when opposit attracts - jai and bani

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Posted: 19 years ago
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we are mature enough to understand what is called relationship. everyone has their own sight of judging, analyising and understanding of relation. when two person got married having a same line of thinking, liking, background, life becomes very smooth. then there is no charm in living. there is no excitement in relationship. u can call in this way also. (this is my point of view. it may be possible others will not agree on it.) but what happen if, two person got married having totally opposit personality? what if, there is nothing common between them. e.g. from nature to backgroung to way of living life. and what if, the two who have a opposit personaliy fall in love with each other? then i think life is with full of excitement with initial pain,hardship and adjustment to develope a relationship.

here we have jai and bani who have totally opposit personality. we have jai who is a mature,very rich, arrogant, strict, very successful business tycoon, short tempered, adorable, little spoil by his very near ones yet sensitive, emotional, loving, having a habit to tell the truth on the face of a person,very good human being and who haven't face any kind of pain after his parents death in his life. on the other hand we have bani who is very kind, loving, understanding nature, much mature than her age becoz of her circumstances, like a mother figure for her sis, coming from a middle class family,very good human being and who face enough pain in her life.

after her parents death bani alongwith her 2 sis came to jai's house for shelter and story move ahead . things have changed so fast and destiny played its important role by tieing two opposit human being in life long bonding called marraige. for every marraige of this kind, there is a hardship, pain and adjustment at initial stage. jai and bani are going through exactly from the same situation. we are aware of the circumstances in which both get married. there is nothing common between them except pain. nature of pain for both the person is different but content is same. these opposit human being are facing the initial problems of their kind of marraige. they are adjusting with each other by giving and taking pain & hardship. through this process they are coming closer. they are developing a feeling of love for their partner.

now, opposit attracted towards each other but with different personality, different outlook to see life and own reservation due to past bad experiances, they are hesitate in admitting their love for each other. jai is not able to find the way to admit his love becoz he is afraid of getting hurt again by knowing the fact.(her leaving house and him one day). a man who never face any hardship or went through emotional break down in his life have a disaster one by one in relation of love, it is very natural that before taking one step ahead, he will taken a back 2 step for starting a new relation with the woman he got married. eventhough he fall for love, it is very hard for him to commit.so he is keeping the distance and creat such a situation that other one start to hate him by hurting himself. on the other side bani don't want to admit her love for him. she is ready to accept pain and humiliation for her love. jai develope a situation so that bani start to hate him but happen exactly opposit. she fall for him more deeply. but as we knows when jai and bani, two opposit people admit their love for each other, there will be only happiness in their life and nothing else. their love will be so immense, so mature, so deep with full respect becoz it emerge from pain and hardship.

love,

kiah

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Posted: 19 years ago
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i agree that they will share love which will be coupled with respect n admiration for each other.... having faced difficult times...
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Posted: 19 years ago
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wonderfully written Kiah...but i disagree with the last bit...even after they admit their love to each other, they'll still have a miserable life...because it's not us who control KS, but unfortunately, Ekta Mayi does ...
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Posted: 19 years ago
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i agree with both Kiah and Nibbles. If Jai and Bani accept their love, they'll be very happy only if we see it as reality n not show. but wht nibbles said is also ight - everythin depends on Ekta mayi n coz of the show, Jai and Bani will get so much pain in their way. otherwise, show is endin after their acceptions of love.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhruv4vedika

i agree with both Kiah and Nibbles. If Jai and Bani accept their love, they'll be very happy only if we see it as reality n not show. but wht nibbles said is also ight - everythin depends on Ekta mayi n coz of the show, Jai and Bani will get so much pain in their way. otherwise, show is endin after their acceptions of love.

so tru i agree w/ all of ya😉😉😉......kiah, nibbles, n dhruv4vedika.....well said.....the part w/ opposite atrraction.....then the part w/ ekta controling the show.....n lastly the part bout if they live happily eva after then the show wud b ending soon..........well said u guyz👏

but i still want to c jai n bani together......😳😳😳..hehe😛

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