani's past feelings for Pushkar will crop up. Even if it does, I am sure Bani is sensible enough to skirt around the topic and refute it point blank.



With Pushkar growing disillusioned with his marriage to Pia day by day, do you think that the day Pushkar comes to know that Bani had once been in love with him become the last nail on the coffin on his relationship with Pia and deluge him with regret for what he lost out? Or will Pushkar always consider Bani to be his friend and nothing more and continue loving Pia selflessly?

I think that Pushkar will always consider Bani as his friend only. Even if his marriage with Pia fails (which in all probablity is gonna happen sometime soon), his feelings for Bani will always remain the same.



Do you think that Bani is too traditional and old-fashioned for her age and takes her role as Jai's wife very seriously? Do you feel that even though Jai and Bani are apart by 17 years in age, they are mentally in the same wavelength...as in Jai is very forward thinking and modern for his age and Bani is quite the orthodox girl for her age and hence they strike a perfect balance as Husband & Wife?

Yeah, Bani surely acts and thinks far more maturely than her age. though she knows that their is no future with Jai Walia, yet she is taking her role as his wife pretty seriously and doing everything to keep him happy (though failing some times understandably) and out of harm's way. That's the reason Jai understands her to some extent and is presently trying to come in terms to her somewhat limited presence in his life. They do strike a perfect chord as a husband and wife and the viewers can actually empathise with their situation.


A long term question for your analysis; Bani has always been a girl who has had an unbeliveable capacity for forgiveness and the ability to not hold a gurdge against anyone for even a moment, whatever be the cause. My question is, whenever the truth comes out from Jai's closet, do you think that Bani will be able to forgive Jai the way she forgave Pia and Pushkar?

The truth, according to me, will completely shatter Bani and her faith on Jai. It will take a lot of effort from Jai to win her faith and trust and get the girl moving along. I hope he really does that, keeping in mind that Bani has always helped him and till date has made it a point to overlook his bad behaviour towards her and her sisters. Initially, the truth will harm Jai and Bani's relation, but in the end, I am sure she will forgive him for whatever he' strying to hide.

Oh, MT from where do these questions crop up in your mind. I hope my answers make some sense at least. 😛

What is your general take on Jai's attitude towards Roshni? He seems to be extremely rude yet caring like a true friend towards her, and yet again shows absolutely no inkling of any romantic feelings towards her, as if they were only good friends but never lovers? Can you guess the true relationship between Jai and Roshni based on Jai's behaviour towards her?

As of now Roshni is only an old friend who is indisposed and he is trying to help her out as anyone would. In the past maybe they did have a romantic relation. Even if they did, it does not show in Jai's attitude towards Roshni anymore.

Bani ended up asking for Jai's happiness from God along with Pia and Rano? Is that indicative of a further rift from her sisters, especially Pia...because Jai and Pia will always be on parallel tracks and Bani would have to ultimately make a choice between choosing her husband's happiness or her sister's?

Pia and Rano are Bani's world and define who she is. When she asked for Jai's happiness along with theirs, it shows that he has become a very important part of her world and is now defining who she is in a major way.

Jai looked guilty and helpless towards Bani as he tells Roshni that he will spend the night in her room. Is Jai's suggestive gesture towards Bani an indication of his growing responsibility as a husband who wants to assure his wife silently that there is nothing going on between me and my ex-girlfriend and don't worry, I am only meant for you?😉

What an intense scene. Even though I saw it in a downloaded form on my computer screen I could feel the electricity. Bani's eyes said so much from 'I cant' believe you said that' to hurt and anger and pain. And Jai looking at her helplessly and it appeared as if he was pleading with her to understand his situation. I think it was one of their best scenes yet. I can't say anything about the part of his growing responsibility as a husband but for some reason he definitely did not want her to misunderstand the situation.

Bani's growing feelings of jealousy and possessiveness towards Jai is making her slightly aggressive and bold, atleast with respect to Roshni. Do you think that Jai will notice the difference in Bani's attitude and what do you think he will feel about the same?

She is definitely becoming a little bold in her dealings with Roshni though so far I don't remember her saying anything to Jai or even to Roshni when he is around. Then she just gives those angry looks. Man, if looks could kill Roshni would be turning in her grave right now.

Guessing by the way Roshni talked about Pushkar to Bani and her subsequent look of fright, does it indicate that Roshni has a fair idea that Bani was once in love with Pushkar and if she does, do you think she will use it to poison Jai's mind against his wife?

I don't think so. She is taking full advantage of what she knows and that is the Jai-Pia-Pushkar-Bani situation and their uncomfortable relationship.

What do you think will Bani's reaction be if and when Pushkar confronts her regarding her once upon a time feelings for him? Will Bani lie point blank to him refuting everything or will she accept and then plead to Pushkar to forget the past and never bring this up again? Do you feel that somewhere down in her Heart, Bani still holds some embers of emotions for Pushkar or are they completely awashed with Jai's love?

She will be honest and say that she misunderstood friendship and the help he had given her as love but that is not so. Just now it is only Mr. Khadoos in her system.

With Pushkar growing disillusioned with his marriage to Pia day by day, do you think that the day Pushkar comes to know that Bani had once been in love with him become the last nail on the coffin on his relationship with Pia and deluge him with regret for what he lost out? Or will Pushkar always consider Bani to be his friend and nothing more and continue loving Pia selflessly?

Pushkar and Pia have a very passionate relationship and even if they separate those feelings will always stay. He will never feel the same for Bani and will always be Bani's friend if Mr. Khadoos will allow it.

Do you think that Bani is too traditional and old-fashioned for her age and takes her role as Jai's wife very seriously? Do you feel that even though Jai and Bani are apart by 17 years in age, they are mentally in the same wavelength...as in Jai is very forward thinking and modern for his age and Bani is quite the orthodox girl for her age and hence they strike a perfect balance as Husband & Wife?

Yes to all of the above and it is this maturity that closes their age gap as she has this tremendous capacity to understand Jai by just looking at him. He does not have to say or ask for anything. Though, the modern/orthodox difference in them is only outward. By the way Jai is OK with whatever she does shows that deep down he share the same values.

A long term question for your analysis; Bani has always been a girl who has had an unbeliveable capacity for forgiveness and the ability to not hold a gurdge against anyone for even a moment, whatever be the cause. My question is, whenever the truth comes out from Jai's closet, do you think that Bani will be able to forgive Jai the way she forgave Pia and Pushkar?

It will depend on a great deal as to what the raaz is. To what level was Jai involved and what is it exactly that he did or did not do.I have been thinking about this at the same time that I was trying to solve the raaz and I think she will be able to forgive him eventually and this might turn out to be the reason for the sisters parting ways. However if the raaz turns out to be that Jai hit her mother and left her to die without giving any assitance then it will be a different matter - that would be a crime. Then I think some of us would be angry too.

It is past midnight and I can't believe I am answering question at this time. But the questions are very thought provoking so I decided to go ahead. How do you manage to come up with these questions. And tomorrow is Saturday so I get to sleep in.

MT - meri baat maano - likhna shuru kar do. As always looking forward to your answers to these questions also.😛

What is your general take on Jai's attitude towards Roshni? He seems to be extremely rude yet caring like a true friend towards her, and yet again shows absolutely no inkling of any romantic feelings towards her, as if they were only good friends but never lovers? Can you guess the true relationship between Jai and Roshni based on Jai's behaviour towards her

personally i sometimes had an inclination that Jai Walia was afraid of her for some reason and hence was going with whatever she wanted...but now i feel that they sure had a history together which is far beyond that of only romance..but something more sinister..may be he is just keeping Roshni at bay so that their past involving Bani is not leaked out by Roshni


Bani ended up asking for Jai's happiness from God along with Pia and Rano? Is that indicative of a further rift from her sisters, especially Pia...because Jai and Pia will always be on parallel tracks and Bani would have to ultimately make a choice between choosing her husband's happiness or her sister's?

I think that going by the trend the "k" serials have set...bani is sure to be in 2 minds where her feelings for jai walia n pia are concerned..she will always be unsure where Jai walia's feelings for Pia are concerned...so she is sure to sidestep in this relationship and i hope that that's when Jai will tell Bani that it is she that he loves... 😉

Bani's growing feelings of jealousy and possessiveness towards Jai is making her slightly aggressive and bold, atleast with respect to Roshni. Do you think that Jai will notice the difference in Bani's attitude and what do you think he will feel about the same?

👏 Nice one...Jai has already started realising abt bani's changing feelings for him. It was very apparent from last night's episode in Roshni's room....But he is not wanting to accept it as to him she is Pia's sister and also the one whom he trusted and was betrayed by during the wedding..so guys some more electrifying scenes for us on this issue.. 👏 👏

Jai looked guilty and helpless towards Bani as he tells Roshni that he will spend the night in her room. Is Jai's suggestive gesture towards Bani an indication of his growing responsibility as a husband who wants to assure his wife silently that there is nothing going on between me and my ex-girlfriend and don't worry, I am only meant for you?

I agree that Jai knows that Bani feelings has changed for him and he was trying to gage it...he has developed a soft corner for her sure but it will take some time for the mighty jai walia to relent and accept his changing feelings for bani..


Bani's growing feelings of jealousy and possessiveness towards Jai is making her slightly aggressive and bold, atleast with respect to Roshni. Do you think that Jai will notice the difference in Bani's attitude and what do you think he will feel about the same?

Jai is noticing but she should start being more aggressive when jai is in the same room..she becomes speechless when he is in the vicinity..she could be aggresive where her pia n jai were concerned but why is she shying away????...because she is insecure where jai's position in her life is concerned..

Guessing by the way Roshni talked about Pushkar to Bani and her subsequent look of fright, does it indicate that Roshni has a fair idea that Bani was once in love with Pushkar and if she does, do you think she will use it to poison Jai's mind against his wife?

No i m sure that roshni does not know abt bani's pre marriage feelings for pushkar...but i have my doubts that she may come to know 1st and then try n use them against bani thus creating a rift between all 4...but will roshni be such a big influence when maasi comes back...i don't know...

What do you think will Bani's reaction be if and when Pushkar confronts her regarding her once upon a time feelings for him? Will Bani lie point blank to him refuting everything or will she accept and then plead to Pushkar to forget the past and never bring this up again? Do you feel that somewhere down in her Heart, Bani still holds some embers of emotions for Pushkar or are they completely awashed with Jai's love?

bani will try n explain and may be pushkar being so disillusioned with pia may turn to bani..but frankly just now i don't think that bani has anyone in her heart except jai walia...may be when secrets are out then story may take a turn...but let us concentrate on jai n bani now 👏


With Pushkar growing disillusioned with his marriage to Pia day by day, do you think that the day Pushkar comes to know that Bani had once been in love with him become the last nail on the coffin on his relationship with Pia and deluge him with regret for what he lost out? Or will Pushkar always consider Bani to be his friend and nothing more and continue loving Pia selflessly?

i will just second the previous question...same reply as the previous question by me

Do you think that Bani is too traditional and old-fashioned for her age and takes her role as Jai's wife very seriously? Do you feel that even though Jai and Bani are apart by 17 years in age, they are mentally in the same wavelength...as in Jai is very forward thinking and modern for his age and Bani is quite the orthodox girl for her age and hence they strike a perfect balance as Husband & Wife?

Frankly i used to think that bani is too emotional n sacrificing...n has great maturity for someone her age...but now the way she has handled all her relationships with jai , with maasi, with jigyasa, with her sisters and with pushkar with goof ups of course say that a character like her suits very well with the world wiery jai walia who is so complicated...

A long term question for your analysis; Bani has always been a girl who has had an unbeliveable capacity for forgiveness and the ability to not hold a gurdge against anyone for even a moment, whatever be the cause. My question is, whenever the truth comes out from Jai's closet, do you think that Bani will be able to forgive Jai the way she forgave Pia and Pushkar?

Love knows no boundaries...is she really loves jai walia she will forgive him...but i think that it will also depend on the reason...if the past is very sinister she may not forgive and she should not...she has already given that family so much..she previously n to some extend even now has been shown as an independent self respecting women..she should continue to be that....


👏 👏 Great questions...n so much thought needed to be put to answer...i revisited kasam se in my mind again.....but MISTLE TOE PLEASE PUT FORTH YOUR ANSWERS TOO....

Originally posted by: ronitpf

👏 👏 Great questions...n so much thought needed to be put to answer...i revisited kasam se in my mind again.....but MISTLE TOE PLEASE PUT FORTH YOUR ANSWERS TOO....

I thrive on your answers guys! 😳But I will surely answer these question's on Monday, when most of you have shared your views!

Thank you once again for the great responses and for taking out time and effort for the same, its truly appreciated! 😊

Awaiting more responses from the rest of the gang!

Lots of Love,👍🏼

MT

MT I must say you have a quality of becoming a press reporter how on earth do you phrase so sensible questions…..well really impressed the way you ask questions………..Keep it up….

What is your general take on Jai's attitude towards Roshni? He seems to be extremely rude yet caring like a true friend towards her, and yet again shows absolutely no inkling of any romantic feelings towards her, as if they were only good friends but never lovers? Can you guess the true relationship between Jai and Roshni based on Jai's behaviour towards her?

Ans>I think there is something of a dark secret which Jai is very adamant not to disclose any bit of it, I think their was something to do with Bani's mother b'coz Jai knew Bani's mother very well, and about Jai's behaviour to Roshni its natural he treats her like a good friend and wants to avoid bani's interaction with Roshni he may be scared that she may disclose any thing to Bani but he is unknowingly hurting Bani that's for sure, she is on a …..


Bani ended up asking for Jai's happiness from God along with Pia and Rano? Is that indicative of a further rift from her sisters, especially Pia...because Jai and Pia will always be on parallel tracks and Bani would have to ultimately make a choice between choosing her husband's happiness or her sister's?

Ans>it is the growing fondness and love that Bani is developing for Jai and that's the reason she included Jai in her prayers. Yes definitely if Piya turns down Pushkar and again try to come in Jai's life but I think that is a later stage where Pia will have all the negative feelings against Pushkar and may be she try it completely possible. Bani is an idol of sacrifice it will not be a surprise for viewers if she will choose her sister over Jai…….


Bani's growing feelings of jealousy and possessiveness towards Jai is making her slightly aggressive and bold, atleast with respect to Roshni. Do you think that Jai will notice the difference in Bani's attitude and what do you think he will feel about the same?

Ans>No still I feel he has no idea what's going on b'coz Bani is just having a cold war with Roshni now but this will grow into a battle only when Jai will know exactly what's Bani's feelings for him.

Jai looked guilty and helpless towards Bani as he tells Roshni that he will spend the night in her room. Is Jai's suggestive gesture towards Bani an indication of his growing responsibility as a husband who wants to assure his wife silently that there is nothing going on between me and my ex-girlfriend and don't worry, I am only meant for you?

Ans>I think in a different way I think he doesn't want to trouble Bani and also wants her to stay away form Roshni for the fear he has for past, I think I've mentioned it already in my first ans….

Guessing by the way Roshni talked about Pushkar to Bani and her subsequent look of fright, does it indicate that Roshni has a fair idea that Bani was once in love with Pushkar and if she does, do you think she will use it to poison Jai's mind against his wife?

Ans>I don't think she has so much of an idea about Bani's feelings for Pushkar but yes what happened in resent past like Pushkar ran away with Jai's fiance Pia who is Bani's sister and she meant to hurt Bani in a direct way. And also that Jai hates Pushkar and reminding Jai about the resent past she could get Bani a black mark and he might do something to make their lives more complicated, especially Bani.

What do you think will Bani's reaction be if and when Pushkar confronts her regarding her once upon a time feelings for him? Will Bani lie point blank to him refuting everything or will she accept and then plead to Pushkar to forget the past and never bring this up again? Do you feel that somewhere down in her Heart, Bani still holds some embers of emotions for Pushkar or are they completely awashed with Jai's love?

Ans>Bani is in a stage where she has aroused from the past and is dealing with present, if at all Pushkar comes to know about Bani's feelings she will not be affected much but yes Pushkar will be in a loosing position coz the way he is dealing with Pia's unreasonable demands and will somewhere compare Bani with Pia may be not sure…. No Bani is now out of that 'Pushkar's' phase she is now completely engrossed with the present and Jai.

With Pushkar growing disillusioned with his marriage to Pia day by day, do you think that the day Pushkar comes to know that Bani had once been in love with him become the last nail on the coffin on his relationship with Pia and deluge him with regret for what he lost out? Or will Pushkar always consider Bani to be his friend and nothing more and continue loving Pia selflessly?

Ans>You answered it in your question already and I have answered it in the previous question. He will definitely regret on losing a girl like Bani. I don't think Pushkar will get anything after his regression the only thing he can do is work like a mad to make Pia happy……

Do you think that Bani is too traditional and old-fashioned for her age and takes her role as Jai's wife very seriously? Do you feel that even though Jai and Bani are apart by 17 years in age, they are mentally in the same wavelength...as in Jai is very forward thinking and modern for his age and Bani is quite the orthodox girl for her age and hence they strike a perfect balance as Husband & Wife?

Ans>Yes definitely Bani is mature and understanding not an orthodox but yes god-fearing and she believes in marriages and love b'coz she has seen Jai's emotional status she has become more and more serious in her role of a wife even when she knows there might be a full stop to this relationship one day. Jai is just on track where he could have worsened Bani's life but he is a man with changing thoughts, he is affected so badly coz he trusted Pia blind folded, they both are complimentary to each other as husband and wife when Jai will realize all that gestures Bani is doing without even complaining once.

A long term question for your analysis; Bani has always been a girl who has had an unbeliveable capacity for forgiveness and the ability to not hold a gurdge against anyone for even a moment, whatever be the cause. My question is, whenever the truth comes out from Jai's closet, do you think that Bani will be able to forgive Jai the way she forgave Pia and Pushkar?

Ans>I am very sure she will be shattered if the past has something to do with her parents. She might leave Jai and after that maybe Jai will understand the importance of her existence in his life and then there might be a confrontation which would change there life…..

MT you are the best I really enjoyed giving answers to your questions I wish that you come up with more and more sensible and little less hard

1. I dont want to begin thinking about their relationship. The way they exchanged looks was painful to me..I am traumatised after this Friday's episode. what's wrong with Jai?? cant take care of a girl who didnt eat a single morsel all day, but had to be oh-so-kind to QSMPA. Husband kiska hai vo? If I was Bani I would have poured boiling water on them, or I might have decided to flirt with Tony the butler! Gee, those two are thick as thieves and they are getting on my nerves.

2. I think Bani will be on the side of Truth and Righteousness. It wont matter if its pia or jai. TO her being on the side of truth will be of most importance. IF Pia happens to be on the wrong side, it will pain Bani a great deal, but she will still stick to her principals.. I am certain, it wont be choosing between Pia and Jai, it will be between, the Truth and Duty.

3.I felt Jai's look meant "I dare you speak out or challenge my decision", he was also gauging Bani's reaction. He didnt look guilty at all to me. The fantastic and the unfantastic part about the KS lead pair is that they communicate through silence..through the language of the eyes. Due to this, viewers can interpret a look in different ways. MHO is that, Jai was gauging Bani's reaction. And the fact that he was checking her reaction would mean that, he does care for her enough to want to know what she feels about something. He definitely harbours a soft corner for her.

4. Heck Yeah! he has already. That scowl was unmistakable. She even took charge of the vegetarian lifestyle at home...and she has taken charge of her favourite task - getting Jai's night gown ready. He will notice her new possessivenes..

5.Absolutely no chance for QSMPA to know about Bani's love for Pushy. She will make use of the rift between Pia and Pushy to her advantage though.

6.Yeah, you said it all. She will ask Pushy to leave the past alone and that her duty lies with Mr. walia now..

I gotta run along now. I will come back to do the rest of the soul stirring Qs.

Loads of love my fellow nuts :-)
Darcy

Kya buddy kitne sawal puchhati ho. Kabhi to students ka khayal rakha karo…….. just jocking. Here I goes…..

What is your general take on Jai's attitude towards Roshni? He seems to be extremely rude yet caring like a true friend towards her, and yet again shows absolutely no inkling of any romantic feelings towards her, as if they were only good friends but never lovers? Can you guess the true relationship between Jai and Roshni based on Jai's behaviour towards her?

-Well I think jai and roshani were lovers in the past. They indeed had a good relationship. remember at the airport, when roshani asked jai abt pia, jai very casually gave the answer and what was his feeling for pia. Jai by nature very introvert who never open his heart to everybody. So after so many years have been passed, still jai share his inner feelings with roshani, we can make out what kind of relation they shared. But something very bad happened between them and they got apart. Now from jai's side, he has not lover kind of a feeling for roshani. I think roshani too but she is not showing it and pretent that she still loves jai. (for her hidden agenda) I don't know why but I have a strong feeling that roshani will be the one who get jai-bani closer. Whatever jai is doing for roshani nowadays, do as a true friend. See he is perfect in every relation whether its son, brother, friend, mentor, uncle and last but no the least husband. (when he starts performing this duty, every girl wants a hubby like him…)

Bani ended up asking for Jai's happiness from God along with Pia and Rano? Is that indicative of a further rift from her sisters, especially Pia...because Jai and Pia will always be on parallel tracks and Bani would have to ultimately make a choice between choosing her husband's happiness or her sister's?

-I don't think so, she has something like this in her mind right now. Means to make a choice between hubby n sister. She knows pia is happy with pushkar. She asked jai's happiness alongwith pia and rano very spontaneously. That's why she mumble to herself tht whats wrong with her. How can and why she include jai's happiness in her prayer? That shows how deeply she is in love with jai. At the same time its an indication that if she will have to make a choice between jai and pia, she will go for jai. (chances are very bright looking to the pia's constant remembering of leaving jai and her idiotic attitude towards pushkar (can't have a sympathy. He deserve this) and his family).

Jai looked guilty and helpless towards Bani as he tells Roshni that he will spend the night in her room. Is Jai's suggestive gesture towards Bani an indication of his growing responsibility as a husband who wants to assure his wife silently that there is nothing going on between me and my ex-girlfriend and don't worry, I m only meant for you?

-Oh ya, when he assured roshani, that she need not to worry coz of her pain as he will be with her whole night to take care of her, that was a gesture of a true friend. After making promise and gave intense look to bani, that looked was with guilty and helpless towards bani. But as now he understand bani's feelings and more important his feelings for bani, he too understand what is husband's responsibility. That's why without telling to roshani and to make bani surprise, he slept on the couch whole night. In other way he wanted to assure bani that don't worry, there is nothing going on between him and roshani. He got success in it. The looked on bani's face when she saw jai sleeping on the couch, tells that winner is jai.

Bani's growing feelings of jealousy and possessiveness towards Jai is making her slightly aggressive and bold, atleast with respect to Roshni. Do you think that Jai will notice the difference in Bani's attitude and what do you think he will feel about the same?

-I just hope jai will notice this difference in bani's attutude. Actually I am confident tht jai will surely notice and he too like it. Becoz now a days he likes each and every gesture of bani leaving aside her curiocity about his past. Thts why I added hope as his past is not allow him to become a normal jai.

Guessing by the way Roshni talked about Pushkar to Bani and her subsequent look of fright, does it indicate that Roshni has a fair idea that Bani was once in love with Pushkar and if she does, do you think she will use it to poison Jai's mind against his wife?

-I don't think, roshani have any idea about bani's soft feelings for pushkar. She was just trying to humiliate pushkar due to jealousy towards bani being a wife of jai as she knows pushkar is bani's sister's husband. At the moment Pushkar is in need of a money. So she just taunted him that inspite of having a rich sister in law, he has to demand money from her. I don't know why bani looks so frighter on hearing name of pushkar from roshani's mouth. May be she is afraid of having a dialouge battle between jai and pushkar as jai don't like him to be in his house after whatever pushkar did to him.

What do you think will Bani's reaction be if and when Pushkar confronts her regarding her once upon a time feelings for him? Will Bani lie point blank to him refuting everything or will she accept and then plead to Pushkar to forget the past and never bring this up again? Do you feel that somewhere down in her Heart, Bani still holds some embers of emotions for Pushkar or are they completely awashed with Jai's love?

-As far as I know pushkar didn't have any idea abt bani's feeling for him. Bani was about to told what she feel for pushkar, on the very same moment pia confessed her love for pushkar and bani sacrifice her love without revealing it to anyone. It is very hard to forget the first love in life, but bani forget as she knows pushkar is her sister's husband and its not right to have any kind of love feeling for him in her heart. To add it, its her love for jai which help her to awashed pushkar's feeling completely from her heart. U can make this difference by her way of looking at jai and pushkar. Here I would like to mentioned why it's easy for bani and hard for jai to forget their love. Former sacrificed her love for her sister's happiness and later ditched by his lover by associating with a man who was like a son to jai.

With Pushkar growing disillusioned with his marriage to Pia day by day, do you think that the day Pushkar comes to know that Bani had once been in love with him become the last nail on the coffin on his relationship with Pia and deluge him with regret for what he lost out? Or will Pushkar always consider Bani to be his friend and nothing more and continue loving Pia selflessly?

-From whatever hardship pushkar is going through right now with his marriage to pia, I feel he deserve it. I don't have any feeling of sympathy for him atleast in the present. Future I don't know. He and pia are responsible for jai and bani's pain. that too with knowing what they are going to do. If tht was unknowingly then I may have a sympathy for him. so it's a god's justice, "jo jaisa boyega voh vaisa hi payega". Its better he consider bani as a friend even after he comes to know about bani' s feeling and try to manage pia and her stupid superiority complex. I don't want him become a hurdle between jai and bani.

Do you think that Bani is too traditional and old-fashioned for her age and takes her role as Jai's wife very seriously? Do you feel that even though Jai and Bani are apart by 17 years in age, they are mentally in the same wavelength...as in Jai is very forward thinking and modern for his age and Bani is quite the orthodox girl for her age and hence they strike a perfect balance as Husband & Wife?

-When two person loves each other, nothing is much matter whether its age, nature or anything. On the contrary they are trying to adjust with each other by accepting adverse qualities of their nature n make life happy. It's a life.As I said in one of my post, opposite attracts. Same happen with jai n bani. Its their opposite nature which bring them closer and closer. Though jai is a forward thinking person but at the same time gives equal weightage to traditions and values of life. That's why since beginning he always like bani for her traditional lookout and values towards life. So they are a perfect balance of husband and wife. And I don't consider bani as old fashioned for her age. She likes to carry herself in a way in which she feels comfortable. (being a fashion designer I m saying this. Lol…..) that's the main thing.

A long term question for your analysis; Bani has always been a girl who has had an unbeliveable capacity for forgiveness and the ability to not hold a gurdge against anyone for even a moment, whatever be the cause. My question is, whenever the truth comes out from Jai's closet, do you think that Bani will be able to forgive Jai the way she forgave Pia and Pushkar?

-Well it depends on the truth and its intensity and most imp. Jai's involvement. If jai's involvement would be more as per her point of view, I feel initially she will not be able to forgive jai. She will need a time to digest the past.But considering her deepen love feeling for jai and looking to her nature and ability to forgive others, she will not be able to stay away from jai for long. so she will try to understand the situation at that time. Also try to figure out why jai was always wanted to hide the truth. just becoz to save her from going into pain and suffer as he too loves her so much. So taking into consideration later on she will forgive jai.
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kiah

Hi MT!

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What is your general take on Jai's attitude towards Roshni? He seems to be extremely rude yet caring like a true friend towards her, and yet again shows absolutely no inkling of any romantic feelings towards her, as if they were only good friends but never lovers? Can you guess the true relationship between Jai and Roshni based on Jai's behaviour towards her?

There is no romantic angle to that relationship atleast from Jai's point of view. I wont even say friendship coz Jai doesn't share a comfort zone with her. He is forced to put up with her, he gets irritated, angry frustrated with her around. He even called her an outsider very diplomatically(did Roshini realize that? Or was she lip smacking thinking of chicken soup?) But somewhere coz of that secret that they share, there is a sense of estranged yet enforced trust that they share… that is the only thing that is keeping their relationship going.
Jai's concern yday in helping her walk was more chivalrous than anything else. His concern over her swollen leg and him volunteering to stay back to help here was just because he is a very compassionate guy at heart. Only if Bani had fainted, she would have been his 1st priority. Moreover I think Jai has taken the moral responsibility of her accident coz it happened in his house and his nephew and sister-in-law were responsible for it. I think they came back late and everyone else had gone to sleep, Bani was too tired for him to ask her to take care of Roshini so he decided he will keep a check on her, coz she looked in pain. Whatever be the relationship that Jai, Roshini share now they WERE good friends a few years back.

Bani ended up asking for Jai's happiness from God along with Pia and Rano? Is that indicative of a further rift from her sisters, especially Pia...because Jai and Pia will always be on parallel tracks and Bani would have to ultimately make a choice between choosing her husband's happiness or her sister's?
I was sulking so much when Bani began with her Sister's kushiyoon ka jaap… I was wondering why didn't Jai or herself feature in her prayers and then Jai came into the list. Asking for Jai's happiness is as good as asking for THEIR happiness.. so I have no problem. Thank God Bani began thinking of her life for a change… Good for starters!!!
I am waiting for the day Bani has to make a choice between Jai and Pia and she chooses Jai. Bani-Rano will never go separate ways. Bani –Pia will. Jai will not ask Bani to make the choice, Pia will. Jai wont mind Bani have contacts wit Pia-Pushkar as long as she keeps him out of it. Bani will, but Pia is still under the impression she can influence Jai. She is so mistaken. I am so waiting for Jai to tell Pia to get lost coz he is HAPPY and in LOVE with Bani!

Jai looked guilty and helpless towards Bani as he tells Roshni that he will spend the night in her room. Is Jai's suggestive gesture towards Bani an indication of his growing responsibility as a husband who wants to assure his wife silently that there is nothing going on between me and my ex-girlfriend and don't worry, I am only meant for you?
Jai would have slept out even otherwise or on the sofa in Roshini's room. I didn't feel he was guilty, may be helpless. When he looked at Bani, he was trying to read those emotions on her face which was seemed to speak of the distress she was going through. I don't think he felt he was doing anything wrong, he didn't cross any limits… he was just being that caring guy he is. If he knew Bani wouldnt like it, he wont have offered to stay back.. but now that he has he couldnt go back on his word. Another scene when Bani was standing at the door fuming, Jai looked at her, and asked "wahan kya kar rahi ho Bani, Pani yahan lao' He wasn't rude at all… just a bit confused and puzzled with Bani's reaction. He understood Bani's emotions when she turned around hearing jai saying he will stay back with her. what was very sweet of Jai was that he wasnt offended by Bani's questioning look, he understood that any wife would feel the same. I think that gesture suggested he considers himself married and is someone's husband now… that look he gave bani was assuring her there was nothing between him and Roshini. Moreover Jai knows his limits esp when he can see Roshini's drooling over him.
Not that Bani doesn't trust Jai, but she was just jealous and it was normal. Cant deny the fact that she found some peace only after seeing Jai sleeping on the couch. She felt reassured and GOOD about the fact that Jai wouldn't share a room with anyone else but his wife. Even though they don't have a marriage to talk about, Jai would stay ONLY with her rather than anyone else… I bet it proved a lot. I think I saw a fleeting trace of guilt when she realized she didn't trust Jai.

Bani's growing feelings of jealousy and possessiveness towards Jai is making her slightly aggressive and bold, atleast with respect to Roshni. Do you think that Jai will notice the difference in Bani's attitude and what do you think he will feel about the same?
Jai has noticed Bani's discomfort whenever Roshini is around but hasn't seen jealousy or possessiveness as such. Yday he noticed Bani sad face which seemed to ask him "r u really going to stay here?" and Jai looked so helpless since he had already committed. But Jai treated that as a normal reaction from his wife rather than something as strong as jealousy. If he comes to know about Bani's possessiveness he will be very amused. I am sure he will be quite proud of Bani when he hears her back answering Roshini. we might even see him grinning. Only if he had heard Bani tell Roshini that she knew Jai slept out all night he would have grinned happily through out the day.

Guessing by the way Roshni talked about Pushkar to Bani and her subsequent look of fright, does it indicate that Roshni has a fair idea that Bani was once in love with Pushkar and if she does, do you think she will use it to poison Jai's mind against his wife?
I am bit apprehensive about those sly smiles Roshini keeps giving when she calls Pushkar in front of Bani. Bani's reactions kind of confused me. First time it happened I thought it was coz Bani was worried about Jai. It could be that she was worried about Jai even the second time round, but I am not convinced. I hope Roshini has no clue.. but if did she wont wait for so long, would have told Jai. if she knows she will use it against her.

What do you think will Bani's reaction be if and when Pushkar confronts her regarding her once upon a time feelings for him? Will Bani lie point blank to him refuting everything or will she accept and then plead to Pushkar to forget the past and never bring this up again? Do you feel that somewhere down in her Heart, Bani still holds some embers of emotions for Pushkar or are they completely awashed with Jai's love?

Bani will be passive… she will calmly tell Pushkar it wasn't love but infatuation and she is over it now. She will let him know that Jai is the love of her life, and what she feels for Jai is too strong to harbour any kind of affection for any other man connected to her past. She will tell him that they have moved on with their respective lives there is no point in discussing it. She better not plead to pushkar, that spineless creature… why should she. If he has any humanity, dignity left he will keep his mouth SHUT. I have my doubts about Pia though… it will be the worst if Jai has to come to through Pia.
Pushkar is Bani's friend, her brother in law, nothing more nothing less. Bani's heart is overwhelming with Jai's love… there cant be an iota of emotion for anyone else.

With Pushkar growing disillusioned with his marriage to Pia day by day, do you think that the day Pushkar comes to know that Bani had once been in love with him become the last nail on the coffin on his relationship with Pia and deluge him with regret for what he lost out? Or will Pushkar always consider Bani to be his friend and nothing more and continue loving Pia selflessly?
Whatever happens to Pia-Pushkar I simply DON'T CARE! It would be my cause of concern only if they begin to affect Jai-Bani's relationship adversely. Pushkar decides to stay in his marriage, regret it, walk out of it… I am not bothered. But ask him to KEEP AWAY from Jai-Bani.

Do you think that Bani is too traditional and old-fashioned for her age and takes her role as Jai's wife very seriously? Do you feel that even though Jai and Bani are apart by 17 years in age, they are mentally in the same wavelength...as in Jai is very forward thinking and modern for his age and Bani is quite the orthodox girl for her age and hence they strike a perfect balance as Husband & Wife?
At the end of the day Love can equalize any difference between any two individuals no matter how different they are. Jai-Bani are already in Love, it is just a matter of them acknowledging it. Not only Love, both of them share a great amount of understanding, trust and respect for eachother that it will strengthen their relationship further. As u said both their belief and temperament only goes towards balancing their relationship. This adorable couple is God Blessed they can survive anything. Touchwood.

A long term question for your analysis; Bani has always been a girl who has had an unbeliveable capacity for forgiveness and the ability to not hold a gurdge against anyone for even a moment, whatever be the cause. My question is, whenever the truth comes out from Jai's closet, do you think that Bani will be able to forgive Jai the way she forgave Pia and Pushkar?
It depends on what that secret is!!! Sometimes I feel Jai is assuming the worst, but then I also feel Jai knows Bani very well. He has observed her over the days, knows what her family means to her… may be he is right in gauging Bani's reaction. But what Jai hasn't considered is what he means to Bani!!! We don't know to what extent Bani can go for Jai… until now nothing has been able to overpower her love(unrealized) for Jai… not even the meanest of Jai's behaviour or the harshest of his words. Bani not necessarily might forgive or forget… but she will let bygones be bygones. It might be easier for her to let go, coz now she loves Jai and probably knows Jai loves her too coz of which he went to extents to make sure he protects her from the harsh reality. Bani is pretty philosophical in that way… if bani is the only victim of this mystery, she will let go. But what if her parents are involved(which is most likely) and her sisters have been equally wronged… that takes away from Bani the right to forgive. It is too early to say anything… it all bottles down to what Jai is hiding from her.

Happy answering over the Weekend! Going by Anu's Promo, it seems that the next week will see a lot of action as Mausi will be coming back home and Bani will probably try and poison Roshni in a fit of rage! (I hope she succeeds and the blame comes on Jigyasa & Ranveer!)
Bani just might… no wonder Roshini got her own cooks, just incase Bani had some intensions like that. I want Bani to somehow arrange for Roshini's stay at the outhouse. She can come up with some smart reasons to convince Jai. I thinking telling Jai Pushkar comes home everyday, he & Roshini work from here, will do the trick. Jai will surely ask Roshini to move to the outhouse so that she can have her privacy without disturbing his peace. He can ask Jigyasa to give Roshini company. I would give anything in this world to catch Roshini & Jigyasa's jaw drop in horror and Bani's victory smile and Jai protective glance towards his wife. Btw I hope Massi is back soon.
That is it for now.
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Anu

Hi MT, good questtion. i read everybody answer, my thought is the same. i aslo looking your ans. especilly you and anu wrote awosme. i am always waiting your analysis. keep writes. 👏