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diya09

@diya09

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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: madhu_d
Superbly written Divya...
you are draging me to accept the condition of BM with your amazing explanation but dil nahi maan raha hai..
after seeing the expressions of BM i feel that she is not in state of void...there is a soft corner and the same love towards BP. thinking again again about him means the same...only thing is he has to come forward and ask her to forgive...then she will definitely forgive him and accept him...
two reasons for saying so :
1. she feels that its coz of her he left as she has not done what he wanted ...
2. she thinks herself as a root cause for separation between a son and parents..

its only a different thought...but once again i must say that you have put up wonderfully. kash yeh sach ho..aur aise hi ho..👏

Thanku madhu.. i too wish for it to come true... But as per latest news BM is going to forgive BP.🤢..

This will be like anyone can do any sin and just say a sorry to get back... But Badima has to be the one who forgive always..

one option is, even if Badima say's that she forgave him, she will treat him like a high privileged guest who do not have any access or right over the family whom she has raised alone...But when she thinks herself as a root cause for separation between a son and parents, then no hope for this option too...

whatever they show they should handle BP's situation carefully. If all of a sudden BP is shown content and happy to be back in family, then it wont be good message..

I think Panna's treatment is one of the best way...

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Sheema

@infinity00

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

I agree Diya, what BP did was beyond repair, I still couldnt belive the words he used for BM that wether she is there or not , it doesnt matter for him, how cruel, what happened to his new family, he ditched them as well, or he didnt have any children from Meera?/ he clearly said to Dadaji that he loved her so much that he cant live with out her, after 20 long yeras how can they let him come in , that is beyond me. Agian they are rooting for filmy scenario. I guess SGP may give us good episodes but the essence is lost some where of close to reality.

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Shwetha

@Shwets1502

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

i can add some more..

BM's biggest support in the house has been dadi and dadaji...

dadi has always given her a mother's love...so BM for the sake of dadi...who is craving for BP may say she will forgive him...and even ask him to come back home...BM can persuade dadaji also...BM may think...this is the least she can do for the family...

but whatever BP did cannot be forgotten by anyone...evenif BM tries for the sake of dadi...or may be herself...she cannot be honest with him...

the whole family cant be what they actually are...

dadaji will never forgive..Inder too will never forgive..Alok evenif he accepts BP to come back..may not forget what he has done to everyone...

On the whole...it will be BP who will realise he has done a huge mistake coming back...and the best he can do for the family now is to leave them...

abt BM...she may still love him..as she feels part of the mistake was on her side...bt she hasnt realised what exactly she will feel when she actually accepts...

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Netri

@iViews

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

Nice post Diya , Sheema di , madhu everyone said it all for me ... so agree with all of U . 😃

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abhi

@abhi786

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

I think BM is in dialmaa, she herself doesn't want to tell that she forgive BP now, as she has seen the pain of the family and here children..So BM is surpressing her feelings.. I think she will feel bad when BP comes to his family and Inder, dadaji , RB all will not be normal with him.. Then she will feel sympathy and BP pain will make her to forgive as he has suffered..

But accepting BP as a husband and living happily as nothing happend is the worst twist in SGP..It gives wrong message to society.. BM will become NIRUPAMA ROY and BP is PRAN in the movie (purab and paschim)...

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diya09

@diya09

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Posted: 14 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: Shwets1502
i can add some more..

BM's biggest support in the house has been dadi and dadaji...
dadi has always given her a mother's love...so BM for the sake of dadi...who is craving for BP may say she will forgive him...and even ask him to come back home...BM can persuade dadaji also...BM may think...this is the least she can do for the family...

but whatever BP did cannot be forgotten by anyone...evenif BM tries for the sake of dadi...or may be herself...she cannot be honest with him...
the whole family cant be what they actually are...

dadaji will never forgive..Inder too will never forgive..Alok evenif he accepts BP to come back..may not forget what he has done to everyone...

On the whole...it will be BP who will realise he has done a huge mistake coming back...and the best he can do for the family now is to leave them...

abt BM...she may still love him..as she feels part of the mistake was on her side...bt she hasnt realised what exactly she will feel when she actually accepts...

agree with you swetha. I think it is going to happen. But as other tracks like Ilesh and Inder track are coming up is there any chance were BP gets involved and family cannot help it? this will change the situation. But its said that BP lost his job and everything. so don't know how he is going to help them..

if BP himself goes out the family after he is received that will agitate everyone more. The situation will be like the saying - cannot spit out as its sweet and not able to swallow as its bitter.

This will be like "history repeats..." for kashyap family.. same old frustration!

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Shwetha

@Shwets1502

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Posted: 14 years ago

#17

@diya...agreed abt the last line...but...no one will be accepting him whole heartedly except dadi...so if BP leaves...it will be a kind of relief for them...iam not sure though abt this thought...

abt inder and ilesh and BP involving...i think he will understand how tough it must have been when he had left...especially for Alok...may be its time he realises why the family is not ready to accept him...

we can just wait and watch...bt BP been taken into the family happily...i cant see it happening...

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Nosheen

@Nosh007

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Posted: 14 years ago

#18

i dnt think Badi Ma should accept him back, he has only returned back to his family pretending to be remorseful because he lost his job and his second family have abandoned him! Hate people like that. I dnt think Inder and Panna will want to know him, especially as he has missed half their life!

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