Is it Suhana's fault only?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey guyzz i'm bit upset reading all of ur comments abt suhana's behaviour now a dayzz n want to ask is she the only one whoz at fault...seriously i don't think so...i won't say she is 100% correct but shez not 100% wrong either...yeah shez wrong in a way as she has to told Rajni beforehand if she changed her plan..so tat Rajni can get started preparing the dinner rather than waiting her to make pizza...but tat doesn't mean she is wrong at every point...after complete 2 months she get her hubby back n now she wants to spend sum time with him is ths wrong why don't R & D understand ths n give her sumtime ...offcourse why would they understand as they have not face all tat which suhana has who is only one suffered during ishaan illness others r just enjoying n having fun at her expense nobody cares abt her..her feelings not even the elders...so if they don't bother abt suhana much then y she always have to take care of their feelings ki what will my bhabhi think if i do ths or tat..Why??
If R & D truly loves suhana as their own sister then they might have stopped their husbands from doing all these chichiorapanti which they have done but no both these ladies have joined them in mocking suhana n misleading her...n ques abt suhana can neglect to what all they are saying then again tat girl is so inncocent to understand kashyap's tactics n itz all the love of her towards family members which made her do so...she blindly believe them n do what they saying bt the kashyap's misused her love trust n innocence as always... now what suhana is doing is sumwhere down the line is correct kashyap's deserve ths to what they hv done with her...even b4 BT track they have said to suhana tat u r pregnant judged by expert R & D which obviously shez not...they have built wrong hopes in her which get shattered afterwards again who suffered suhana n with her ishaan also ...so why always we want suhana to be perfect why don't kashyap's learn sumthing.
I read sheemu di wrote even when suhana wants to do sumthing sumone or the other stops her(agree with sheemu di) so why now all r blaming her only if u have overpampered the child then obviously his/her habits will b like tat uske aadate toh bigade he nah so ready to bear itz outcome also... as u r equally responsible in it first u don't let her do anything thinking she will spoil it now u want her to do everything ths is not way n suhana is not kind of person who run away from work cuz of laziness or she doesn't want to do it...itz just tat she want to spend sumtime with her hubby c'mon itz not a big deal...kashyap's can compromise with ths. ...i know suhana never say no to any work even if she does not know how to do it she will learn it but never give it up i have full trust in my suhana...as she has the desire to become a gud bahu n a wife n she will prove it to everyone one day.Ok she is childish but her heart is pure n she says whatz is her heart ... not at all double faced like K family Moo mein ram bagal mein choori.
N don't forget she has also done many sacrifices for kashyap's out of which the biggest one is shopping offcourse which she is really fond of.
BTW I want suhana to do two things:-
1.Learn cooking so tat she can make whatever she want for her n for ishaan rather than everytime demanding/requesting others to make for them.
2.Do sum work other than household chores or sitting idle like help ishaan in his career,join her dad business, or start sumthing on her own. n prove everyone i'm not less than anyone else.
P.s. sorry i didn't meant to hurt anyone's feeling have just wrote my viewpoint hope u guyzz don't mind.😊
Edited by aneesha_sahani - 14 years ago

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Ara Baap re 😲 😆

I m on Vacation...Doctor has asked me to avoid reading long posts 😳🤣
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rubaldhillon

Ara Baap re 😲 😆


I m on Vacation...Doctor has asked me to avoid reading long posts 😳🤣


same here😆...even i dont like reading long posts ...but still i m reading it as aneesha had took so much of pains to write😉
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Aneesha beautifully written👏
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Ara Baap re 😲 😆

I m on Vacation...Doctor has asked me to avoid reading long posts 😳🤣
Jab tak tum maar nahi jaate😉
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: meenakshi_16


same here😆...even i dont like reading long posts ...but still i m reading it as aneesha had took so much of pains to write😉

Write meenu dear it took me whole one hour to write ths n my fingers r paining now😉Btw i also don't like reading long post😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: 111192

Aneesha beautifully written👏

Thank u so much di😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: aneesha_sahani

Write meenu dear it took me whole one hour to write ths n my fingers r paining now😉Btw i also don't like reading long post😆


see i can understand ur pain...as when it comes to making posts i follow renu di's path and try to complete it in a single sentence😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Welcome to the world of married and joint family life!!!!!! It's a learning process and an ongoing one, you cant learn everything and be perfect , there is no such thing as perfect , everybody has weakneses and strengths , so balancing your strengths and weakness and compromise is the key for a fairly peaceful life in a joint family, give and take , helping each other out, looking after each other , caring for each other , giving space.
I agree that Suhana has been through a lot because of the stupidity of the family and she was also to blame for not behaving like an educated girl and seek outside help, now she wants to spend time with Ishaan , fair enough , just tell the bhabis that she doesnt want to be doing anything for days m
, weeks months what ever , don't make commitments, The family should understand as well and don't take it to heart , Suhana does forget things so either remind her or have a plan B , I didn't like the word you used here of begging, she demanded , Rajni said I will make it tomorrow, they were busy , breakfast was already late, in the morning making Aloo poori on demand is not convenient , I know as I like to know in advance as a lot of preparation is needed, but still they did it . Suhana is not into house chores they all know that , they shouldn't expect from her, but being part of a family Suhana should some how do her own thing for the family. She could help Meethi, Ishika, decorate rooms etc etc, in her free time and when Ishaan comes she can spend all her time with him. But reality is different then serials , SGP is showing a very real scenario which many of us could relate. Suhana is the main lead , a loveable character , it's hard to find faults in her !!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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First of all sorry di for using the word begging...will change it.
N plzz don't mind but i'm not completely agree with u ...why always we want girl to do all the compromises...whatever kashyap's had done can't be easily forgiveable...sorry i'm not saying anything to u but ths is our so called indian culture the in-laws can do anything but the DIl has to be in her limits always sweet to them fulfill her all duties why??...shez also a human being she wants to enjoy her life first she take care of her BIL/SIL kids n then her own...n life finishes when will she live for herself.
N btw suhana has broken only one commitment but kashyap's are far away than ths.

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