PLEASE RATAN DONT MARRY ABHINAB,please Read this

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Dear Ratan,Please dont marry Abhinabh Sharma he is too arrogant and dominating kind of a person.He may have a good job but it will be tough for you to lead your whole life with a dominating person.Deepak Pandit on the other hand is a very sweet boy.He is so adjusting.He is also ready to move with you in Mumbai.Just give him a little time he can find a suitable job over there.As educated people dont have to face trouble getting a job.Deepaks mother and his whole family likes you a lot,whereas Abinabs mother said on camera that she dont like your and Abhinab's "jodi".Abhinabs family is also very strict and conservative.If you marry him you will have to do lots of adjustment.Abhinab is also very short tempered.He treats you just as a small girl and not like his girlfriend.So he will always try to dominate you.He thinks whatever he is telling is always right.Deepak is very transperant and very serious about you.So think very hard. As a person Deepak i think is much much better then Abhinab.Dont choose Abhinab only because he is well established.Deepak can also become well established after a few years.What he needs is a little time.And in that time you can get to know him more closely.Marriage should once happen in every ones life and not twice or thrice.So dont take a decision in hast.Talk to your parents and then decide.ALL THE BEST.Take a right decision.I hope you have a very Happy Married Life in the future to come.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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don't worry ... I don't think she's going to marry one of them. Its just publicity stunt and a good way of earning money. We all know Rakhi was not in talking terms with her mom that's why her family didn't come to the swayamwar, but where's Ratan's family? Don't they care who their daughter is marrying? Don't they want to meet with the short listed guys? Its all scripted and at the end of it all she will dump everyone.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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i think if ratan marry abinav , sha may face many problmes because he is dominating, short tempered , erogant and not adjustable. Deepak is the best choice for now as he belong to decent family , has degree, understandable and has the potential to sustain financily. The draw back of abhinave is he can't be change as will not adjust with ratan and mamys boy but compare to deepak he can manage and sustain financily. the long term of Abhinav is higher than Deepak. So, the suitable match for ideal husband for ratan is Deepak . The lon term benefit with deepak is greater than abhinav . You can improve your financial stability by time but the person not understandable and cant adust , there is no meaning of marrige. The risk with Abhinav is higher and his family did't show the interest on her.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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deepak babu ke paas paisa nahi...madamji needs loads of money for shopping.kahan se aayega.Didn't u watch sudesh berry episode? when the professor mentioned that he earned 70,000...even that was not enuff for her daily kharcha is what sudesh said...so deepak babu is ruled out.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chits1

deepak babu ke paas paisa nahi...madamji needs loads of money for shopping.kahan se aayega.Didn't u watch sudesh berry episode? when the professor mentioned that he earned 70,000...even that was not enuff for her daily kharcha is what sudesh said...so deepak babu is ruled out.



i know..but den she should also hve a plan for d family critcz😆😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Well, Ratan had accused Gaurav of trying to buy his way into a luxurious life. So if she expects Abhinav to provide for her extravagant lifestyle, he should just tell her to take a hike! In fact, given how rude and arrogant Ratan has shown herself to be - aside from being a complete ditz, I think that someone like Abhinav is just right for her - someone who can read her the riot act whenever she tries to be oversmart!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Actually this Fruitwala Abhinav isn't a bad character. He just has attitude and ego issues but that's common among a lot of people. I just don't think he right for Ratan, her lifestyle and her thinking. Fruitcake thinking is way above hers and his life is quite the opposite. However in paper and realistically speaking, he fits the criteria parents are looking for in a Dulha and he would be the most practical choice.
Well it's her life who she wants to choose or pretend to choose. If she does choose Abhinav, people shld just wish them well and let them sort out their mess or life.😳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chits1

deepak babu ke paas paisa nahi...madamji needs loads of money for shopping.kahan se aayega.Didn't u watch sudesh berry episode? when the professor mentioned that he earned 70,000...even that was not enuff for her daily kharcha is what sudesh said...so deepak babu is ruled out.


Chitsji I think Deepak will be last man standing ...this post pleading for her not to choose abhinav did make me smile ...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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what a joke. Do you think she is going to marry anyone? How many times the audience needs to be fooled by Imagine?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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honestly, no one is perfect. if a person has sum attitude or ego issues it doesnt mean he is a bad guy. each & evry person have sum ego. but this swamyvar is mostly scripted, so honestly u cant trust anyone.

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