Jai's Dark Past - My Theory!

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I kind of think a little differently on the hot issue of Jai's past!

My view is that the whole thing has got to do with Jai's inability to become a biological Father! My reasons for the same are:

Jai not being involved with any woman after Roshni and he seperated ways and that was supposedly years back. Why would a man like Jai Walia, the epitome of an ideal man ever stay away from women without any strong reason?

Jai is someone who is extremely sensitive and touchy about himself, also someone who is very, very insecure! Once again, what is the reason, that someone of the stature of Jai Walia should be insecure regarding anything in his life, especially regarding Love and Relationships? Obviously, he holds a deep prejudice against himself in his heart that is making him unable to be in control of his relationships and hence, he avoids them at all cost!

Jai's fondness for children and his generous nature regarding helping Parentless children. Ever wondered why Jai was so attached to Pushkar and even though they don't share a huge gap, Pushkar was always looked upon as a son by Jai...a son that Jai could never have himself!

Jai's proposal to Pia. I always thought that it was so strange the way Jai proposed to Pia, as if he is keeping a business proposal in front of her rather than telling the woman of his dreams that he loves her and wants to marry her. Jai tells her that he can "buy" her all the happiness of the World that his "Wealth" and "Influence" can buy. Also, I found it very strange that despite knowing fully well how materialistic and money-minded Pia was, a man like Jai, who belives in Love and Human Emotions ever proposed to Pia. I think that Jai guessed Pia's priorities in life are not a family and children like any normal woman would want, but wealth and power...which he would be able to give her!

The whole emotional volcano that erupted when Pia ran out on him and Jigyasa told him that people will question his "Masculinity". Remember how outraged and stunned Jai was and what a tight slap he had given to Jigyasa! The reason why he was so angry and so immensely hurt was not only because Pia broke his heart but also because she made him remember his one "weakness" that he cannot rectify. The insuiation on Jai's masculinity by Jigyasa really erupted the buried insecurity and anguish in Jai's heart!

Why is Jai so afraid of Bani coming to know of his Past? Well, it can be because as most of you have suggested, because of her Mother being a victim of Jai and Roshni's Car accident...but if that was the case, then Jai being the man he is, would have never made Bani suffer the way she has suffered....the guilt of killing her Mother would have made Jai instantly forgive Pia and Bani for whatever mistakes they would have done...because all said and done, even Jai would realize that killing a person and hiding the truth is far, far worse than someone running out on you on your Wedding Day!

Jai has fallen in love with Bani and he knows Bani only too well to understand that a girl like her has dreams of having a normal family and children and that he would not be able to give...and hence to save Bani from any further heart-ache, he told her to go and live her life.....you can only let go of a person from your life when you truly love that person and wants to see his/ her happiness...in this case, Jai percieves that his inability to give a child to Bani might be the cause of her unhappiness and hence wants to set her free.

Roshni's remarks and expression's suggested that the Accident had to do with their breaking up also. Roshni remarks to Jai that the accident changed everything and they could not even marry because of it! Now, why would Jai and Roshni not marry, if they had accidentally killed someone? If they can share the guilt, I cannot see why they cannot go ahead and marry and keep the secret with themselves, where was the need to go seperate ways?

I would love to read your views on the above......

Love,

MT

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Posted: 19 years ago
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You have a point and the theory definitely makes sense. But the question remains, if Roshni and Jai didn't get married at that time due to Jai's inability to have a child then why is Roshni back in his life now? In one of the episodes, Roshni mentions that the 'Raaz' will create a toofan...why would it create a toofan? Jai's marriage is not real......who would be affected by the news? Mausi??

I guess we just have to wait and watch.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I think your theory may be bang on MT. It would make sense that he can't have kids... hence, as you say, Pushkar and his generosity.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Roshni knows Jai extremely well to also guess that he has grown very attached to his wife and all that talk about "False Marriage" is only to give a reassurance to his own heart....hence Roshni tells Jai that if Bani comes to know of his past, it will create a Toofan in his life....

Jai might be a lot of things, but he is not a coward...he would never kill anyone and then hide such a huge truth from the very woman who's Mother he had knocked off....simply Out of Character for Jai Walia!

MT
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Do you think it's possible that Roshni has come back to Jai's life in order to help him overcome his past? Maybe she really cares for him and has come back to his life to help him overcome his insecurities and be happy with Bani???
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Posted: 19 years ago
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hey this is my first post......neways

i agree w/ you MT........if Jai and Rosh would have killed Bani's Mom, jai would've not treate Bani this way........as he would have felt some guilt or remorse.

I almost agree with every point of yours, but i still have doubt as per doyel update Roshini says that this involves Bani - Jai's FAKE wife. If Roshini thinks that Bani n Jai relationships is temp, then y would she worry bout Bani or telling her..?????

mita
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Posted: 19 years ago
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that could probably be the reason, MT. i never really thought about that, but after reading your post, i feel that could be the reason. this could be the reason as to why jai always treated bani rudely and didn't want her to fall in love with him. ok, if this is the actual reason, how's bani going to react to this? i'm sure she'll still love him no matter what, and if this is the reason, i'm almost certain a miracle will happen.
oh yes... i also remember two old episodes of KS where jai brings out the topic about his "masculinity" to bani. this was when he was talking about how pia insulted him and all. i remember this clearly, but i didn't actually think that could be the reason.
oh gosh... i really wanna know the reason already! they better reveal it soon!
- Roshni
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I like your theory MT about Jai not being able to have kids.. No one knows cuddles as well as you do, it seems like you reside in his mind..Excellent !!!!

I have a comment though, his inability to have kids in the past may not be true at present as things could have changed due to medical advancements. besides if 2 ppl strongly love, care and respect each other, not being able to have kids is not hugh deal...
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: lighthouse



I have a comment though, his inability to have kids in the past may not be true at present as things could have changed due to medical advancements. besides if 2 ppl strongly love, care and respect each other, not being able to have kids is not hugh deal...



You have a good point but Jai being an old fashioned, sensistive guy doesn't realize that yet and maybe, just maybe Roshni will help him realize that (I have my fingers corssed😛).
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Posted: 19 years ago
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wow MT...this is different...and the way you've put forward your argument is really convincing...but if this is the case...then what does Jai's past have to do with the acciden? cause we know by now that there IS an accident involved...but the details are still a mystery to us...

~ Nibbles 😛

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