Me no like it :( - Page 4

Originally posted by: anantanant

Nisha, thank you so much for your kind words :-)

Just wanted to touch upon what smisidren (sorry I don't know your name) has mentioned in her reply. I think she's hit the nail on the head regarding Anya chemistry - I too feel that they've become buddies after the ilu - not at all a bad thing and probably happens in most relationships - the initial awkwardness goes away and there is confidence that the other person loves you, so the relationship becomes more ... hmmm ... comfortable (for want of a better word). That's fine with me. Where I have a problem is - to me things feel a bit forced... May be because Anant is not standing up to anything at home?

May be he is appearing too weak (this transformation is after the picnic - earlier he had some guts - if you see the initial week episode when he was questioned about the Valentine's day fight in college, he actually defended himself quite normally). I am getting this feeling from the show that nowadays everything will be left to Navya to handle - I won't be surprised if she actually asks for Anant's hand in marriage from the zoo ppl (ok I am exaggerating here but you get my drift)... She is this all-sacrificing, ever-patient and understanding daughter/sis/friend/girl-friend and I am sure perfect bahu as well... I think this is making me unhappy - I want Anant to have a lot more spunk and be an equal partner, especially because Shaheer is a good actor and it will be a shame to slowly turn him into a weak guy, when he can do that much more... He should have stood up against his sagaai and should show a firm but polite "mind your own business" attitude to Rama...

Sorry for the rant about Anant's character, but in my opinion, as Shaheer is the stronger actor of the two, making his character weak is what is making me uneasy? Sowmya lovers, hold your fire, I am all for noting that it's her first show and that she's fine playing the happier scenes, it's just that I wished they were at least equals in the characterisation - don't want to see Navya always fixing things in their relationship...

Originally posted by: laddoo598

@Nisha: I actually can remember a "huggy" moment with Ranbir..It wasn't in an actual episode but remember the mahaepisode promo?? Anant hugs Ranbir and the trio were in a group hug??

Originally posted by: navyaalex8

O dagnabbit, I was sure I was right...(wiping the smug grin off my face)...Yes, I was wrong....Anant does do male-bonding hugs as well 😆

Originally posted by: navyaalex8

@Apology

Your husband sounds like a paragon of virtue... Can u please tell me how u arrange for him to be in the wrong every time?😆 (Strictly joking , pleeeze dont be offended coz none was intended)

Originally posted by: smisidren

Nisha i wont speak , cook or eat when we fight... No Cooking and hunger strike is very effictive😃 Plus he is too busy to carry on with fights... So for food and peace he always makes the first move...

Ours was a love marriage with lot of real life drama...Myself is christian and he is hindu...He always make sure that i'm more happier with him than when i was with my family😉