Rightfully so, Ahem's spontaneous summations based on words said in the heat of the moment shows how disconnected he is with the actual happenings in the house, the politics and undermining taking place. It is Koki who is joining the dots.
We cannot rely on him to have time to listen to Gopi. His present state of mind and his general behaviour seldom grants him to be pleasant with Gopi unless he is instructed by his mum. It is because of this that it will take him a long time to even see Gopi's worth.
Gopi will need to continue to conform to Ahem.