is Suolchana that bad

Guys

I totally agree with u on this one. Sulochana may have her wrongs but she tolerated that evil Manju who was always conniving and wanting to do bad to her in laws which Vinod seems to have forgotten. Sulochana seems to be the kind of the mom who tolerates her DIL inspite of all the problems she has created. I don't understand why ppl think Sulochana is a bad mother...I think she was too good to Manju...and Vinod needs to think for himself why he is unable to come up in life...even after getting a good quality education from his parents he needs to understand that they have done for him and the house is theirs and they are his blood. Vinod I think is the worst person here than Manju...when the good refuse to accept that the evil are what they are then they are considered worse than the devil himself. Vinod seems to have lacked a lot in his upbringing for him to treat his mother like this. After all he can work hard and earn for himself by doing at least one full time job and part time job as well. Just think of it - why does he need to save a flat in which they are not going to live in until they have this house? The money he spent on the flat is going to be reason for the ruin of his wife and himself and his children. He saved the flat kicked out his mother, and insulted his father's actions and went against his own siblings - this will obviously result in his fall. And when his mother takes away the blessings they would shower on their children then they will be left with nothing but ruin. He will be left to clean and do all the work in the house and with Rasika around and that's the day he will realise how bad a mistake he made. Like my father would say: "You will learn your mistake for this:"

Darn it I lost my wonderful post. Grrr

Well i personally dont feel that Sulochana was that bad a mother to her children to deserve what she has got. Well it is supposed to b her karma. Gosh this is a fiction, the characters have gone through massive transformations, once a saint now a devil types. I'm perplexed that CVs have not applied divine or "karmaic" forces for some characters. Or may b these forces will come into action in the last few episodes😆
Coming to Sulochana, as a mother, she has always put her kids' happiness ahead of everything and this for me is enough to respect her. But her tolerance of crap from a bahu who never ever respected her or care a fig for this house where she has been living shamelessly and never ever considered hers, has put her in this situation today. Doing n bearing injustice is both a crime and Sulochana was too indulgent. Her mistake was not to set her foot down n give that Manju a good slap when needed while she did teach her (innocent) damaad a lesson without thinking twice, double standards alright but not enough to be condemned a criminal n to be thrown out of her house, a house which she has turned into a home with her husband.

Reading some of the posts here on Sulo's predicament is indeed baffling.

No mother should be treated that way by their own child,be it Sulo,Savita,Rasika,Bhavna, Dharmesh' mom not even Manju.My sympathies with Sulo now has nothing to do with the fact she is Archana's mother.I condemn ill treatment of parents.

As far as Vinod is concerned,I think he is a sad excuse for a human being.Be a man and get your own house instead of stooping so low and conning your mother to sign away her only property.Manav paid the loan when it was repossesed, any person with an ounce of dignity would not even think of claiming his right on such house.

i consider sulo to be a good mother..😃..she has never thought of harming any people..be it good or evil people..so in my view she is decent human being..😃

Errr how many more topics are going to be opened for discussing the same issue? 😆
No offence Topic starter, if you do not agree then you can just reply your views in that topic itself. No need to open another thread pointing fingers at the 'mails' which you do not agree. Tbh, these sort of topics are the reason why this forun is so divided.

Hey dewy!
But this is the types of topics which r supposed to b opened
@ Topic opener:
At ur question : Is Sulo that bad?
Well it's a big no, period.😊

I agree to ur post.
I have sympathy towards Sulochana, she isnt a bad human being, at the end of the day everybody has done mistakes, that dosnt mean she should be punished this harsh..
And me sympathising on sulochana has got nothing to do with she being Archana's mom..

Let it be Savita, Rasika, Bhavna, or Sulochana, i dont approve such ill treatment by kids towards their parents..
Though i never liked Savita for her being so cruel towards Archana, i never wished that she should be ill treated or harrassed more.. No parents are bad, its just the circumstances which makes them do bad sometimes..
Rasika has ruined everybodies lives in the show, but still i never want her to suffer anything bad.
I actually had not even liked her own grand children not talking to her properly the other day and i had posted the same..

For me Sulochana is not a bad women or a bad mother.. She has few flaws in her same as Savita.

No parents should be treated so bad in their old age..

Originally posted by: omshreejaanu

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Why? 😊