Is it Suhana's fault only? - Page 8

Originally posted by: aneesha_sahani

Right julie n not even suhana after seeing the convo b/w BM n suhana yesterday i feel BM also doesn't want suhana to repeat the same mistake which she did as i think BM still feels itz cuz of her BP leave the house(which is not true)but it will be more nice if she teach suhana to take care of the family also along with ishaan itz not she should pay her full attention to ishaan or to the family either there should be balance b/w the two...n.i'm sure suhana will understand it she needs a proper guidance...but for now let her give sum time to spend with her hubby n come back to normal as now shez too excited to get back ishaan in her life so let her enjoy n then give her responsibility of the house.

Originally posted by: netri

Madhu , I too think that Yesterday was not a big deal . Yes, But when someone asks U to do something for them U do it for them lovingly as Rajni made Aloo Puri for suhana's demand . Thsi happens in any family but when it was suhana's turn to take care of meethi's homework , her mind was preoccupied somewhere else. Yeh hi hai ladkiyonki problem na..ek baar phone pe chat shuru kare tho end hi nahi hota..bechari suhana ki kyaa galti..😆😆 Just kidding!

Both rajni & suhana have gone much forward in their relationship, have developed a great bonding & understanding. Now suhana is like a kid sister to her..she understands her more than anyone else in the family..then why rajni has not scolded/ reminded or interrupted suhana to end her chatar patar and ask her to attend her responsibility..as an elder & being matured enough cant she do that???? suhana will not feel bad ..was there an need for rajni to change her expressions that too back..will suhana understand it...she being so pure at heart cant understand behind the lines concept unless someone points out to her...

Yesterday no one asked suhana to cook , she herself made promise to cook [ remind U she wasn't going to b alone in the kitchen RD were going to b there to help her . But they were excited as they will learn something from suhana & that was something they didn't know how to make ] U don't just forget the promises !!!! I understand that she got her husband back after 2 months . I don't have problem with suhana spending some time with ishan alone . Problem I have with her is when ishan is not home , she doesn't help out either . that is wrong . Love - Romance is important . U must spend time with ur husband alone . Very important but not at cost of hurting family members. They r also important part of ur life too .

i agree that life has to move on...but how many days have passed after ishaan got his memory back...Its hardly not more than a day..the amount of pain she has gone through cannot be compensated by anyone in the family other than ishaan...so being in excitement for one or 2 days doesn't matter much...ok come to the family ..did they celebrated their re-union..what they did for him...nothing...it was for the family to take the lead and should have planned something special for them...but they dint??? were they not at fault...as there was nothing from their side suhana might have thought to make the day memorable for everyone and might have proposed it but again it should be for the elders to say no to it...coz everyone knows that she is in cloud 9..

is the word "hurt" have the same meaning for everyone in kashyap parivaar...nope ...this word definition is altogether different for suhana & ishaan..R&D and entire family behave with these two as if this word is not existent their lifes...so if you compared with what they did to her this hurt stands no where.

what these R&D did when she was alone depressed thinking about his beloved..was that not the right time to make her involved in household chores and get herself engaged and make herself to accustom to these things..

So still i dont find fault in these two things..but the precap Oh.No!!!

but i must say that time has come for suhana to understand these things and has to become mature in character, behaviour what not everything and want to see her realization/growth as an complete woman on her own but not due to kitchen politics.

Netri & sheema : you both have explained the meaning of family,etc...in the best way and its just like a notes for the teens & who are going to get married soon ...i just loved reading them

thanks to aneesha for opening this topic other wise i would have missed a great discussion.