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SudhaSangeet

@SudhaSangeet

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Posted: 14 years ago

he scolded Archana for petty reason that she wasnt able to communicate foreigner in fluent english

and gave reason, I didnt like you to get insulted in the party...

come on you felt your wife was insulted so much in party by dharmesh then you should have back answered him then and there itself, but Manav chose easy route to scold archana

Justifying manav that he was thinking of Archana is ok, but where Archana is wrong, she too can get hurt not because someone like dharmesh insulted her but because her husband isnt ion her side...

Manav ka muh tab kyun nahi khulta when Maahan Archana openly shares and gives her child to Varsha, that time he never scolds her, y are you parcelling our baby to varsha every now and then...😡

She deserves a good fatkaar then not now

Edited by sudha100 - 14 years ago

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Posted: 14 years ago

What ?? Manav scolded Archana in spite of that @%$#%^ Dharmesh?

I don't understand why the archana manav duo keep silence in the time of being of insulted by yackeee dharmesh?

Manav u r also not so well-educated. So, even u can also face problem during conversation . Toh, why all anger over archana? U shud have given a tight slap 2 dharmesh at that time 4 insulting ur wife.

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bhallarox

@bhallarox

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Posted: 14 years ago

I agree sudha, but it was good he told his wife off outside, but whatever he said may have been harsh but it was right. Archana should have answered back at Dharmesh, how could she easily let him win like this? My sympathy goes 10% to Archana, on the fact that first Dharmesh insulted her and on top of that a scolding from her husband. This may have gotten a bit too much for her, but yes she should have gotten Dharmesh back for what he did. This Dharmesh deserves a big punishment. I have zero sympathy for him and his wife, none are nice people, Dharmesh is mean to ArMan, and Vaishali is mean to Varun.

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SudhaSangeet

@SudhaSangeet

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: sdoll
What ?? Manav scolded Archana in spite of that @%$#%^ Dharmesh?

I don't understand why the archana manav duo keep silence in the time of being of insulted by yackeee dharmesh?

Manav u r also not so well-educated. So, even u can also face problem during conversation . Toh, why all anger over archana? U shud have given a tight slap 2 dharmesh at that time 4 insulting ur wife.

Dharmesh did kachra of Archana in public and Manav hurt her in private

Yes he too was not highly qualified person, everyone learns with time and i found no reason to get so hyper...

Thats' where Manav faulted instead of giving it back to Dharmesh in public he scolded archana for that incident, wah!!!

He should have done kachra of Dharmesh in party, which he didnt...

Manav you took her to the party for the FIRST time, Archana is solely your responsibility, banked on whom she came to party for first time

Edited by sudha100 - 14 years ago

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SudhaSangeet

@SudhaSangeet

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: bhallarox
I agree sudha, but it was good he told his wife off outside, but whatever he said may have been harsh but it was right. Archana should have answered back at Dharmesh, how could she easily let him win like this? My sympathy goes 10% to Archana, on the fact that first Dharmesh insulted her and on top of that a scolding from her husband. This may have gotten a bit too much for her, but yes she should have gotten Dharmesh back for what he did. This Dharmesh deserves a big punishment. I have zero sympathy for him and his wife, none are nice people, Dharmesh is mean to ArMan, and Vaishali is mean to Varun.

She will not ( it was her inconvenience not to speak fluent english), no one will dare to speak in front of so many people after so much of insult, the people who are with them ( who is insulted stands for them) here no one did, neither Manav not Vaishali her 'dear' sister.

Whatever happened in private is irrelevant for others, instead of pacifying and calming her down, she was put to punishment more by Manav...

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

I am of the opinion that what Manav said was in Archana's best interest but the way he said it was very wrong...

In the party he should have supported her when she fumbled ( she was trying but could not get the vocabulory right ) .

Instead of doing that he came out and thrashed her and even compared her to Vaishali which was so unfair .Archana and her family had never hidden anything from him .Manav and Manav's family were honestly told about Archana's education before the wedding .

It's not that I could not see him screaming at Archana...I would have loved it had he screamed at her even worse for the Soham issue ...

But for that extremely important issue he kept quiet and is showing so much anger on a faltu issue like letting Dharmesh win ...

I liked the way he spoke to her at home about learning about finances and investing .That was the right way to talk ...

Ashna's advise was ttoally bakwaas about apologising in front of everyone ...

bekaar ki dramabaazi .It's good that Ashna cares but she is interfering a little too much ...She is like now telling Manav everything as to how to behave with Archana .Manav himself doesn't know any more how to sort out his problems with his wife ...he only follows Ashna's instructions it seems ...

I felt bad for Archana that she got shouted at for not speakign in English but that whole nonsense about ' I love my mechanic Manav and you have changed ' was a load of crap ...

I am very happy that Manav told her that he has changed for good ...

She has an amazingly low self esteem and obviously it is harmful for her children ...

Archana has to try and change ...Period ...

Archana has to try and understand that Manav only means good for her and instead of all this ' I want old Manav back ' she should try and change herself according to what her husband is asking her to do .

He is her biggest well wisher and he is absolutely right that she has to change ...

Edited by Tanyaz - 14 years ago

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SudhaSangeet

@SudhaSangeet

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Posted: 14 years ago

@ Tanyaz, yes there is no doubt that Manav wanted all good for Archana, but scolding was unnecessary, but I hope this will turn positive for her in near future...

Also Archana will feel out of place where no one is able to understand her, but she should also understand how much Manav felt bad for all this nuisance created by Dharmesh, and Vaishali too stayed quite...she should not have said we were better off gareeb before, your husband and you are enjoying the benefits of this success, sometimes not so pleasant moments come that doesnt mean this is everything is wrong...and Manav should be mechanic once again, try to modify and adjust yourself henceforth than saying we were good without money before which is negative attitude...