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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think though Anandi is trying to understand Gauri's point of view she is also being unfaoir to some extent by hiding the truth about their marriage legality. Now that realisation is creeping in Gauri that may be Jagat took he for a ride for which open eyed agreed to, it might be good idea if Anandi can tell her that gauri is the woh in the triangle as of now.
Gauri would still have some time to salvage her respect and still go back to her studies...once her relationship with jagya goes even further...kids n all...this setback would be really unbearable for her and difficult to repair...
I don't understand what Anandi is getting by hiding the truth.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think the 'conscious' Anandi wants to avoid messy legal hassles. As she herself said there is no point in doing all this because Jagya does not love her ... and proving the legality will not bring him back to her (she is only thinking from her perspective - not Gauri's) nor would she want a relationship where he is forced to be with her. In addition, she is concerned about haveli's ijjat.

The only benefit to anandi in declaring the legality would be to stake a claim on alimony, property, assets etc. And she knows she does not have to do it on legal grounds, Bhairon will automatically ensure that her future is taken care of.
To tell Gauri of legality is meaningless - because she wants Gauri and Jagya to have a happy life... and the legality of the marriage will only be important if anandi wants to challenge it, which she doesn't. So why go through the hassle of a divorce on paper?
The 'subconscious' Anandi may still not want to sever her marital ties with jagya, stupid as it seems after all that jagya has done to her. She may, in some secret corner of her heart, still feel that one day Gauri may fade out of the picture, and then if a and j marriage is still intact, then Jagya will come back to her. If they are divorced, he may go elsewhere. She said so herself that this is not my Jagya - it is some stranger Jagat from the city.
Personally, I think that as mahaan as anandi is being, there is still some subconscious revenge stuck in her mind, (not conscious, because consciously she wants to do the right thing) ...and she can always have the satisfaction of knowing that Gauri is just 'paraya' for Jagya.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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as far as Anandi is concerned, she is doing the rite thing from wher she stands..

1. She wants G-J's acceptance.. bcoz J is no more hers and wants him to b happy.. revealing illegality wud only worsen matters for him now.. and further strain his r'ship with G.. bt she knows J is wrong.. and so she said she wud divorce wen the time is rite.. jst to do the rite thng..
2. She is clear tht going to court wud defame her sasural which is like her own home to her now.. bt it happened b4 J's mrg news spread.. and now tht all is revealed.. she need not to worry abt defamation of J or haveli.. she mite give J divorce soon...
3. Y wud she care abt G.. wen she didnt even tell her b4 getting married to J.. its wholly G's discretion.. and moreover.. if she lets this out, she wud b at wrong end.. and G wud thnk she did it on purpose.. and even J wud b suspicious of her intentions..
4. She knows this legal issue is gonna pop up some day.. sooner or later.. and is ready with it..

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