Bhoomi as a bahu & patni

Hi everyone,

The show is getting interesting with Bhoomi's job and house dilemma. Even I can't stop thinking about the situation sometimes. I totally agree with Bhoomi's point of view that she should have a career and her identity even though she is married. Being married does not mean that she has to stay home all the time.

Yet, at the same time, I feel like she is deserting her responsibilities as bahu. I don't mean to say that bahus should stay at home but they should be at home some time to look after the family. Bhoomi knew what she was getting into when she got married into the family. This is not one of those families where they have butlers and maids so no one has to work. Bhoomi knew what she would have to do but now she is neglecting them. I think she has failed even as a bhabhi because she is never shown interacting with Nilay, Uday, or Divya. Even when Divya asked for her help, Bhoomi turned around and made the situation about her own issues and stomped away.

As a wife, Bhoomi never tries to listen to Ilesh - she has always made him listen to her point of view. She never compromises and she has too many impossible expectations from Ilesh. I wonder why they got married in the first place if they knew each other?

Her role in the house has made the show very interesting because everything has changed. One person can bring in a lot of chaos! How do you guys feel about Bhoomi fulfilling her responsibilities? Do you think you saw it coming? Was it obvious that she would act this way?

Nidhi

I agree with you.

Bhoomi is an only child and has always gotten her way, because she was always treated as a princess, she sulks when others treat her like regular folk and throws tantrum when she is overwhelmed. I think with Kmom's krishangirri and some adjustment period, Bhoomi will try to become a better bahu, wife, and SIL. This is very new for her -- a big family and huge responsibility, give her time to settle in. Her heart is in the right place right now its trial and error phase for her

Bhoomi ko ishq ka bukhaar chada tha and she overlooked the realities of life. I do understand that she would like to have a career and the family should adjust to that too by helping out.

Having said that, I think that Bhoomi is a bigger problem here as she is not consistent in her relationships with her inlaws. She is nice one minute and then rude the next. She quickly assumes and snaps. Rather, if she was smart, she would have got the family to understand and help out with the household activities and had a balanced environment. I think her attitude will cause her problems and maybe an eventual breakup in her marriage.