Originally posted by: dhoopkinarey
This is hilarious--I am an American, and I am being criticized for having standards that are last century. I just want to say that I don't think it is too much to expect your husband to not have twenty girlfriends before you, and for him to believe in the sanctity of marriage by not engaging in pre-marital sex. And Ejaz has asserted his belief in pre-marital sex in an interview, so that pretty much confirms my assessment. I am not saying he is not a good actor--in fact, he is fantastic and it is obvious he works very hard. But as a person in terms of values, there is a lot left to be desired.
I'm an American also and even though I don't have the same beliefes as Eijaz, but I wouldn't call him anti-Indian for his. He hasn't had many girlfriends because even though recently he's been called a casanova, he has only been linked with 2 girls in the past 2-3 years, both of which he never even went out with... and about pre-marital sex, half the industry has it but just aren't willing to admit to it and though I wouldn't be okay with it for myself, I'm not gonna criticize a 30 old for it either...I still think he has many other attributes that make him a great guy like for instance how he treats his fans or how all of his female costars refer to him as a total gentlemen... Also, neither do I think it's right to talk about his values (because we really don't know him or what his true values are) and nor do i think anyone has a right to attack his character! I'll follow my own advice and won't comment further but I'd appreciate it if you also wouldn't speak badly about his persona or values either...