Originally posted by: vaishiksg
hey Maha i read ur last upd8... i wud like to say.. i didnt quiet like it that much .. n i have my reasons -
1. ridz has jus gone thru a traumatic phase... n being a girl.. its very tough to get physical wid n e one for that matte... girls r very sensitive in such issues.. n they take their time.. n armaan is nt helping her at all.. he is jus jumping on his needs..his actions r totally diff.. frm wat he says or thinks...
2. Armaan instead of being more supportive n patient... is being pushy.. as in .. one point he says.. he will wait for her.. let her compose herself even if it takes eternity n on the other hand.. he tries b physical wid her... n wen ridz try to stop him he gts angry.. one needs to understand.. that nt always physical intimacy reduces ur pain... ther r sumthing knw as emotional support... understanding... armaan pretend sto understand her bt the next moment he loses himself wen it cums to his desires...
3.. den ridz starts feeling guilty for saying no to him n jus becoz she is scared of losing him so she gave in..
i mean i m nt able to connect here ...n from the start of the ff armaan has been like this.. he has been very pushy n dominating.. at the end of the day he is also behaving like a typical men..
PS- i dun intend to hurt u wid my Pov.. its jus wat i felt...
okay, uh have taken the entire story, in a very different prespective, either i have not been good at explaining or i really did mix up things,
the whole idea of this story is like this; that Riddhima can Not make decision - she was always dependent on her friends, and was particularly forced in marriage - but later when Armaan ensured her about her studies - she felt some new hopes arise in her life, later Armaan found out about her relation with her parents, he supported her - made wise descision for her, helped her in any way possible. he did take the decision of marrying her - but from the start it had Not been about his need and his action, it had always been about her - if she is comfortable!
from the start - it had always been about Riddhima ! and once they got married, it had still been about her! but later due to her consent they decided to go for next level, and she herself made herself ready for her husband, who waited patiently for 7 months! and on other hand, Armaan is man too, and he had been dealing with a 20 year old girl... call him a typical man or something like that but he had been a very gentle man for a very long time- and had always been a calm person...
and after that kidnap, Riddhima had herself asked him to make him forget all those terrible feeling she felt, and Armaan had been beside her, he had talked to her... he had listened to her - calmed her down and Riddhima is young and she had felt light hearted after sharing her fear... and herself given into the moment, though with the fear of losing him(which will be a task of Armaan in few later parts to reduce her this fear), if you read the part - you would notice Riddhima was really calm in this part, joking having fun... laughing...! and thats when he had gone for it...!
after a person reaches at a standard level they keep some expectation from each other, i didn't find the last part hasty... but it Might BE!
You do have a point... but i differ your thought, Armaan might be a pushy but he had always heard her word first and then made a decision...!
and no i am NOT hurtš - i am happy to get a true criticismš
hope my soo long bakwas didn't bore you and i have been able to send my POV to you...š³
and i have dissappointed you from alast part - i will try my best and make it up to you in next partš
Edited by Hello_01 - 14 years ago
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