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Posted: 14 years ago
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Now even if a was thrown out of house becoz j maried g,her parents bring her back bt keep on crying instead of motivating her,she works for herself family bt there wud always remain some shaterdnes in her which wud affect in further relationship n if the husband is nice then gud bt again a cheater or bad susural then a would complety shatter life.to fight u also need the right moral suport.now also anandi fals for men who lies to her no suport frm sasra then it wil afect her ,
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Posted: 14 years ago
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But she is not going to dispossess her illusive 'trophy'- disbanded or illegal. The lies of Jagya stare starkly exposed on her face. But harder her gloats get deflated more stubbornly she sticks to her faulty decision. The precap shows her turning maniac. I'd missed entire MBBS period and hence don't know much about her original portrayal. But as gleaned from some debates here, if she were sensitive and rational originally, then some of her primary arguments on justifying her 'marriage' fails to make sense.

Morally, she acquits herself stating Jagya was never in love with Anandi and hence there was no chance to salvage their 'child marriage'. a.) Now that enough proofs of a strong bond between J and A, even after attaining adulthood -not just 'unimportant', 'forced' bond of minority years-but prior to Mumbai's glamour glare –How still, she draws any moral rationalization from the argument? I mean, does she still consider herself morally free to choose and support (rescue?!) a renegade freelancer? Had her action not preempted any salvage? b.) Her stretched logic of fate's rectitude in her own child marriage, she completely misses preexisting child marriage of Anandi. Even more, she turns wholly amnesiac about the ample witnessing of Anadi-Jagya's strong bonding during that encounter – to the extent that a pre teen boy Jagya hated her for causing a harm to his 'bindhnee' Anandi. Had it never occurred to her that there was a bond- child marriage or not- and that Jagya is not coming entirely clean while claiming victimhood?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Even if a is thrown out of house,parents keep crying instead of giving moral suport.she herself works ,they give litle money bt there wil inner shaternes which wil only cured if realy men enter a life .even in this curent situation if the men comes who is breaks her trust bad susural ag ,wil her condition be like now or more worst.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

Even if a is thrown out of house,parents keep crying instead of giving moral suport.she herself works ,they give litle money bt there wil inner shaternes which wil only cured if realy men enter a life .even in this curent situation if the men comes who is breaks her trust bad susural ag ,wil her condition be like now or more worst.



tanvi lets not assume things on imaginary situations😆.
Lets not concoct imaginary situations and argue that Anandi would have done this and that and done worse. It's a fact Anandi and Gauri are two different people with completely different personalities-----------we have seen Anandi facing her adversities and acting in a certain way and we have seen Gauri facing her adversities and acting in a certain way. Lets limit our discussions on what has happened in reality, not imaginary situations.😆😆 It's fallacious to predict what Anandi would have done in Gauri's situation or what Gauri would have done if she were in Anandi's place
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Posted: 14 years ago
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-dont wory frm precap it quite sure they wil file a divorce,bt i dnt think they need to live seperately as such like unmaried people ,i wud hate it if live together throughout life with that illegal tag on their relation,talking abt anandi ,gauri ,i know what ur trying to say bt dont mind anandi inspite of tough conditions she had her in laws to give moral suport,security which is very important for person to cure her internal pain.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: vamita

I think the real throw for Gauri would be getting legal notice from Anandi, while she shouts at Jagat, that Anandi would take revenge and throw them in jail, and when they open, the most shocking thing would be that Anandi sending them Divorce papers instead of legal notice, saying that though she has loved Jagaya, he is not her Jagya anymore, and the real love is sacrifising for your love rather than snatching it and if he was happy with Gauri then so be it and today she was giving him his freedom for his happiness...She should also tell Gauri that she would never try to snatch someone's love ever, because her upbringing would never allow her to do that and give her best wishes for their future...It would be biggest blow for their guilty minds and they would have to live with it...There is no greater punishment than living in guilt all their life, while they see Anandi on TV every day of their life, not as a doctor, but may be in some big post, seeing how she bought difference in other people's life, setting an example for the people who are still pushing their daughters in marriage at young age...

Showing how the education can be used in real life...

i would never want to see this in the show... 😵 tht would be a cakewalk for the two.. want both of them to payback for wht they have done by struggling and fighting to get legal status for their relationship.. i wouldnt have said this had gauri been unaware of jagya's first marriage...i wish she pays for what she did consciously🤢
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I sometimes can't believe that this Gauri is the same one as the Mumbai one 😲 Can someone really change so much? Does love change you for the worse? 😕That is what has happened with Gauri. It ahs turned her into a weak, insecure human being. I would be grateful to the CVs if they show Gauri leaving Jagya for good, Anandi divorcing Jagya.

Jagya deserves to be alone in life!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: woman11



khushi i also feel the same Gauri is more worried about the possible court cases and Anandi's revenge, not her own status


And that is called "THAMAS"as per Bhagavad Gita.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: impressions



Hi all, I have been an avid reader of all your posts and finally couldn't resist any longer from joining the forum.

I completely agree with the above quoted post about the character Gauri being herself rather than a sudden degradation by the CVs . This character was bound to buckle under pressure. She was always hyper, be it in excitement in college ( some of you might call it chirpy and cheerful), or be it convincing her parents to get her married to Jagat or even while forcing the Singh parivar and Jetsar people to accept her. A go getter, determined character that cannot accept failure at any cost ( not after her annulled child marriage). A person who believes she is always right (even if she is wrong) and can't take no for an answer. Very persuasive and hence restless and even short tempered. And all these traits did manifest once things didn't go her way. Her ultimate mission was to get back what she had lost in her childhood i.e. being accepted by Jagat and his family.

I remember one particular episode, aired long time back just before Jagya professes his lover to Gauri, where she meets her Bade Papa and complains to him about her parents forcing her to get married. That very time I found her to be quite hyper. Maybe due to her high pitched voice. But it also showed her irritability and strong determination ( not wanting to even listen to others). It took great efforts for her Bade Papa to convince her to meet the guy who had come to see her.

Hi Impressions. I liked the way you expressed yourself. I think you said it better what I wanted to say. I know there are a lot of Gauri Fans. And believe me, I like certain things about her too. But what most Gauri fans misunderstand is that CVs have changed her personality and are now showing her as negative. It may be true. But it may also be that Gauri is this way. I feel this way because:
1) Earlier Gauri had Badepapa her life. He was the wise one who steered her towards wise and mature decisions. He is absent now and she has started making mistakes and dont know how to handle them.
2) Dadisa...also found her to be impulsive. Dadisa has her own reasons to dislike Gauri and use these reasons to get her out of their lives, but that does not mean that she is wrong.
3) Gauri's own mother and sometimes Gauri herself has been shown to say that she needs more patience.
I started watching this serial about 9 months ago when Gauri's role had just started to be important. I used to find her personality okay even then, because I didnt find her very mature...mostly girlish. Which was okay for her to behave then because she didnt have any problems in life. A person's maturity is revealed only when they have to face problems. I am sorry that Gauri crumbled when she had to face these problems. It is not entirely her mistake. Badepapa is absent. Her parents are useless. It is her misforturne that she likes a spineless person like Jagia.
I really hope that no Gauri fans find this offensive. I didnt mean it that way !

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